Resolving to prostitution only

atticusfinch1973 · 2018-01-13T12:33:20+00:00

Part of the game is learning how to seduce people - being able to get what you want easily from either men or women is a vital skill that every RP man needs.

So while it might scratch your sexual itch, which is totally fine in my opinion, you should still be working on things like charisma, building social skills and gaming regular women just to stay sharp and be able to deal with people easily.

I have frequented prostitutes because I wanted to get laid by a girl specific to my tastes and not deal with hassle, and I can afford it. But I still game and fuck regular women too.

Triadis3 · 2018-01-13T13:15:28+00:00

This stinks of MGTOW.

"I don't wanna play by your stupid rules so I'm taking my ball and going home!"

Then you remember it's more fun when somebody else plays with your ball(s), but you now have no friends, everybody shuns you because you're really not fun to be around. You have zero social skills because you took your ball home and didn't want to play, remember?

So you end up having to pay the neighborhood kids to play ball with you.

See how bad that sounds?

I have NOTHING against prostitution, I believe it should be legal everywhere... it's the pure transactional nature of sex scraped down to the base level.

Here's the problem....

Frame and Game are fundamentally reflections of your personal self. Are you confident? Comfortable in your own skin? Able to make and keep friends and lovers? Have a great career? Have goals and passions that drive you?

This is why women shit test.. they are probing to see if you're a cheap Ferrari replica with a VW beetle motor under the hatch or are you the real deal.

Or is money all you're bringing to the table? If you're ok with that, fine.... eat your face off, hit that 400lb target, stop showering, allow yourself to regress into a whiny child with no aspirations. You have the cash/power, why bother with anything else? Who needs goals? Weinstein that shit.

I'd much rather be a redpill guy, happy, confident, in shape, wealthy, and with the knowledge and confidence that the many women I choose to fuck are fucking me because the nature of my transactional sex simply involves her wanting my cock, and me wanting a nice place to shove my cock. (I'm well aware of the commitment rabbit hole... stepping over it. Not relevant to ONS's.) Can I go order a hooker if I want to? Sure, time, circumstances, many variables. The crux is you should have both options. I LOVE the game, the hunt.

MGTOW is technically at it's core a red cause and in this view is highly relatable to TRP. In that by going your own way, you remove the conditioning and power the world and women have over you by focusing on yourself.

The perversion that exists there now, however, is that it's OK to simply not try, not aspire to anything, not have any goals because the mass bitterness of incels and dateless guys who hate women and themselves overwhelms the underlying message. These are the people that got butthurt at recess and took their ball home. Weird kid gets weirder. Deciding not to interact with the world at all. Sour grapes. No calibration.

You know that weird kid in school? Not quite right. Not retarded, not add, not autistic, but Not Quite Right. When I grew up there was no autism/spectrum/aspie/ADD/ADHD diagnoses out there. So the weird kids had two choices... stay and learn from the other kids, learning to be less weird in the day to day world by interaction and observation, or be sent home with helicopter parents to homeschool their little snowflake, compounding the NQR because the invaluable body language/subtextual inferences/personal interplay/language nuances were all taken away. Weird kid gets weirder. No calibration.

Now we just drug anybody who's NQR. Weird kids get weirder. Poor Stephen is drooling on his crayons again. He actually wanted to go outside yesterday so we upped his dose. Weird kid gets weirder, no calibration.

That's the reason many mega celebrities become fucked in the head.... start with a kid whose drive is focused on being famous uber alles, add stupid wealth and "power", the ability to tailor your surroundings as you see fit... you lose your calibration tool of using the world. Weird kid gets weirder. No calibration.

We all have to live in this world, like it or not. Spend your life learning, finding passions, growing and topiaring yourself into the shape that best pleases you. Tough? Sure it is. But that's why it's so rare and amazing to become a redpill man. TRUE MGTOW. Interact with the world as you see fit. Use it.

TL:DR?

Be an alpha fuck, not a beta buck.

vandaalen · 2018-01-13T15:30:09+00:00

Completely fine. It'll be hard to control your neediness though.

br0kk85 · 2018-01-14T01:33:27+00:00

If you are based in Switzerland and can afford it go to Germany. Way cheaper over here and service is not worse.

Had some great experiencees with p6...... and bad ones.

Does it make you a man? Or less of one? Honestly I don't give a single fuck. It's a "tool" I use nothing less nothing more.

chazthundergut · 2018-01-13T19:13:01+00:00

There is nothing stopping you. I lost my virginity to a prostitute, and I've had some amazing times with them including threesomes, back before I had developed game and self-confidence. So if that's what you want, go for it.
Having experienced both sides, I can say that sex with a prostitute simply isn't as good as sex with a woman who genuinely desires you. Especially once you've fucked her a couple times and you guys are getting emotionally close; the sex is just so much fun. Prostitution does not come close.
Masculine men are in such high demand that if you are in good shape, have a little bit of game, and a little self-confidence, then you will have no problem getting women to fuck you for free. So if you must resort to prostitutes, then that is nature telling you that you are incomplete as a man and you need to make a change. Nature is demanding that you become more social, more attractive, more dynamic, more confident. It demands that you learn game, that you become self-validating, that you take pussy off the pedestal, that you become grounded in your own reality. It demands that you learn how to have fun interacting with people and especially girls, learn how to tease and flirt and play, learn to love the human mating dance. Instead of running away from this challenge, rise up to it. Become the man.

TimPartendale · 2018-01-13T17:34:39+00:00

Yes, some of those girls are very attractive.

The one good thing is that this places a “price on pussy.” It’s sort of an easy, yet fake, way to create an abundance mentality.

However, I don’t encourage escorts for that very reason. It’s all fake. The sex might be good and she’ll suck you dry. But once this chick is done with you for the night, she’ll waltz on over to her next client, sometimes immediately right after.

You put yourself at increased risk for STDs/STIs. Escorts are considered high-risk partners.
You have fake abundance and as a result you do nothing to better yourself as a man (other than gain more money to bang more often).
You may spend 500€ or more for an hour of her time. That adds up to a sizable amount of money if you start thinking with your 2nd head rather than your 1st. Guys usually counter this point by saying that dating is expensive... but it’s only expensive if you let yourself assume the provider role.

If money isn’t a problem and it’s not illegal, who cares. I wouldn’t look down on a guy who told me that he had a crazy night with an escort. You might save yourself time and trouble looking for a girl. But it’s not necessary in line with the purpose of this sub. Especially the idea to only bang escorts.

suxxos · 2018-01-13T18:42:28+00:00

I suppose if you are really ugly, short and not white, this might be the best solution. Otherwise - there is really no need to pay for sex, you might get it for free. Besides, there is just no better feeling than sleeping with a girl who really WANTS you. YOU, not your money. Once you have a taste of it, you won't pay for sex, no matter how goof it could be.

whizkidmill · 2018-01-13T13:44:46+00:00

You're in a forum about sexual strategy, and improving yourself as a man. Just giving up and paying for tricks every night is hardly in line with that. In the end do what you want, but you have all the resources in the world here.

ShotgunTRP · 2018-01-13T18:33:33+00:00

I think it's all good provided it doesn't become a bad addiction. You're having 5 10-somes a day blowing cash like you're Scarface.

Kommanderdude · 2018-01-13T18:05:39+00:00

Eh, I’d rather fuck bitches for free than pay for it.

Get game op.

gaki123 · 2018-01-13T18:39:30+00:00

Wrong place to question. Most people here are american (prostitution there is shady and of low quality) and therefore have prejudice agaisnt

Caspero444 · 2018-01-13T21:13:03+00:00

yes but the USA does not even remotely resemble what you describe. In the USA what you primarily have now more than anything else are these "sugar babies" that match up with you on Tinder. They won't even tell you what their fee is because I suppose its so astronomical that their afraid to even give you a price in plain English.

Also if I were in Europe I would try to date an older woman because they are more attractive over there and have a better personality in my opinion.

sir_shitfuck · 2018-01-13T22:11:18+00:00

Answer me this VERY carefully.

You have sex with this hot chick, pay her the cash.... then what?

In fact, you're at a loss, you lose your sperm. Go one month without ejaculating and tell me how much shit you get done.

You rubbed your genitals with hers (presumably). But what are you getting out of it?

An expanded ego?

Seriously start to question yourself and you'll come to the realization that the weak man is a slave to his impulses.

Title	Resolving to prostitution only
Author	dthroew12
Upvotes	1
Comments	21
Date	January 13, 2018 12:23 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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