Been seing this girl for 3-4 months, 28 business woman, hb8.

Matched on tinder initially, no reply from her. I match with her again a few weeks later and said "We tried this before" and she says she was playing hard to get.

First date my place, Bj/swallow 1h in. She leaves and says we'll definitely bang next time. Seen her 10-15 times since, we bang after 30 min chilling each time and we stay in bed for ~3h everytime. Usual is text Sunday for Wednesday meet.

Red flags:

Initial "playing hard to get"

See her as recently active on tinder everytime I log on ~15 times (she is still hunting)

She takes 10h+ to days to reply to me.

She is always 1h late

Initially I tried to put more effort in and even had her come over and we cooked together. She did the dishes and was my "sous-chef". The meal was complex and I showed some skill, we had great sex too. This was 5 weeks in. Next day I see her recently active on tinder and told myself "no more of those. This is a hoe for fucking."

For the following ~2 months it's been, 1 drink and pure sex almost every time. I Only text for logistics.

I have been waiting for "The talk" for a while but nothing.

Crazy story, last time I was at her place. We start fucking at 8pm and finish at 1am. I get up to leave and she notices that someone broke into her apartment and stole a bunch of electronics. I decided to apply a little comfort and stay till the police showed. Also, she was heading into period in the following week

Next day (Thursday), I text to see how she is doing and she says she really appreciates me reaching out to check on her and asks about me. Told her I was good but busy.

Sunday, I msg her. She inquires about me and I offer Tuesday or Wednesday as usual.

She says "I'll confirm tmrw because of work but prob Wed" (she lost pace at work because of the theft).

24h goes by no confirmation.

She reply Tuesday morning with "bad news handsome, gotta work like crazy" no alternative offered...

I say Np, catch ya next time.

She responds with "You let me know when you're free too busy man"

Also, she sends a long text about her messing up a time frame at work and that she has even less time to make a deadline.

This was a week ago and I have said nothing to her and skipped trying for plans the following Sunday.

I tried for 2 other dates with other women the week she cancelled but got flaked on hard. My pipeline is online dating only atm. When I started seeing her I had a few prospects that fizzeld quickly and since then have been grasping at straws.

I'm confused if this is low interest or a pullback test.

Should I pursue or continue my pullback?

I know I should have more plates but either it's one bang and done or I get mad flaked on. I'm still trying for dates but getting very weak replies.