Last week I went over to my neighbors house (4 cute females) to hang out. We drank and had a blast and things went amazing. I felt a strong connection with one of them (8.5/10) and it was awesome. But I have a really attractive roommate 9/10 - 10/10 and I KNEW if I brought her over he would take over with her, cuz its happened before. (He is planning on being a future model, no joke)

Sure enough we host a party this week and the neighbors come over and she comes and approaches me of course and we have a blast. Things are going great. As SOON as I move on to talk to others she finds her way over to my roommate and grows a serious infatuation very quickly and soon forgets about me. Unless he totally dumps her I don’t think it’s gonna happen between us but even if it happens that way I don’t wanna lose the self respect of being the reluctant-second

I’m 6’ 175, muscular low BF, good looking, a former NCAA D1 athlete, and don’t struggle with women but now that I live with this new roommate he seems to naturally steal everyone thats cute enough for me to wanna date. And if I’m honest it kinda hurts and sucks and IDK what to do because besides just the time it takes to lift and gain muscle and lose body fat (I work out 6 days a week) these current opportunities will be long gone. Do you guys have any advice? I do everything right, get girls, but it seems its not enough cuz this guy can just do whatever he wants with any attractive woman, I feel stuck