Not look butthurt

i-am-the-prize · 2020-03-26T16:56:16+00:00

unless she double texts following up with a firm alternative ("... but I can on Tuesday, cool?") you simply do not respond. anything but a true counter-offer to deal with life's sometimes real logistical headaches, is a N.E.X.T.

You do not give her "an out". you do not give her an "it's OK". you do not give her anything. Your time is too valuable to deal with loser bitches' bullshit. (or is it? Remember: the medium is the message; aka: any response is a weak response.)

garydelrey · 2020-03-26T18:37:21+00:00

The only thing to do here is not do anything. If she texts you again, you’re good.

jaw8625 · 2020-03-26T16:40:17+00:00

Are you that desperate that you were going to meet during the pandemic?

She probably is just practicing social distancing.

Tell her "yeah we probably should wait until all this is over" - and then stay inside and don't try to make any more plans.

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-03-26T16:42:41+00:00

Don’t be butthurt and then say whatever comes naturally

LeEbinConchShell · 2020-03-26T21:32:00+00:00

say nothing. if she doesn't offer a counter date, let that roast cook.

Ed4all15 · 2020-03-26T16:50:52+00:00

Just leave her on read and ignore her. Remember, your time should be valuable too. If it’s not, women aren’t your problem right now. Do not ask when she is free, or tell her to call you when she is available. Plus dude, it’s Tinder during the Covid19. There already is a 75% chance she was gonna flake anyway....your best bet at this point is to see if you can get a naked FaceTime or something out of this.

rprookie · 2020-03-26T17:27:25+00:00

Roll the ball to her

BruhMoment45886 · 2020-03-26T18:07:12+00:00

Explain to her how she hurt you and ask her to explain why she did what she did.

It's super alpha trust me. Jk that's beta af

Just text back "maybe some other time then" and dont talk to her unless she initiates first. Consider her done though.

Snowboard18 · 2020-03-26T17:44:31+00:00

Just something like, “no worries, hit me up when your free”

Title	Not look butthurt
Author	Coolguy1699
Upvotes	2
Comments	17
Date	March 26, 2020 4:36 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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