Going to drop right into the real conversations and I'd love to know if there are more Rollo, sidebar, or top TRP posts on this topic.

Something tells these types of conversations are too common and most guys eat up the hamster response. They believe they've found a snowflake but there is a completely different story that actually happened.

Me: Oh that's cool you moved to the new city and struck out on your own? What made you want to move?

Her hamster response: My grandma died, and I had a come to Jesus moment about my life and priorities. I no longer wanted to party girl in the big city, and wanted to find more meaning in life and follow my passion of becoming a 2nd grade teacher.

The reality: There was no come to Jesus moment... and although grandma died and that was sad, it had no real impact on the REAL reason she moved. She got Alpha widowed. Moved in with guy she later found out was married with 2 kids. She was his side piece and quit her job to be a sugar baby and live an downtown apartment. Shit fell apart and she had no choice but to completely change cities to "follow her heart".

I'm sure there are thousands of of stories like this in the collective on ASK/TRP.

Do you have any insight or other reading on the subject I can dive into?