A few days ago I decided to attempt to participate in NoFap, mostly because I was curious to see whether or not the glorified claims they're doing over there are true. But as I was browsing that sub today I noticed that there are people who basically demonize their sexual urges even when there's a girl present and they are doing NoFap in the hopes that they will stop "objectify girls".

One of the NoFap posters actually said "I saw that girl I like today and while she was talking to others I was genuinely feeling jealous. And the weird thing is: I don't even know her! I just want her for how she looks like and I hate that". There was also a comment from a girl in another NoFap thread that claimed how she feels disappointed for "having people approaching me and compliment my looks. Couldn't they talk about something else?" in her own very words!

To me this whole things sounds very much like a shit test women do to see whether a man will defend his ground by seeing his sexual urges as something natural versus the ones who demonize them and attempt to achieve an "ideal reason of attraction" bestowed to them by various girls.

I'm not saying that if you have issues with excessive porn and fapping that you shouldn't take action but at least take it for the right causes. To "stop objectifying women" as a cause sounds like bullshit.

Am I right or wrong?