Pattern I’m noticing on this sub.

FilthyStylish · 2020-04-23T02:38:38+00:00

This sub is mostly a joke tbh. But in all seriousness, most of the guys who ask questions usually come here after they have done too many wrong things and the girl has dumped them so it’s pretty much over hence responses like move on, get over it fagget etc. because quite frankly the situation is unsalvageable.

Calling a girl out is good and effective if you do it at the beginning when the girl is still feeling you out. It’s called setting boundaries early on. But calling her out after she has walked a thousand miles over your face is stupid because why did you allow it before but not now? Did you suddenly grow a dignity?

Most likely you never liked that behavior but you swallowed it just so you could get laid or get with the girl. That’s beta af. Now don’t complain mofo when it comes back to bite you in the ass.

Calling a girl out doesn’t have to mean yelling at her face and getting into a quarrel. It could be cancelling a date on her when she acts like going out with you is a chore or when she tries to jerk you around, not texting her 24/7 etc. or verbally tell her that you don’t appreciate certain type of behavior.

2020-04-23T04:28:52+00:00

Most on this sub are just plain angry and frustrated and use this as a vent for their emotions rather. Newbies come in insecure and being angry at women, people learning are angry at their past self beating themselves up for their mistakes, people somewhat through their journey forget their past and get angry at posts from newbies, which in turn makes them feel better about themselves and the more experienced people are here either for shits and giggles or maybe correctly read the situation of a post and advice harshly to take action. All the theory is on the sidebar. The comments are just to push the OP to take action that he knows he should do and that includes reading the sidebar. This post belongs to one of these many categories.

This sub would probably reduce to 5% of the posts if only people read the theory/sidebar and other resources, process internally by being very cerebral about it, and patiently work on themselves and practice out in the real world and seeing results.

General rule should be not to post until 6 months of reading sidebar and practicing the theory.

MotiMorphosys · 2020-04-23T02:28:14+00:00

There's a big difference between a plate and my daughter.

I couldnt care less about "fixing" a plate. Not my responsibility. She wants fun, so do I.

RayneXero · 2020-04-23T05:26:07+00:00

Hundred percent agree that women should be held accountable. The things is that it's the guys on this sub. There's no way for the commenters to hold the women accountable.

So instead, telling the guy that "yeah she's a bitch, but you did x, z, and z wrong" is the only way to help the guys improve. And remember that people can't control others, but they can control themselves. So telling them to work on themselves is the best way to avoid the same pitfalls in future

2020-04-23T05:09:30+00:00

The people who post the kinds of questions you’re referring to also have oneitis and put women on pedestals. I’m often not sure what they’re trying to achieve in posting about irrational female behaviour - they likely won’t change their behaviour irrespective of the responses they get. The constructive advice and information that most people would cite in response to a post like that exists in abundance on this sub anyhow. They just need to look for it.

TravisScottNL · 2020-04-23T05:47:09+00:00

Facts bro too many white knights on this sub

alphakari · 2020-04-23T05:56:37+00:00

It's always our fault.

Bc women aren't incapable of responsibility, but their pussies get dry when they do, and we like em wet.

JaydXThomas · 2020-04-23T05:30:47+00:00

100% agree. I noticed this in my own behavior, too. After my ex and I broke up, I struggled to hold her accountable for her part in it all. Yes, my behavior during the relationship drifted too far toward the blue pill, but that didn't excuse her absolute disregard for me when we were together. I put all the blame on myself, and vindicate her behavior because 'it's just in her nature'. This is in part why it took so long to get over her. I'm not saying I was faultless, not at all, but once I was mentally able to distribute some of the blame, I was able to move on.

Female nature does not excuse disrespect.

Thanks for posting this.

cfbovernfl · 2020-04-23T05:59:49+00:00

Your question? Reported, enjoy your ban.

Title	Pattern I’m noticing on this sub.
Author	1109jr
Upvotes	17
Comments	15
Date	April 23, 2020 1:59 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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