Most of my posts on here over the last few years have been asking how to increase confidence/inner game.

I’m 30 and have ED and discounted psychological reasons for it forever while working on physical factors until recently watching a Sam robbins video on YouTube which made me realise it’s probably the main issue. He stated that blood flow can simply shut down/off due to psychological factors which is likely what has been my issue all along. I get zero blood flow to my penis in the form of an erection ever.

I have it stuck in my head that I am a social reject due to childhood conditioning. I only attempt to socialise with the lowest on the social ladder and only get turned on by girls who are clearly unlikely to reject me. I auto reject social situations that aren’t one on one as I anticipate humiliation. I never hang out with my flat for instance, instead just doing things in my room.

These are all important realisations for me and I’m not sure how to progress forward from here. I’ve only been with escorts before but most of the time couldn’t hold an erection.

To me the solution is to be with a girl long enough that I can get comfortable with the idea that I am accepted for sex but I am not sure how to find such a situation. Escorts are too fake and generally prefer when I fail to get an erection.

Would appreciate any advice. Thanks

Edit: I’m currently taking daily cialis but it’s not achieving anything.