No issues approaching, but have issues just generally being boring?

throw-away-1709 · 2021-02-10T07:04:38+00:00

Don't.

She - blabbers. You - tease/escalate and/or give a word for a direction.

It is boring to the point she bents over wet as hell but that's the game.

kclanton80 · 2021-02-10T12:28:47+00:00

Stop talking about yourself.......let them talk. Women want to talk about themselves, and you should be using that time to evaluate THEM. Talking about yourself is a validation seeking behavior...

You should be approaching because you want to know more about THEM. To see if she is someone you want in your life. Your approach is to see if there is physical attraction between you....no to qualify yourself for her.

Playful...push pull....no life goal discussion etc. That shit is a turn off. She doesn't want to hear about your supercool managerial job or how many reps you did yesterday the gym....or that your Man with Purpose.

Keep it light and playful....maybe even try to offend her a bit. Leave an impression. ..cut through all the mundane bullshit people reflexively talk about when they meet someone.

Look up the show Californication. Hank Moody is a natural at this.

Musicgoon · 2021-02-10T07:04:22+00:00

What are you passionate about? Something has to stir up excitement.

No chick wants to hear about managerial shit or your workouts. They will like the results of workouts, but that's it. Get them to talk about their likes and hobbies.

You can't just exist. You need good stories. Girls need excitement, drama and passion. If you don't have that, try being outlandish. Being bold and overtly sexual works wonders. Push some boundaries and work on your kino. These are great ways to be fun and interesting.

2000inchbiceps · 2021-02-10T18:05:04+00:00

There comes a point where I just don't care how the interaction goes. I just approach because I'm bored and want to talk to someone. I'll talk about random stuff, say some wild shit, tease hard, laugh, get some laughs, try new approaches, fail hard, etc. I guess my point is, have some fun with it.

FallenVelocity · 2021-02-10T07:12:08+00:00

Definitely recommend picking up some hobbies you would be passionate about.

Title	No issues approaching, but have issues just generally being boring?
Author	LostDevices
Upvotes	8
Comments	12
Date	February 10, 2021 6:37 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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