Okay I'll try and give the cliff notes version of my story or else it could drag on forever. So I just started my sophomore year of college after a disastrous freshman year. All year I battled crippling anxiety and suffered tremendous loneliness. My only friend was an older girl with a bf that I couldn't have been more of a beta orbiter to; she would always tell me her problems and I would listen and then she would go fuck her bf all night.

I was a wreck by the end of freshman year, but over the summer I made it my goal to change my life around. My parents were no help but there were several reddit communities that gave me have hope for the next years, specifically theredpill, nofap, and fitness. By the end of the summer I felt much better and I was starting to enjoy my life again and I was prepared to enter my sophomore year.

I knew what I had to do and immediately got involved in a sports team, a dance club, and joined an upper tier fraternity, so those things are all going well but I'm still struggling with girls. I know I'm not supposed to make them my priority but there happens to be a lot of cute girls in the freshman class. I've never had any success with girls ever in my life, most of the time I rarely talk to them, so naturally I have no experience with talking to them while most guys figure this shit out in high school. I think I'm still in the anger stage because most of the girls I've met hate me and think I'm an asshole (at least I'm not a pussy) but then there are few that are always trying to spend time with me and they've been doing all my chores and stuff that I don't want to do (laundry, make my bed, take out the trash, make me coffee, you name it.) Basically I'm looking for some help on how to act alpha and strong but at the same time not come across as an asshole and a dick. Granted I'm not good at talking to girls and I'm probably a 6-7 on the looks scale. I've definitely made some progress though and I recognize the almost constant shit tests that girls give me and I really don't give a fuck if I get rejected or a girl doesn't like me, but I want to put my progress on fast trak. There is one girl in particular (tall, tan, gorgeous brunette chick from Greece) in my dorm whose probably one of the hottest girls I've ever seen that I have had multiple chance with but I keep fucking up for stupid reasons. At this point I recognize that this is most likely a next situation, but I don't want to keep fucking up with every other hot girl in the future. Hope you guys can give a newbie some advice.