Nice guy vs Alpha in other countries

RPMahoutsukai · 2014-11-20T13:05:25+00:00

Russia here.

There are different girls and they need different approaches. We have our supply of innocent cute girls who get along well with a nice guy if he doesn't really exhibit the worst beta traits (insecurity, worrying, putting her on pedestal) and isn't the worst example of a nice guy. But the relationship often gets boring or dramatic and ends (sometimes after nice guy had some sex). Girls that "know their value" will of course not fall for them at all.

You should understand "nice guy" is really not something viable: it's a disease, a syndrome, a plague. Nice guys are not just some "more polite men", they're broken individuals who need help. They are evil, dishonest and seriously hurt. At least, most nice guys are.

Men that are not showing off alpha traits, do not game women, do not dominate or tease, if they don't have the problems of the "nice guys" - they're beta, and they're better than nice guys, and they are found attractive. More innocent and romantic kind of girls will fall for them, if they have strong beta traits. But again, mostly the relationships end because they can't provide the alpha fix to their women.

I (being a beta and not-so-bad nice guy) had a relationship like that for 2 years at age ~20. I left it myself since it became so stale and boring even for me. She was just this shy cute silent kind of girl. She didn't need alpha. Or maybe didn't even know what alpha is because she never experienced it? Or maybe some PUA tricks I used on rare occasions were enough for her?

Bottom line is, you can get sex as beta, you can get sex as a nice guy (depending how far you are down the road) but hardly will you be desired by majority. I guess it is so for every country. It is just that acceptable ways of displaying alpha change based on the country. Like, Japanese women would probably freak out or freeze if you approach them on street and show your alphaness in an american fashion.

ifajig1 · 2014-11-20T06:41:09+00:00

TomilloDanup · 2014-11-20T06:51:16+00:00

No. Some things about game change. But not muchas, remember "AWALT".

RichieFinn · 2014-11-20T10:15:44+00:00

Stop bitching out of what you know you need to do.

needathrowawayplease · 2014-11-21T17:50:17+00:00

If you read any travel/expat PUA sites, you'll see the common opinion is that Anglosphere women require being more of an asshole.

In Latin America, Asia, and parts of Europe you still need to be a strong man, but you don't have to tease as much or as viciously as you'd have to with a ball-busting NYC lawyer.

http://mavericktraveler.com/how-my-life-regained-harmony-after-i-stopped-dating-american-women/

theprotestingmoose · 2014-11-20T10:22:24+00:00

Poorer countries without a social safety net where the provider role still serves its purpose.

Title	Nice guy vs Alpha in other countries
Author	homercimpson
Upvotes	6
Comments	7
Date	November 20, 2014 4:49 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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