Long story short, in a 2 yr LTR, all of a sudden she won't let me see her phone. She always has it lying face down and gets very defensive when asked about it. I know what is likely going on and nexting is imminent BUT a huge part of me wants to see the texting. Short of snatching it out of her hand, what (if any) are my options? Here are the issues to save time with questions later:

  • i don't know her passcode
  • it's an iphone 8 -i don't know her icloud creds -no access to her plan data, etc

I know I'm shit out of luck for sneaky options but I'm curious if there's anything of which I'm not thinking. Any suggestions would be appreciated!