Hey everyone, so about a month ago.. I met this chick at a local hip little consignment store. She approached me and we had a brief little conversation (I don't even remember about what, I think it was a band tee shirt I was wearing or something). I never asked for her number and we just parted ways. One of the reasons was the fact that she was only 18 years old (I am 25) and she seemed a little immature, but nice enough.

About a week later this girl adds me on FB. I wasn't sure if it was her at first so I messaged her to confirm. We talked, exchanged numbers and met for coffee about a week later. The date was kind of boring (partly my fault, I was exhausted cause I had school + work from 9am to 9pm) but we texted each other dirty stuff for a few days flirting back and forth. We sent each other nudes and talked about how much we wanted to fuck each other.

Meet up a second time on a double date, not much opportunity for any kino but I playfully pushed and shoved her a few times, the date ended with a kiss… Good vibes all around. She seemed more interested than ever.

Now for the past few days, texting has really cut down A LOT, I tried to make plans to hangout with her about 3 times now.. Each date came with an excuse for why she couldn't hang out (this girl ONLY works part-time 3 or 4 days a week). Without any effort to reschedule a date or plan a different time like she did before.

I haven't done or said anything I would see as "beta". Each time she said she couldn't meet I always expressed a mature understanding of her circumstances (even though I thought they were lame excuses.. which I guess could be considered being beta since I didn't call her on her bullshit) but I feel like it's too early to be playing that card.

I feel like I'm over-analyzing this all WAY too much and I should just chill out/not take this chick so seriously, but I'm horny as hell and it's frustrating having this little cocktease send me all those texts and then just going cold at the drop of a hat.

I'm thinking that maybe I should just forget about her, not even say anything and just focus on my school, hanging out with friends, and meeting other chicks. If she finally gets sick of all the little thirsty fuckboy instagram stalkers and wants a real man she can come to me.

TL;DR.. Met a chick who cold approached me who's giving me the hot cold bullshit. What does TRP think I should do? Be brutally honest with me.