Overcome anger phase after 2 years?

lietruth · 2017-02-25T22:38:00+00:00

No one can help you overcome your own quest.

That's like asking another man, "help me deadlift this weight". If he helps, it's not my deadlift, and I don't get stronger, he does.

The information is out there on TRP. You can choose to accept it or not. Be bitter at the truth, or smile because you're now smarter then you once were. "Swallowing the pill" is as simple as that.

wriley · 2017-02-26T03:16:02+00:00

What are you angry at? You are mad at evolution? Would you be mad at a crocodile for trying to eat you? People are people. You can either use what you know or ignore it. But being angry won't help anything.

MUTHAFATHAGENTLEMAN · 2017-02-25T22:53:11+00:00

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purduered · 2017-02-26T00:30:21+00:00

Can you elaborate on what you miss about the blue pill days?

walawalawa · 2017-02-26T02:21:56+00:00

It's a little like learning there's no Santa Claus..."What! You mean my mom and dad ate the cookies and drank the milk I left behind for Santa!???"

You're more in Denial than anger...you hate to know that everything can be explained by evolutionary psychology and there is no special "one"... It's not like the movies where the "nice guy" eventually gets the girl when she comes to her senses and realizes what she's "lost"...

It's dog eat dog. I plough through enjoying the success my Red Pill thinking gives me...then I get locked into my own head when a girl leaves, or cheats, or disappoints in some way...I think "How could I have been SO STUPID..."

But the reality is..."All Women Are Like That" (AWALT) The Red Pill is bitter when you resist it...when you embrace it, it is a reassuring antitode to delusional thinking about women, about life and about yourself.

That feeling of numbness is just you struggling to shed your old frame of reference...that old Blue Pill thinking was comfortable...it meant you could conform...be like the majority of lost guys who waddle around "hoping" to get laid, "hoping" to find someone somewhere...

Red Pill thinking is hard because it puts the responsibility for your life, your success and your failures...ON YOU....and that's scary.

But it's also a chance for you to set your own goals, to be your own person...get out of your own head...

ElfFey · 2017-02-26T03:50:44+00:00

I think you need to take trp to the next level. I will just tell you, the next level of trp is not about gaming women. It's about committing to something bigger than yourself. For example, a strong political ideology, or a business, or inventing something, or climbing a mountain--you need to contribute to the wider society that YOU believe is good.

I think the reason so many guys get stuck in the anger phase of trp is because they do not move on to becoming part of something greater than themselves. This is really dangerous and i am very critical of this "enjoy the decline" attitude because at its core, guys who accept this mentality are still functioning in the ego and basing their validation off of women and the type of women he can "pull." Think about it if all you are working towards is pulling HB10s then you are basing your worth on how many gorgeous women will sleep with you, putting the power in their hands. If you base your worth on your contributions to the society you want to create you get a greater sense of self worth and it can't be taken away the way outside validation can. Plus if you meet a woman who would make a good partner you might reject her due to your past.

I think a great example of a man who lives like this is General Mattis. No one would argue if he is "alpha" but he has more important things to worry about than women. I'm sure he has no problem with women but he devotes his energy to the military. The military isn't perfect and nothing you devote yourself to will be, but you keep that pure idea and help the reality of it on earth get closer to the idea.

oldredder · 2017-02-26T07:47:22+00:00

There is no anger phase.

Once you adapt to truth you are fully changed.

If you're angry it's because you're weak or in denial or immature.

Period.

You either get over it right away or your life is doomed.

RedPillApprentice99 · 2017-02-26T08:01:03+00:00

If you are truly angry. Then channel that anger to a new hobby or a goal you want to accomplish. It may sound cliché but whats a better option than sitting on your ass and brooding over the harsh reality that we face?

Title	Overcome anger phase after 2 years?
Author	tonylokred
Upvotes	6
Comments	9
Date	February 25, 2017 10:30 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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