I'm seeing a girl. Before we continue any further, she's a recently divorced single mother. Now for the other stuff. She's 26, gorgeous (seriously), she was with her husband from 19 until now. Lost her virginity to him. She has a great family and a loving relationship with her father, she is very feminine, she has a warm ambiance and great personality, and she reeeaally likes me. Not that that's exceptional, but whatever.

This reeks of oneitis, but she's not the only girl I'm talking to. I'm up in the air over keeping plated or promoting to plan A. The kid thing is a big hang up for me, but daddy is a pretty serious BP dipshit. Basically pulled the "I'm not haaaappy" on her and split after fathering a son and committing himself to her.

If you didn't bother reading past the italics, it'll be obvious.