Post first date text

robodylan123 · 2017-06-09T16:15:20+00:00

Don't restate the sound quote. Don't ask, tell her. Be specific. "Hey girlsname, we should go to X and do Y", "I'm going to X to do Y, join me"

FlexGunship · 2017-06-09T17:41:30+00:00

This is baffling. I don't even understand most of the comments here.

Don't be a doofus or quirky or whatever.

Next time you're planning to do something, text her and invite her. Say "I'll be in Loudon on Sunday for the race, you'd enjoy it. 5pm if you're free."

Done. Anything more than that is just being a child. You're not in love. She doesn't I you anything. You're still, presumably, planning things with other girls.

chiefbl · 2017-06-09T18:21:40+00:00

Not sure if you'll see this but whatever.

I saw this somewhere. It's a guideline, there's no specific time frames here. You have to feel it for yourself

Get phone number
Set date
Go on date.
Text had fun(optional)
Bake it (ghost her)
Re-initiate then set another date.
Repeat steps 2-7.

Important point is to bake it. Ghost her for a couple days after your had fun text. Don't immediately set up another date. Let her miss you. Let her dream about you. Let her lust for you. Anyways, you should not even be that free to give her that much time that quickly. Just my $0.02

neaideabh · 2017-06-09T17:45:50+00:00

I will but is there not an obligatory message to acknowledge the date???? That's it. I won't be messaging her until I plan on meeting her again!

bminuscplus · 2017-06-09T20:04:54+00:00

It doesn't matter. Just avoid being a try hard, acting like you have an agenda (you have).

You can send her whatever you want and if she is attracted to you she will be receptive. If she doesn't respond to you don't over analyze it, you probably did nothing wrong, she is just not very attracted to you and you aren't number one on her list of priorities.

If you want to be fun be fun. If not don't try to force it she will notice you're trying too hard.

The vibe you must give is - she is just a fun girl you met, you are a fun guy and you're going to do more fun stuff with or without her.

neaideabh · 2017-06-09T17:15:13+00:00

Jeeeesus posting on asktrp can be frustrating sometimes! Points to note.... Last night was our first date

Messages between initial msg and asking for a date were minimal.

Have not text her yet

Don't intend on texting much.... only for logistics...

All I'm asking for is help on that ONE message I send the day after the date

Thanks

Title	Post first date text
Author	neaideabh
Upvotes	3
Comments	18
Date	June 9, 2017 4:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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