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[–]SickeningPiss8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Don't do it bro, you wont be better off. First time i had sex was at 20 and i thought too myself is this really why i was so insecure all this time. Girl was a petite red head also inexperienced but fun. Lift hard get shredded and you will be banginh bitches trust me. Do whatever it takes to be lean and ripped. Better off spending that 200 on supplements. Remember if it doesn't bother you it wont bother the girls :P
[–]throwaway1xzz-1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ok, not bragging but I'm good looking and in decent shape I'm just annoyed how I've got to 19 and not even kissed a girl, I'm going to med school next year I've got everything going for me but still no luck on the girl front :/
[–]urbangentlman4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm good looking and in decent shape I'm just annoyed how I've got to 19 and not even kissed a girl
Yeah, then you're the problem. It's not girls.
I'm going to med school next year
No one cares
I love it when other guys have this bullshit pythagorean theorem where good looks is your Asq and good career path is your Bsq then it must equal Csq which in your case are girls. If you've come this far in life with that assumption, knowingly or not, and you feel that going to a hooker will make you a stud in bed (or at the very least decent) then god forbid you go anywhere near a scalpel let alone stethoscope.
[–]throwaway1xzz1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think that going to a hooker would make me a stud, it was to ease the anxiety of my first time with a real girl and I wouldn't have gone to a hooker for penetration I don't think I could have done that for my first time. And yeah justifying my Med school stuff is wrong obviously so I need to work on my game.
[–]loveydovey2121 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fucking brilliant
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[–]Mike3777747741 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Besides what he said, lifting also helps with the mental aspect. You feel more manly. Same with cold showers.
[–]1v1mebruh1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for being the voice of reason
[–]loveydovey2121 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Wrong sorry but you are. Lifting brings the bitches. It just does, and if you aren't able to make gains then you are doing it wrong.
[–]omega_dawg931 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
lifting has its benefits, no doubt. but in a war btw being muscular vs being average with money, money wins out first... and if not, eventually.
broads like power & money over a 6 pack and big arms.
chase money... the broads will flock. and you can be 70 & still, "grab them by the pussy."
[–]1RPSigmaStigma3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nothing wrong with seeing prostitutes, but don't ever tell anyone IRL about it. Also, I don't know about the laws in the UK, do some research, and be careful.
[–]throwaway1xzz0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm not decided yet and I wouldn't tell anyone about it.
[–]freshbassmanman 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It probably wont help your performance IRL to be honest. Everyone takes time to get good, and a prostitute isnt going to make you good at sex suddenly. I've slept with my fair share of women by now, in my mid-30s, and the first time with a new person isnt usually amazing anyway. On top of this, at uni plenty of girls you meet (and you will meet them) will be very inexperienced as well. They wont mind much.
Come to think of it, my best friend was a virgin when he went to University and he became a silver-tongued lethario, which he kept up for about 15 years until he recently settled down. It is nothing unusual.
[–]throwaway1xzz0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Your second point is what has helped me, I've been told by all lads I speak to that all the girls at uni won't be virgins and nearly every girl has had sexual intercourse by the time they go to uni which is what's caused me to consider this.
[–]freshbassmanman 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It wont matter much. You can bet that most of them have not had really mind-blowing sex yet. They're still awkward teens. A few months of regular sex would give you more experience than most of your peers.
[–]dammit_redskins 2 points2 points2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You are only 19, you have plenty of time to meet girls. Don't sweat it cause a lot of guys talking about sex at your age are lying through their teeth to seem cool. Just do what comes naturally.
Ok no prob, thanks. I don't feel uncomfortable talking/flirting with girls it's just the underlying notion that I have no experience that puts me off as I can't project a flirt confident aura when I'm feeling nervous about the physical contact part as I've no clue haha
[–]ouselesso 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm feeling really self conscious
Problem is probably just this. Get out of your head and go out and start doing.
I might not be able to perform very well and look beta as fuck because of that.
If you're making this decision solely based upon your fear of rejection from others, then don't do it. It won't fix anything nor make you a bedroom Casanova. Just start approaching and fixing the problem, it's really not that hard if your not a ugly sack of shit.
[–]Tamarin240 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There will be girls just as nervous as you. Go face reality.
Ok will do now - TBH I knew I'd regret it like fuck afterwards I was just trying to find a reason not to go through with it really. Glad I posted here just to check.
[–]Drop_the_Dead_Donkey0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Just find a girl that's into you. She'll probably quite enjoy popping your cherry. No need to lie about it to her.
[–]throwaway1xzz0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Am I not showing weakness if quite a few people know I'm a virgin it'll be harder to project a trp persona if people knew that right? Or am I being stupid
[–]Drop_the_Dead_Donkey0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No need to go advertising your virginity to anyone. But when you know it's going to happen let the girl in question know. That's my advice but i'm a noob around here.
That's good advice actually I definitely wouldn't go out my way to tell people but I'm not going to li.
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