So the studies are showing women are often attracted to men who remind them of their dad. Most men are brunette to dark headed, fair haired men are in the minority. This means most likely a blonde headed dude is rarely going to remind a girl of her father, so what is he?

Taking into account that as far as I've seen and read, women see a man in the fantasy they have created as long as it isn't ruined by something he says or does. How many women think a guy is a "real man" just by how he looks and dresses. He's got tattoos or maybe a james dean vibe, w/e, it's superficial.

Now i'm not saying a man's vibe isn't just as important or more important. The way you carry yourself and speak definitely reveals your SMV to her. But when it comes to approaching if you're not already seen by her in a positive light in her mind, you have to work an uphill battle.

I'm telling you that as a guy who is considered very good looking I can stand and look in the distance and get girls to check me out. But the moment I approach they receive validation and my SMV is lowered. I would have to neg hit. If by chance I approach them without them showing any sign of interest in me first, this i've found usually has more success.

But very rarely does it seem a blonde is considered for something serious. Most girls who have admitted their types usually say "Dark hair, dark eyes, tall" or a darker skin of some sort. Whatever it is darkness seems to be the key. I ask this seemingly silly question in all sincerity. Are blondes by most women considered unrealistic or too light hearted, too fleeting, or too much of an asshole?

Because in all my experience with women it is dirty blones, blondes, and redheads who consider me more seriously as well as other blonde friends I have. The problem here is that we seem to be able to develop bad reputations very quickly as players, that I don't understand. Perhaps dark hair suggest more stability and fair hair suggests fleeting unpredictability.

Anyway I would appreciate thoughts and experiences on this. If you have a friend who's blonde or you are and this goes against what I'm saying please share.

Edit: Doubt this counts as any reliable source but: http://www.girlsaskguys.com/relationships/q924967-why-do-women-hate-blonde-redheaded-men