One of my plates started to insult me hard after banging regularly for 3 months. I went radio silence and got the expected "I miss you" texts every 2 weeks or so. After some time I got a "I still think about you cumming inside of me when I masturbate". I finally visited her place and she refused to have sex. I went radio silent again.

A week later she started to contact me again, every night. I just asked what she wants. She replied I was a dick for only coming around for sex. "If you wouldn't like the attention you get you'd have already cut contact." Than she came out of the closet: She fears to open up to me and to lose me and therefore keeps me away. I'm messaging a bit with her for now, as I want to make her feel a bit more secure, but she.refuses to act against her fears.

How to proceed? I genuinely like her the most of my plates, because she's open to all my sexual desires. I need help