No sex after the third date???

TheDreadnought1 · 2019-07-25T04:22:05+00:00

My main plate was a virgin when we met, we had sex in the 4th or 5th date I believe, but in the third we were already getting close to that (bj, fingering, that kind of stuff)

If the girl is a virgin, its normal that she'll take longer to give in, you decide if it's worth the wait or not. But if you've already had three dates and you feel you haven't progressed in getting sex from her, I'd say she's probably stringing you along/not so attracted to you, so you should just leave

chazthundergut · 2019-07-25T05:10:00+00:00

How far have you gotten with her? If you've gone three dates without some heavy make-out and petting, then you've already fucked up and you're wasting your time

max_peenor · 2019-07-25T14:22:22+00:00

Am I giving up to early?

No. Too late.

Stop hunting a unicorn. He hymen isn't that important. When she is ready, she'll give it up in a heartbeat.

Cryptoguru777 · 2019-07-25T07:34:57+00:00

She probably lied about being a virgin.
3rd date should be some form of escalation or at least come very close
If at the 4th date still no action she is using you for whatever.

mrcheatcode90 · 2019-07-25T08:32:17+00:00

hit on other bitches. build sexual tension with them while you are seeing this bitch. you will fuck this one or other ones eventually dont worry about timeline be patient do what you have to do dont worry about phaggotry stuff.

MisterRoid · 2019-07-25T13:07:52+00:00

I think it's a waste of time. I have been in the same situation and cut contact after the 4th date.

lemongrooved · 2019-07-25T14:05:19+00:00

Depends on why she’s a virgin. 21 is young enough that she might just not have had the connection and attraction enough with someone yet. (You yourself admit theres no chemistry, so she’s 1000% picking up on that.) OR there could be religious elements to her celibacy. Some girls are straight up terrified of sex and aren’t particularly religious, just squeamish, though they’re open if someone can make them comfortable enough. She might not be the one if she’s looking for a serious commitment and you’re not (even if she says she’s not, virgins typically attach to their first so be prepared for backlash)

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-07-26T00:54:26+00:00

I know I'll eat downvotes for this, but 3 dates with a virgin is nothing. You might have to put in some time. If it becomes 3 months, then you next.

Title	No sex after the third date???
Author	MaleficentStar9
Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	July 25, 2019 4:01 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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