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IXseed/r/askTRP03/11/19 02:21 PM
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2

You hate yourself and are projecting it onto others.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 02:25 AM
1

How is this question supposed to help you in you trying to get women?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 02:22 AM
1

This is it a shit test. It's a rejection.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 08:21 PM
2

Welp I can already see what your issue is. You're insecure. I never said anything that would elude to me thinking you're a chump or anything. And even if I did what does my opinion matter? I'm just some guy on the internet. Are you asking how to prevent this? You can't man. Some girls are just gonna waste your time. It's not your game or what you say but a group of women will chill come to your place and just not wanna fuck you. So you kick em out. You already got the plan for what happens. Just…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 08:16 PM
2

Because you're asking about how to handle this situation vs just leaving.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 08:06 PM
12

Who gives a fuck what she prefers. It changes from day to day. Find girls that like YOUR look. If you have one. If not, get one you like.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 07:55 PM
5

Stop calling her. 2 dates and no kiss and you wanna KEEP dealing with this girl?
/r/askTRP24/11/20 07:54 PM
0

But that's the thing tho. Trying to tip toe around the situation to keep it from fucking up is gonna fuck it up. What's happening is you're afraid to tell your gf you ain't into the muscle based on how she is gonna take it. That's the beginning of the end right there.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 06:02 PM
0

Why are you afraid of breaking the plate? I mean the girl's been riding with you for this long. It's not like she gonna just up and leave you because you tell her not to go too Hulk Smash, right?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:43 PM
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Like y’all actin like I can’t ask her to change basic details lol So why didn't you do that? Why even ask this question? Edit: Also why is she still LTR material after 10 yrs instead of an LTR?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:36 PM
1

Maybe, idk, wife a girl that actually wants to be one?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:32 PM
1

Welp like you said she's "getting buff". Do you like buff girls? If not don't LTR her. Also what makes her LTR material? How long have ya'll be steady?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:30 PM
1

Hmm. Maybe they're trying to dodge the awkwardness but meh, don't trip. Just like you'll never run out of women, same thing with friends.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:28 PM
1

Why would you LTR a girl that's becoming a body type you're not fond of?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:15 PM
2

Either these mutual girls weren't interested in the first place or the girls are bringing something up that makes them change their minds. The ones that go blabbing to her friends about you, you often keep fucking them afterwards, right?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:14 PM
2

Plates are meant to be broken. Trying to push for something more when she clearly isn't hinting at in ain't gonna do ya none.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:11 PM
1

Why do you care if this helps you?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:09 PM
1

Drop her. She's your plate, not your gf. If don't like who she looks stop fucking her.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:08 PM
1

What do you want? When you know what you want that'll show you what to do in this or any situation.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:07 PM
1

They have around base/average stats. No different then your run of the mill girl. Why do you ask?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:42 PM
3

Get some side
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:41 PM
2

In person > On the phone Hope ya didn't wait to long to pull the trigger and blew ya chance
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:40 PM
14

Your feeling is basically right. I'll just hit her back saying you got plans and you'll get together some other time. Hit her back in a week.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:38 PM
3

Why do you care about some woman taking pictures of herself so much?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:46 PM
1

Look at your schedule next week, and where you have an opening invite her straight over.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:44 PM
1

IMHO good women do exist. Remember before you start on this journey that a lot of the shit you're gonna read is from people who fucked up with women and therefore saw the fucked up side of them. It's not a strategy but a mindset. You need to focus on you. Example: what do YOU consider a "good woman"?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:43 PM
2

Sometimes the comedy just waltzes right in.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:33 PM
1

You over-reacted, called her a slut and went full incel-sperg on her. Ain't nothing else to play. This one is already back in the ocean. If you suspect a girl is playing games, just move on/ghost. This is the type of cringe dudes text when they can't handle rejection. Also yes, the sex was whack, which was why she was dodging you.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:31 PM
1

Ok. Yea it's fine to check her then but my worry is that ya'll are 9 mos in, not exclusive and is bitching about comfort. Anywho, she shouldn't be bringing up stuff to you more than once if you've told her to ease off of it. One time is ok, but if you have to keep telling her to not to do the same thing she's either stupid or doing it on purpose to disrespect you.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:27 PM
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You should be putting it the same exact energy with all women, which is just enough to get the job done. If you're over-exerting yourself, chances are because the woman isn't playing ball and you need to cut bait anyways.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:24 PM
3

15? You gotta get those numbers up. Those are rookie numbers in this racket. You straight up aren't talking to enough women because if you were, you'd realize that number is miniscule. Get out there and approach.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:53 PM
1

Say whatever you want. Honesty you already hit so if she ghosts you now technically she's the one that lost. "I intent to run for President and take over Canada."
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:51 PM
1

Who is this girl? A gf? A fuckbuddy? What?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:49 PM
1

In every social situation, someone is always "leading" and everyone else "follows". You never wanna be the "follower" with women.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:48 PM
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In every social situation, someone is always "leading" and everyone else "follows". You never wanna be the "follower" with women. You're having issues with shit tests because you give a shit. It's smart to recognize it but try to get into the mindset that nothing that woman says is serious enough for you to care anyways.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:47 PM
0

You're overthinking it. You did ok.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:49 PM
6

You're a dude dating his HS age daughter. He's not gonna like you because he knows what he was after at your age. Don't stress too much about it.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:48 PM
2

Keep cutting her off unless its work related. If your manager starts tripping explain to him she's keeping you from getting your work down with her gossiping.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:46 PM
1

Oh so this was prolly like your 1st or 2nd actual date. I wouldn't call her your gf but give her some space and see what happens. Don't trip on it.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:42 PM
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Only one way to find out...
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:40 PM
2

Next this broad. You're trying to see her way too fast. Once a week MAX. Also you don't need a 3rd date to have time to "push for sex". You already had 2 long dates over an hour to do that. Also the fact that you've been on 2 dates already but when you try to set up the 3rd you're getting resistance means her attraction is going the wrong way.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:39 PM
2

a females power comes from what you think she will do S/O to Black Phillip
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:35 PM
1

How long have ya'll been dating?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:35 PM
4

Why do you care about a bunch of dudes that aren't you? How does this question help you and your situation?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:49 AM
3

When guys come here they either go out and get pussy or sit on reddit and was time with post like OPs
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:49 AM
1

Learn how to "raise interest" and/or "seduce". That's high level stuff. Meanwhile just deal with women who already have high interest. You honestly shouldn't wanna deal with low interest girls anyways because the work it takes to raise it isn't worth it.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:44 AM
1

Why do you care if a girl thinks your "butthurt"?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:35 AM
1

So you now have a date set?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 09:20 PM
1

Wait you left that part out. So you asked her out, she said she was busy and you're still talking to her?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 09:12 PM
2

Yea man just chill off of it. You can't force relationship stuff like making plans on people. Especially with all this Rona going around and everyone is stressed rn. No reason to pile on top of it.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 09:08 PM
2

Not your job. Not worth wasting the energy. And either way you always lose.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:57 PM
2

I think it's you who needs to let go of her past. Sheet doing what you ask. That's all that matters
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:56 PM
4

Welp my boy what you're learning is called "growing apart". The older you get the less often you're gonna be kicking it with HS buddies. Such is life. Don't sweat it. Y'all will convene when you can make it work. Don't force it.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:55 PM
3

I'm getting the idea that you 3 met in like high school and are now out in college, correct?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:31 PM
3

Stop jerking around and set the date already
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:28 PM
3

You can do everything right and still not get every girl you meet. Only 3 girls in 3 months? Don't tell me those are the only girls you've been hollering at.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:19 PM
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Tis a waste of time to get a fuck about what some random girls are saying... Keep lifting and go fuck some women.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:18 PM
5

A bunch of words that have nothing to do with the situation you're currently in. Who gives a fuck about a ex. Is she doing what you require of her in your relationship?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:15 PM
5

There it is. Even tho she might be a virgin all girls know about the 3 date rule. She knows now to keep this going she's gonna have to put out. OR These 2 dates y'all been on didn't really do it for her so she rather just cancel on you and keep it moving. On to the next.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:11 PM
3

So you went out on 2 dates already and now you're trying for a third and now its like you're dragging her to get her out. Have you had sex yet?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:02 PM
5

The thing is that OP needs to "close" himself. Nothing we say is gonna help because he WANTS to keep tripping on this broad. If he didn't and her memory came up he would fight from indulging in it. Not jump in head first
/r/askTRP16/11/20 07:38 PM
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What is the logic in that? She hold me accountable if I do similar things and give me criticism but I cannot do the same to her? Exactly. Because, again, she's your fucking mother. It seems that you got this anger and you need and outlet. I'd speak to a therapist. You got a lot of wires crossed up with the relationship with you and your mom and that is gonna carry with you anytime you interact with women. It's showing now that you think women that you don't even know need to be held to this "sta…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 07:36 PM
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That's not really "red pill" shit but just calling it as it is. The dude that was tripping because she was with another guy was a bitch and to ditch her makes sense. The longer you go down this road you're gonna se a lot of the red pill stuff that makes sense is just basic dating stuff. Maybe that'll be more apparent as you coach her.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 07:09 PM
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Ya'll come on here and try to "alpha" your parents. That's so fucking backwards. Dude, this woman carried you to term and gave birth to you and raised you by herself. You have no right to hold her to ANY fucking standard because without her you wouldn't BE here. So abandon this power trip because all it's gonna do is make it look like you're some punk kid who doesn't respect their parents. Hell even the example you gave wasn't really her being that bad. And this is gonna stop you from getting wo…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 07:06 PM
7

You're most likely out. When it comes to open couples like that the last thing they waste time on is a 3rd who can't throw down.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:59 PM
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And spending time writing this up to have a bunch of randoms online analyze her is going to help you get over her, how?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:45 PM
1

Delete her number. Sounds like you both are just wasting each other's time. You waited 2 days to set plans and now that you did she's trying to sidestep.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:31 PM
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That's a lot of words about some bitch you ain't fucking no mo.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:27 PM
2

Because they find older women attractive. Why do you care? How does this question help you?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:00 PM
2

Ok. So this goes back to what redpillripper said. You gotta know what you want. When you know, you understand how to handle the situation because you have a goal. This discussion you had no goal but just to jawjack with this broad. Mission accomplished. You did do something for free. You gave her your time.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:00 PM
1

That doesn't mean anything. All we have is now. And right now, she just wants to fuck. So just fuck her.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 05:51 PM
1

So you wanna get with her friends, right? They why not go after her friends? Why are you sweating this girl?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 05:50 PM
2

Shit or get off the pot. You've spent a month jawjacking with this broad and haven't tried to fuck her yet. Now she's bringing up other guys. Sounds like the window has closed or is close to it. Set the date and make something happen.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:26 PM
1

Yea just do that. If she gave you the "what are we" line and said she's ok with just hooking up, it means that she's sensing you wanna wife her up but she doesn't want that. Ease off the bf vibes and just keep fucking her. she wasn’t ready for a relationship yet Yea, a relationship with YOU. Translation, she doesn't wanna be your gf because she sees nothing in it for her.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:17 PM
1

How long have you been fucking this girl?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:11 PM
5

THIS. RIGHT. HERE. That's the problem with a majority of guys on this sub. They don't go into interactions with a goal. They just kinda jawjack with women and "see what happens". Nah, bih. What do you want? Once you have that answer, dealing with women is ez.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:01 PM
1

You're thinking way too much into this. She just wanted the homework. How does she have your SC if ya'll have never met?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:59 PM
1

Yes. Because what Todd V does vs AMS is Steph is just a different mentalily on how to date. The issue with most men is they have no structure. So if you wanna follow Todd or AMS, that's fine. You just need to be set in what you're doing and don't waver.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:57 PM
1

Sounds like she's trying to throw you the pussy and you don't wanna take it or you're misreading the situation. Either way next move is the same. Invite her straight to your place. If she's as into you as you say she is, she'd be down.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:55 PM
1

How long have you been hooking up with her? If it's been a few months like you say and she hasn't brought it up, it means she's happy with what you two are doing and trying to move her to gf is just gonna tank it. When you work for a company, they usually move up only those who are asking for promotions. Though process being if you wanted a promotion you'd make it known. If she's not making it known, she doesn't want a promotion.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:49 PM
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Usually when that happens it's because you're trying to TAKE in every interaction vs trying to GIVE. We talk about abundance here and that mindset spreads to everything in your life. You don't get mad at women for "female nature" because you know you'll never run out so you don't trip. That's the thing about assholes is that their energy vacuums. They only wanna take take take because in reality they understand they lack so much. Either you have something you lack that you aren't dealing with or…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:48 PM
1

Do you genuinely like being in bars and clubs? We're not there so it would help to know what you keep seeing in your game that's not getting things popping for you.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:19 PM
1

Oh he's an ex customer. Yea let him alone. If yall aren't as tight just because narcotics ain't involved anymore that's not a real strong friendship to be doing this sort of thing with.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:03 PM
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It's way more than just sex. The thing that makes a "beta" is their sole purpose to do things just to please other people. When a woman finds a guy that will do that, she'll run rampant. The key is just never being that guy and always leading. You can't have a bitch run you if you running the bitch.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:01 PM
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[reads title] Regardless you need to just ditch her. [reads post] She's an attention whore. Or this is just her way of talking with you. She's not "being a bitch", you're reading way too much into what a girl is doing that you ain't fucking. She's being an attention whore because you keep giving her attention. You can't live with a crackhead, keep giving them crack and then bitch about why they keep coming to you for crack.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:56 PM
2

Don't shove the pill down his throat. If you've been her more than like.. 10 minutes you should learn how to speak to guys like this without sounds like a red pilled sperg. It's all about tact. Also I wouldn't do it unless this is, say, a good friend of yours. If he's just some acquaintance or a guy you see in passing you don't hold enough stock for him to even listen to you about this.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:54 PM
1

You care way too much about this one situation. Go find other ones. Also, who says you can't still hit? They're going on their first date and you're in your head about this acting like their bf/gf already. She may not even like this dude like that.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 09:39 PM
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Find women that find blond hair/blue eyes attractive. And stop caring so much about it.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 09:35 PM
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Even in regular circles ppl tell you guys long distance doesn't work but you guys don't listen. This is why it doesn't work. The fact that you're even tripping off of this means you need to let this one go. Be real You've know this girl for 6 mos and don't think you can replace her with a girl that is at least in your same country?
/r/askTRP15/11/20 07:05 PM
1

Prioritize. Put your work and business first and game after that. You can have 2 things that you're dedicated to doing and not lose out on no business
/r/askTRP14/11/20 11:32 PM
1

Concur with #2. Dance music is getting old so seeing guys in their 30s like is is common. Hell I go to shows (pre COVID) where I'm the youngest person there including the workers . It is what it is. It's your life that you gotta live, feel me?
/r/askTRP14/11/20 11:27 PM
1

Bitches want the best man they can get so be the best man you can be
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:29 PM
2

Depends on the girl. Don't reveal your age. If you don't tell her, she'll assume something good if she's attracted to you anyways.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:26 PM
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Tell them you're not interested and they're fucking with the vibe by trying to force you two together. If they keep doing it,.it may be time to pull back from the group. Any friend(s) that keep forcing stuff on you against your clear objections (unless it's like, rehab or something truly healthy) are NOT your friends.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:25 PM
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You care too much about what other people think. If you enjoy fucking her, anyone else who would put you down for that has problems with themselves they gotta deal with.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:10 AM
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Neither. This chick wasn't into you. If a girl wants something to happen with a dude the last thing she's gonna do is fuck it up by being late. IMO don't even give them the courtesy. If you say 9 and she shows up at 901 with no heads up, ditch her.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:07 AM
2

*if they're attracted to you. If you're some unsociable sperg chances are she won't care. I like the idea of raising and lowering attraction because in my mind if it ain't there, your game don't mean shit.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 07:20 PM
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Don't tell 'em.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 04:34 PM
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You've learned a lesson many men do not. "Like" and "attraction" are 2 separate things. A girl could hate your guts and still wanna fuck you. In fact, the hate she has for you could spin her emotions up to a point where she falls into attraction. Stop giving a fuck what these hoes "like". If they wanna hit, they wanna hit and the only way you could stop that is acting like a bitch.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 04:32 PM
1

How do you know she doesn't find you attractive already and is just dating another guy? We're not her. We can't tell you why she likes him.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 02:04 PM
1

Exactly. OP don't understand the mental of what he's saying in this post.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 01:57 PM
1

The 8.5 finds him attractive. Why do you care? How does worrying about this situation help you?
/r/askTRP13/11/20 01:56 PM
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She doesn't care and is interested. She's just using the class thing as an "in". Think about it. I'm sure she has actual friends in the class she could of got the lesson from BUT she dug up YOUR number to ask YOU. Why do you think she did it? Fuck what the class said and just try and hit
/r/askTRP13/11/20 01:54 PM
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Yes this is a woman's nature. You only have to worry about it if you're a bitch tho. You ain't no bitch, is you?
/r/askTRP13/11/20 01:47 PM
1

"Thanks but I'm not interested. Also I don't date coworkers."
/r/askTRP13/11/20 12:29 AM
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AskTRP isn't a sub to dump your BS on because you don't have enough karma to post it on the main sub. What's your question?
/r/askTRP12/11/20 10:07 PM
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That's not abundance. Abundance is knowing you can always get another bitch. Also wasn't saying that setting up your IG is fake, but don't be fake and go out into the world and go after it. My thing is TRP is about building you up to be the best guy you can be in sorts of mindset. If you want an IG guide I'm sure there's a pickup forum or something that can do that for ya. The thing against IG here is guys here get lost in the IG so it's better to just trash it and get the mindset down and THEN …
/r/askTRP12/11/20 09:14 PM
2

What do you think a reasonable ncount is? Why? Because I'll tell you this, a lot guys that trip about ncounts honestly don't have the experience to know about women with "high ncounts" or women in general.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 09:09 PM
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had to let her know. Be careful with that. All that did is give her more of your time when she already showed you she wasn't worth it in the first place. Another reason why you don't argue. You're rewarding her for fucking up with her time. Its why so many girls start trippin when their man don't be paying attention to them.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 09:07 PM
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Remember that AMS is just one guy. He can't tell you that if you do x you get y with every single women you meet. You gotta just do you and if the girl loses attraction for you for it, you're not compatible. Never be afraid of doing something over fear of losing a bitch.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 09:06 PM
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CAN you make IG work for you? Sure. But why not instead take that energy into just become that dude and not have to worry about having IG as your sole source of pussy? It's time to stop focusing on pouring energy into these sites and trying to give off the appearance of being high value and actually BE high value.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:39 PM
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Because they find you attractive. If you're attractive you're gonna have girls who are bi or may even be lesbian wanting to fuck you. It's nature. You're not attracted to the genitals of someone but the person as a whole. If you see a burly butch chick that's has a buzz cut and a stubble you're not gonna wanna hit just because she has a vagina. Does that make sense? Kinda leans into why guys are so made at trans women. They feel like they're being "tricked' in a sense.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:35 PM
1

What's your question?
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:29 PM
1

So I worry that I am going to spoil her and then she will not appreciate me. There it is. Your "spoiling" should be completely selfless. You should be gassing her up simply because you're doing it and you don't care if the bitch walks if you do because that's just who you are. What I would do is keep the "spoiling" to when she is going outta her way to spoil you. I mean parents wanna give their kids the world and shit but they know they can't spoil them because it'll fuck up the kids development…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:18 PM
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No. The issue is you. Your GF was a POS because even though she was doing that you stayed with her for 3+ yrs. Why should she have to change or do anything when she already has you and knows you ain't going anywhere anyways. You gotta check your hoes off rip and be willing to walk away if needed. Your plate... you don't argue with plates. You fuck them and if they do something to piss you off you cut them. That's it. NEVER argue with a girl because arguing means they have a say in how shit is ru…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:14 PM
1

Here's the thing about ncounts... they don't really matter simply due to the fact that you're never gonna know the true number anyways. My question is why do you care about what some random guys think on the internet if neither of you wanna fuck her anyways? Why waste the time caring about it?
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:10 PM
1

Do you drink or smoke at all? Do you beat your shit a lot?
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:01 PM
1

Post em if you want. Remember the most simpy thing you can do as a guy is be afraid of doing something because it may come off as simpy. If you're posting your girl because you want to, do it. If you're doing it to show off or because you think it'll help the relationship THEN it becomes simpy. It's not the actions that make a man a simp but the reason behind them.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:40 PM
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The thing is it's in every man to strive to be better in some way shape or form. This blurb that you've described isn't you. It's what you've become when you stop trying at life. And people like that aren't really that fun to be around. Do you have dreams or aspirations?
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:37 PM
2

Your mindset is fucked. Cars in general are liabilities, not assets. That means you have to pour more than just the sticker price into it. Gas, maintenance, parking, etc. You're 17. You don't need a car if you would consider walking vs driving a beater. Also your first ride should be a lemon because you will crash it. Guaranteed. I'm not sure if you're in the US but here the most expensive ppl to insure are ppl under 25 because they always crash their shit.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 10:10 PM
2

From this it looks like you never really wanted to be with this chick in the first place. If you're looking for a way out, then just be out, ya kno?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 10:04 PM
1

Do you wanna have a convo with her, do so. If not, do not. Now the other issue is a bitch you just fucking has the audacity to tell you what you need to do with your time, and that in itself is grounds for dismissal.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:59 PM
1

Why do you care? How does this question help you?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:57 PM
6

People aren't beta, Actions are. Also most people aren't really introvert or extrovert and kind of hop in and out depending on the situation. What really matter is who's leading. You trying to be an extrovert if you're truly not just to get her, that's beta.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:56 PM
6

Now there's a different between giving a fuck about ppls feelings and not wanting to act like a complete social autist. Just find what your balance is and do that.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:46 PM
4

When you get girls with OLD, understand that a majority of them (especially if they're attractive) aren't really looking to meet up with dudes unless the guys is just their "chad" or they really thirsting for it. It's all to get more followers for them. Skip adding them on the IG (unless your IG is real strong and makes you look more high value, which if it is just link it to your Tinder) and get straight to the point. You wanna move from the app to meeting up, not to another app.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:45 PM
2

Why do you think you're "dead in the water"? Do you have a date set?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:41 PM
1

Word. Now you're right learning to not be bitter is healthy, but you gotta learn to genuinely not be bitter. Not just act like it. If you are truly bitter it's gonna come off. So just come from a place where "Hey this girl isn't following directions and SHE KNOWS she's not so I gotta cut bait". Don't matter how I do it but it's gotta be done. Now the leaving the door open really shouldn't matter. Again we're trying to curtail what we're doing based on how the girl might take it. You could just s…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:13 PM
2

Guys think getting pussy is hard. Nah. What's hard is having a bad bitch in your crib that isn't giving up the pussy and you KNOW you gotta charge her but you just want it so bad. It'll get better with practice. The crazy thing is tho, the better you get at charging a bitch, the MORE pussy you get.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:54 PM
1

And this second question again shows you're in her frame. I'm not trying to dog you, just wanna make sure you can see it. If she's not giving you what you want, why do you care on how you break it off?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:53 PM
1

Understand she's not really giving you "woman's perspective". She's giving you the perspective if you were to use that line on her. Since you're her patient, yes telling her to come over to your house is creepy. Now if you were a guy she's been trying to fuck for the last 3 days did that, it wouldn't be creepy. Creepiness is subjective and is based on attraction and social calibration.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:27 PM
1

I wouldn't even soft next. Just take your foot of the gas for a min. She said she'd hit you up when she's back. Let her hit you back. If she don't, oh well.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:23 PM
3

She may not wanna do it for this reason but all that shows is her desire to have sex with OP isn't enough to overcome that fear. If a woman like wants you wants you, she may be afraid of coming off sluttly by fucking you quick BUT she understands that if she doesn't fuck you quick she'll lose you. So in some roundabout way its either she doesn't care enough about the situation with OP to fuck him to keep him around or she just doesn't wanna fuck him in general and is using it as a line.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:20 PM
2

She's in your frame yet she's been over your house 3 times and you haven't got any ass and instead of cutting her the SECOND time she did this it's the THIRD and you're on this sub asking "What do I do bros?". Son, if you're interacting with a girl and she's not doing what you want her to do and you still fuck with her, you're in her frame. Cut that bitch off. Next caller.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:16 PM
1

Yes. Good you made her bust but like you said you wanna drop her. And the more you curtail what YOU wanna do to spare HER feelings will just make the situation shit. I'd do it on a very special day called TODAY. I mean you posted this so you've been thinking about doing this for a while. Rip off the bandaid.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:12 PM
2

I think it's a #s problem. Usually if you're not getting anything popping sex-wise is because you're putting too much energy into other things around getting sex instead of going to get sex. All of that said, all the girls see me as their best friend. This could be how you're coming at the interaction. You may flirt but not enough or waiting too late or something like that. You gotta let her know soon as you can why you're talking to her and for what purpose. If you rest too long you end up in p…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:10 PM
3

I thought she was special Welp now you know she's not. So why be mad? my ego is hurt Ding ding ding. There it is right there. You gotta take the ego outta dating and a lot of dudes older than you still have issues with it so don't beat yourself up too much. This is the root. The reason you thought she was "special" is because you thought you could control her pussy. She's a person with her own wants and needs and desires. Understand that and sit on it. There are no winners and losers either. Is …
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:04 PM
1

Just keep her as a plate and fucking her. You shouldn't be chilling on her IG anyways. That's not your place. Let's think logically. She said she was gonna delete a photo and didn't. Why even expend the energy to be mad about it?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:56 PM
1

Just cut her off. "Hey it's been fun but I think this has run it's course" or w/e the fuck you wanna say. Do NOT drag it out. If you know rn you're done hit her up and tell her that. The more you drag this out the higher chance of dealing with the drama you don't want.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:54 PM
1

If you don't want anything from them, why do you care about what you do?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:51 PM
9

Exactly. That's hookup/casual shit. Hiking and wine is bf/gf shit. You gotta build the relationship up to that. You don't just take some girl you fucked once hiking.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:48 PM
1

How often do you flirt with women when you interact with them? What feedback do you get when you do it? How many women have you talked to this week?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:47 PM
3

Understand that there's no way for you even to "get revenge" in the first place because the only reason you feel the way you do was due to your emotions being into this girl. Her emotions are into you at all, so anything you do is just gonna build her up. Block her on insta and move on. OR go in the opposite direction and desensatize yourself to the truth. She's fucking him. Right now. Hard. Makes you mad, right? Why does it make you mad? Really sit with it and think about it. why do you care th…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:45 PM
4

You're cupcaking. Sometimes when guys get good pussy, they do to much afterwards to try and "keep" it. Did yall go hiking on your date before you hit or did you just meet her at a bar and fuck her?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:41 PM
4

There are differences but those differences have nothing to do with what you two are trying to do unless you're trying to involve them in some business or something. All that matters is that she's following and doing what you need her to do. If she doesn't, the reason behind it doesn't matter. If her dad being high value interferes with that, charge her. Simple.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:36 PM
1

It's nice to see some real shit in here in the sea of guys all like "Don't get married she'll take ur stuff blah blah blah" lol
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:36 AM
1

Of course... Why would you think otherwise?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:35 AM
1

You're talking to your plates too much on shit that don't matter. Why are you arguing with these gilds. Just fuck em.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:32 AM
1

Why do you care? How does help you get more women?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:31 AM
1

How can you say she was sending "hi interest signals" yet you aint hit yet. If you think a girl is running game, dead it.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:30 AM
2

If you want more exp with girls, go after more girls. Now if you're trying to fuck her friends, do the same thing you did to fuck her. Boom.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:28 AM
5

"Oh geez, TRP. This girl looked me in the EYES and didn't fuck me. What the SHIT, bros?" You do realize that she could have been looking at you because you looked weird to her, right? Al these IOI's and stuff mean nothing. She wasn't interested, so it wasn't an IOI. Ya dig?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:25 AM
1

Welp, since your stoke game is shit, no. You won't.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:23 AM
1

She knows you're not. Don't trip on it.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:22 AM
1

You're right, bro Don't improve yourself. Just stay and your room, jack off and be nothing. It's over for you anyways.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:21 AM
2

All women like to fuck whoever they're attracted to. Why do you care? How does that help you?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:19 AM
40

It's throwing you off because you think she's special just because her father is a real dude and not a loser. She's not.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:17 AM
3

Why are you spending time with friends of some girl you're just having sex with?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:16 AM
9

The only your Jaw makes you look like a bitch is because you believe your jaw makes you look like a bitch. Stop thinking that. "Alpha" is about actions and behaviors, not looks.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:16 AM
1

You are overthinking it. First we say don't shit where you eat as what you said you're gonna get (your promotion and 401k) you're putting on the line for some pussy. I'm sure there's an 18 yr old you DON'T work with you could deal with Now, if you wanna be an idiot and go for it anyways, just ask her out and stop making it complicated.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:14 AM
1

Not your job. Ya'll are just fucking. Who cares if her friends don't like you?
/r/askTRP10/11/20 10:32 PM
2

Yes. Girls out there will take plane rides to meet up with dudes if they wanna. Game girls closer to you
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:30 PM
2

Anything that can be attributed to the fact you don't get pussy
/r/askTRP10/11/20 04:27 PM
3

Never take a girl seriously. Especially if yall ain't even met yet. Say whatever the eff you want.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 04:26 PM
1

You don't "deal" with your managers, you shut up and color. WKs gonna WK. Let it be. Don't hurt you none.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:46 PM
1

Would you? It doesn't matter if we would.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:43 PM
13

Girls will go to marches, house parties and all sorts of shit but ALLOFASUDDEN they can't see you because of covid. They're not interested. Keep it pushing.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:42 PM
1

If you're a dry texter, it is what it is. Trying to text better just to entertain her isn't gonna drop the panties. She's not into you. Bitches have been meeting up all the time during this pandemic. Just another excuse.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:41 PM
1

What would you say? We can tell you what we'd say but if you try to copy it it'll come off weird.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:37 PM
4

Another version of "don't shit where you eat". This is worse ESPEICALLY if you're in a position over them because if it comes back around you will get shitcanned for it
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:36 PM
1

It is stupid because you're trying to use a girls IG to predict how she'll act. You can't use the internet to figure out how a person is gonna react to A B and C. You gotta just go for it. Social media is all bs anyways. And when we say "don't stick your dick in crazy" it's not about feminists. It's about women who are LITERALLY crazy. Like talk about sexual assault stories to you on the first date type crazy.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:34 PM
-1

So what's your question?
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:32 PM
2

If you feel she's using you it's because you don't know what you want and aren't leading the situation. What do you want?
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:30 PM
7

For now, it's done. Bro, she's 22. You wanna talk about "emotions changing with the wind"? That's mostly those girls. Sometimes the truth hurts. Let her process it and decide to come back if she wants. And NEVER say sorry for being honest. You told her the deal. If she can't take it that's her problem, not yours.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:29 PM
3

You didn't really give her anything to respond to. Was more like a statement then a question lol
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:41 AM
3

Why do you think she's playing games? Try hitting her back with a date and time and see what she says?
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:33 AM
2

Your issue isn't the bald head but you care too much about these girls. So you show up with a shaved head and they don't like it. So? You could show up and she sees your shoes and be like "Nah, I'm good." The best way to be not show insecurity is to not have it in the first place. You have so much more value then your look with or without hair, ykno?
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:08 AM
1

Why do you care? How does this help you and your situation?
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:05 AM
2

Why do you care? How does this question help you and your situation?
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:04 AM
0

Nah I'll keep posting. You take care tho.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:28 PM
-1

I'm ok. Some random dude is commenting on my Reddit post as if his opinion matters but hey it's online. Ya can't dodge all the people who don't get enough human interaction in real life so they have to start arguments with strangers.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:24 PM
0

I'm suggesting they write more then scripts. Yes
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:21 PM
0

Yea fuck those doctors with this "schooling" and "knowledge". They're just front line sales for big pharma.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:18 PM
3

It's a sticking point a lot of dudes have so don't beat yourself for it. Set the sexual vibe as soon as you can. Go slow but have a destination. Then you're not gonna have to wonder how/when to touch her. You're thinking that because it's more of a platonic vibe and when you try and touch her it gets awkward.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:15 PM
3

When she laughed instead of giving you the number I would of just left. That "little brat" thing was weird.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:13 PM
1

She isn't man. You think she is because you're taking what she's doing (talking to other guys) personally. It has nothing to do with you. She's single and is playing the field as girls in HS do. She's not doing it to spite you or make you mad.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:10 PM
1

She's just not interested, man. Why do you think she's playing you?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:06 PM
3

OK kid. Ima need you to sit down for this. She doesn't like you. That whole "my parents are strict" thing girls say at your age is BS. Now her parents MAY be that strict but trust me if she really wanted things to happen between you 2 she'd break curfew and all sorts of stuff. Any guy on this sub knows girls in HS that did it. That's why you think she's "running game'. She's not. What's really happening is that you think she likes you but her actions don't match up so YOU think she's playing gam…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:02 PM
1

Have you been one at least one date with this girl? What does she do when you try to make plans? Edit: Also what do you mean "using her guy friend to fuck with you"?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:49 PM
1

Oh so you've been out on a few dates and are fucking?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:46 PM
4

Well it's working because you got so pressed that you made this post. So that's why. Are you sure this girl is even playing games? Maybe she doesn't like you and is waiting for you to catch the hint.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:42 PM
1

If you have legal recourse to do so depending on where you life kick that bitch out. Some places if she ain't on the lease you can just get the locks changed and kick her shit to the curb. Again check your laws because the last you wanna deal with is cops showing up because you unlawfully evicted her.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:40 PM
0

TBH if your doc thinks you need 20mg, I'd just take the 20mg. I mean he is the one with the degree, y'kno? Taking less won't do anything necesarly bad but now you're running into the other issue of it just not working.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:37 PM
2

Especially when it's against what a licensed doctor told you.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:35 PM
1

Why do you care? How does this question help you?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 07:02 PM
4

That's the issue with using these "guides". You end up stuck in a situation where you don't even care about her type to being with. Don't even go down that road. Here's your "Tinder guide". What do you want from these girls you're swiping on. Use the texting to move towards whatever it is you want.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 07:02 PM
1

If you go to Chipotle and they give you your food for free, do you really care why? Just enjoy your food, bro.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:57 PM
1

Normally I would cut it right away Then cut it off. It's not that you're "punishing" her for going home but maneuvering the situation to get what you want and put yourself first.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:55 PM
1

Whenever your escalating and it goes South like this it's usually 1 of 2 things: Your escalation was off and/or not socially calibrated They're not interested It sounds with these examples for you it's 1. You're forcing the escalation and throwing them off. Gotta be smooth with it. You can't just be talking on some normal shit and then just blurt out "You got some sexy legs". That's creepy/cringy. It's like you feel you HAVE to say it instead of conveying it from the start of the interaction.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:46 PM
1

You're giving women too much power. Why do you care if some girl's ego gets gassed up? How does it effect you?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:41 PM
2

You are way too much into your own head about it. You've been thinking about this for 20 yrs and still not getting ass. Time to go do. Your job everyday now is lay your 5 bricks. Talk to 5 women a day. When you're out everyday. Start from there.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:35 PM
2

This girl is running game on you because you're not leading the situation and going for what you want. What do you want?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:33 PM
1

That's your job to set up first. Sounds like tall are just playing games because no one is leading this. Set up logistics and fuck her or keep it pushing.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:08 PM
1

It doesn't matter. You gave her direct instruction not to do something and she did it anyway. Next.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:56 PM
1

I get that. What I'm saying is why not just find a girl who doesn't care if you smoke or not and just fuck them?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:55 PM
1

Oh so you two have had sex?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:53 PM
2

If you're ever thinking that with a girl just move on anyways. No reason wasting energy in something that could potentially be dead, y'kno?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:21 AM
1

Here's the thing, if you tell a girl you don't smoke and it turns her off, it means you're not compatible. Like you said you don't and never wanna smoke, so why would you care that it messes you up with a girl that does?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:19 AM
1

Why makes you think you'd even need to bring this up?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:18 AM
1

What "backlash" would you take. You're outta HS, man. None of that drama means anything lol.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:17 AM
1

It's not your job to "patch things up" because you didn't do anything wrong. She takes it personal for you being you is not your problem, it's hers. Let her deal with it.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:17 AM
1

"Text for logistics" is a fancy way of saying you should only be texting women in order to set up dates. Which is what you should do here. Also there's no reason to put the ball in her court because to her you're a stranger. Why should she have to message you first when she's got 20 other dudes hitting her up to chill, ykno?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:15 AM
3

Aaaah. Welp the thing is even tho she's seen the photos unless you said it very sarcastically just something about you to her will seem off. It's less she's logically thinking that and her subconscious telling her not to view you sexually.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:12 AM
2

I basically forgot what I wanted. We never forget but we try and change what we want I'm hopes that it'll bag us the bitch bit that's backwards. He it's the main reason why we're here. Put what you want on the fridge. Never forgot it. Also be ready to a cut her off when she don't wanna follow the syllabus lol. Don't beat up on this one tho. This hoe is crazy.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:10 AM
8

Why would you tell her you're a virgin? That's not even her business. But yes, girls will lose interest if they find out a guy is a virgin. When men can't get women they think something is defective with him. So they go "welp if other women think he's defective, I don't wanna mess with him." Also is this the first time you've brought up sex with this girl?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:58 AM
1

Understand that you yourself are responsible for getting your needs met. If you're feeling lonely and cut off from other people then you need to figure out how to solve that. Join a club or get into some kinda sub genre of something you like but sitting and grieving on Reddit isn't gonna help.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:56 AM
3

Ok so those were prolly signs BUT if a girl is talking on those subjects out of the blue she's thinking about r*pe and the last thing you wanna do is fuck a girl who thinks about r*pe when she gets horny. Be careful with that. She wants to do what you wanna do, not just get coffee because it's on your profile. Now if you're into coffee a lot and you bring her along it's different.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:53 AM
6

If you try to fuck with a girl after she breaks up with you you're telling her you have 0 value. That this girl thinks you're not worth being with and you STILL chase after her is so sad. She most likely wont hit you up
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:48 AM
9

You gotta charge her for it. I know the sex was dope but like you said, she broke a rule. You CANNOT deal with women who do the opposite of what you tell them to do. Think about this, what if there was like a legitimist reason behind why you didn't want her at your job, like it could get you fired. Would you be cool risking your job just because a bitch 'felt like' showing up?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:45 AM
0

They do because guys like you read it and then come here to bitch about it to strangers on the internet. Why wouldn't they be delusional?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:42 AM
-1

I think this girl was just not interested. Girls know when they bring up subject of sexual assault and shit like that it'll make most guys not wanna do anything with them. So her going outta her way to bring it up seems like she didn't want you to put it in her. Or she's crazy and you just dodged a bullet. Also stop doing coffee dates. Unless it's in the evening.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:41 AM
14

No. She's not interested. She's just mad because the dude that she used to run around town for her grew a backbone all of a sudden. You're like the bartender that used to not charge her for drinks but now all of a sudden you're making her pay.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:39 AM
1

There it is. You call her plate and a fwb but you've never taken her out on a date or been intimate. Listen kid, this chick is just a friend. I'm sorry but lying to you isn't gonna help. Grab your balls and ask her out on a actual date.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:43 PM
1

See that's just a good friend, bro. That's it. You're overvaluating your relationship and that's why you're tripping about this. Have you asked her out on a date? Actually called it that? Made out with her?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:38 PM
1

Like what? Be specific.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:33 PM
1

So if this girl "technically" not your girl, why do you care about her talking with other dudes? Also, regardless of what weird thing yall wanna call this, you're just friends, because you're not having sex. Like what "benefits' are you even getting?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:07 PM
1

Words don't mean shit. What does that even mean a "friend friend"?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:59 PM
2

Are you intimate with her at all? Because fwb means you're having sex. If you're "fwb" and not fucking, you're just friends.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:51 PM
4

Prepare the exit strategy. She's not stupid. She's so blatant with her disrespect that she's doing it in front of you and doesn't even hide it. She may not even been cheating but just the fact that she's cool with doing this means she has 0 respect for you.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:49 PM
2

This girl may be a lil interested but she's playing games. Ditch her. I don't even deal with the LMR shit but bro by the 2nd time she said no sex you should of kicked her out.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:45 PM
3

Understand it's all part of the process. I mean if 4 girls in a row that gives you that line you fuck that night and a 5th girl does it you should be excited. Not upset. This one tho I think is just out but hey it comes with the game. You're dealing with people,. They're not always gonna play ball. But it just means yo bounce
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:43 PM
5

Everyone has different things that are easy and other things that are not. It's a waste of energy to bitch about it. You look at these girls right now living on easy mode but there's droves of humans living without running water. It's all about perspective. And understanding your life is your life and you gotta play the hand your dealt. This post is the thought process of a developing incel.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:36 PM
1

You care too much. Stop giving a shit. She's just a fuck buddy.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:29 PM
1

Remember it's HER job to maintain the relationship. It's your job to lead it. If she's not gonna do her role in maintenance let her go. Plus you're in school. You can always get another bitch.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:06 PM
1

Welp she's not showing you that interest from before. So what should you do?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:36 PM
2

You need to get off of Reddit and go deal with real ppl. Just reading your post makes it apparent that you're not here to actually improver yourself but win the "Red Pill Olympics" yet remaining at the level where you have no ability talk about the game. You ain't doing shit. So why should we listen to your take on... anything?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:25 AM
2

Why. Do You. Care? What. Do. You. Want?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:09 AM
1

You gotta charge her because you fucked up. Now if you're trying to hit idk why you'd agree to chilling with friends. So she was already done with ya. But you never set concrete plans. And you didn't lead to get the plans anyways. She most likely was waiting for you to get at her to text you details but since you didn't she figured you didn't wanna show up. Now if you didn't that's fine but hitting her up asking her why she didn't get at you is kinda dumb.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:08 AM
1

Ya'll need to stop coming up with these hypothetical situations and get off the internet. Go interact with people. This fetishization of dealing with social situations you've never been in before is fucking weird.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:04 AM
1

Finding someone to have a good relationship is SUPPOSED to be hard. It's why so many ppl suck at it. Just keep pushing, you'll find a bitch you wanna build eventually.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:01 AM
1

I took a min because your question reveals a bigger problem on your mindset on this situation. You're trying to predict the actions of a creature that is unpredictable and tripping on a bitch with a boyfriend!? Really? The only reason you'd ask is because you want her back. You fiending. It's ok but don't sit her and lie to us about it. I'm not trying to talk shit or talk down. I'm trying to show you what the real root of the issue lies. You care about what a girl is gonna do who ISN'T your girl…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:28 AM
1

You know better but you're still trying to lock her down. Stop. Again, lying to yourself. What is she gonna do? Who knows, man. We're not mind readers. And again, this is why you trying to lock her down. You're not looking for what's gonna happen, you're hoping one of us is gonna tell you she's gonna come back, suck you dick and do what you want. I'm telling you mostly she's not since you've been trying to lock her down threw her out in a fit of butthurt.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:12 AM
2

So say you're right and it is. What does that do to help you?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:09 AM
1

Use them if you want. It's not that big of a deal
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:08 AM
1

It was corny but hey, who cares?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:07 AM
1

She's doing it because you're letting it move you. It's just like a bully. If a bully can scare you and make you switch up by just being there, they're gonna keep doing it. Same thing with girls. You're letting her do what she's doing get to you and she's not even your gf. Why are you giving her so much energy if ya'll aren't exclusive?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:05 AM
2

Don't date your coworkers because the last place you wanna deal with a woman who's tripping is at your job. You could lose it and worse. Now for the coworkers, you cannot read interest levels from women when they're working because they're working. A girl at work has to be bubbly and nice and sometimes flirty because if not it could affect their money. So don't even deal with it. Also the fact you're asking this question means you prolly not ready to deal with a girl AND your job at the same tim…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:57 PM
1

Both. This girl isn't interested and is yanking your chain, dude. Keep it moving. Look at your texts. She's giving you all these reasons to NOT see you and not suggesting anything to help.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:54 PM
2

Anytime without escalating with a bitch is too much. Bro, you need to be ON SIGHT with that shit. The second you meet a bitch regardless of how if you wanna fuck her you need to push up on her. Period.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:49 PM
1

Sounds like you talked this girls ear off and now she's not interested or she never was in the first place. What makes you think she had high interest?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:45 PM
1

Yes. Stop listening to guys who don't get pussy (incels) about getting pussy. That makes no sense. Get off reddit and go outside.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:38 PM
5

You're prolly done. Bro this ain't your girl. You know that. The only reason you're even tripping about this tho is because you WANT her to be your girl. Even tho you say you don't have feelings, you do. If you didn't you wouldn't be posting this anyways. Let her go and stop lying to yourself. The only reason she would even be bringing up ditching the bf is if she's reading the energy that you wanna lock her down.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:36 PM
2

Flakes happen man. No reason to take it personally. Hell think about it like this. So you matched with this girl on OLD, right? Even tho you talked before she doesn't even know you. So how could her flaking on you have any reflection on the person YOU are? None right? Then why be angry?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:23 PM
7

Work on the things you can change and accept the things you cannot.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:20 PM
1

we didn't try and have sex Why?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:54 PM
1

Remember, the most neediest thing you can do is do/not do something because you're afraid if a girl thinks it's "needy". You're the prize, remember? That whole "waiting to build value" is bullshit. Now some girls may think that but a lot of girls will either think you got cold feet or straight up forget you if you wait 2 days.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:45 PM
1

Sometimes you gotta chuck em back in the water because you fucked it up. The only reason they're going rambo into this feminism line is because they know it pisses you off. How you gonna let what some girl says throw you like that lol
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:41 PM
1

The thing is that when a girl is drunk and has a boyfriend I don't want to be involved as that can turn bad quick. So don't get involved? Flirting and "coming on" to you are good and fun but to women that doesn't mean shit. She may not even want anything to happen and is just having fun with it.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:36 PM
5

The reason that the sex isn't as good as it used to be is because her attraction to you has fallen. She'll assume the position and let you pound away because she's doing just enough sexwise to keep you there not drop her. Most likely what's happened is it's set in her mind that she's your only source for pussy. And even tho that's the logical idea because you're exclusive women just find that unattractive. Get some side.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:35 PM
-1

What's your question?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:31 PM
3

Move on.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:29 PM
1

Normal. Why are you trying to smash a girl when her bf is right there?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:29 PM
1

Stop playing it cool and be cool. Say whatever you want.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:27 PM
1

Your mindset is fucked up. Don't trip about whatever other guys a woman as going after her and if you wanna get with her just go for it.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:16 PM
12

Dump her. You say she doesn't have game yet she was able to lock you down in 2 mos, not fuck you and convince you she's only been with one girl before so you think she's a virgin. This is why I get on yall on this ncount bs. So what if she's a virgin? She's not fucking you. Why would you stay if you wanna have sex?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:14 PM
2

She's doesn't like you. Drop this hoe. She does the work of being in the relationship because it has to be done EXCEPT her fucking you well because you allowed her to do it. This is your MAIN bitch. She should be the one wanting to jump your bones the second she sees you.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:44 AM
3

It's a mix of both. Your personality is who you are, your opinions, how you move, etc. It's what sets you apart from me and every other guy. Understand that women value different personalities differently. Some girls will stay they want a "strong man" but if he works out he's too much. Other women won't deal with a guy unless he straight up hits her and shit. Just focus on building yourself up and just find the girls that jive with you
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:42 AM
2

This makes you sound like a defensive child. Remember that "shit tests" are women basically flirting, which is supposed to be fun. You getting butthurt when she's trying to have fun with you is a huge red flag to her that she shouldn't have sex with you.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:38 AM
5

You've been dealing with this girl for what? A week? That ain't no time really. Maybe she likes the dick. Maybe she's bored. Maybe she's just chasing the fun and you happen to be there. Who knows?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:35 AM
6

I'd say you should work to actually getting a quality girl first and get up to that process. If you're asking questions like this you're prolly not ready for a girl yet because the last thing you should ever do is try and switch up for a girl
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:31 AM
8

I'd only ditch her if you catch yourself slippin. Now this post means you're CLOSE... but yea
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:29 AM
1

Don't call them anything. Calling them something is a rank. You don't just get a rank in the military because they think you wanna join. Ya gotta actually do shit.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 10:10 PM
3

If she's inviting you straight over she doesn't care if you see her as a slut. Girls only care about that if the don't wanna fuck you
/r/askTRP06/11/20 10:05 PM
1

Why not just go to her house and fuck her at the house? If she's in inviting you straight away why waste time going out?
/r/askTRP06/11/20 09:31 PM
1

Sometimes you gotta chuck her back into the water because you fucked up. You fucked up twice. I'd keep it pushing. You have plate crossed out and instead put "prospect". There's no such thing as a prospect. You're either her or you're not. Were you fucking her?
/r/askTRP06/11/20 09:26 PM
1

Nothing is set in stone. I'd only do a day date if say you're hitting it on the regular or something.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 09:24 PM
11

That's a question you gotta ask yourself. What do you want from a woman?
/r/askTRP06/11/20 09:24 PM
1

I'd get her out again. You admit that you really didn't move with any urgency so next time crank up the heat a bit and see what happens
/r/askTRP06/11/20 07:33 PM
1

It could be she wants to hit but like I said, she got bored of waiting for you to move in. So instead of standing there feeling goofy she left
/r/askTRP06/11/20 07:27 PM
3

Why do you care? It's not your job to "compete" with Black guys but find the girls that are into you.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 06:58 PM
1

Did you make any move to have sex with her? Sounds like you just took too long and she got bored and left.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 06:57 PM
0

How else is she in the relationship? If she doing what you need her to do and following your lead? If she is, who cares if she posts some shit an ex got her?
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:45 PM
1

The only real issue I see is coming here asking this question to the sub. Bro, if you like what you're doing, keep doing it. No reason to come here and get approval from guys on the internet. That's what "beta" truly is, y'kno? At the end of the day you're getting what you want from the situation and kicking her to the curb if you don't. That's all the game you really need.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:43 PM
42

Some girl flaked on you and you're worried if she sees your butthurt? Why?
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:39 PM
1

Walk up to them and start talking
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:38 PM
2

This right here is why we say "text for logistics". You've been texting this girl for a full week, haven't got her out yet and now you're tripping about not screwing it up. You haven't done anything yet, man. There's nothing TO lose. Hell you don't even know if she's attracted to you. This is just some girl you've texted for a min. You handle her the same way you handle any other girl. You set your date. No initiating texts until the day of to confirm. If she flakes, she wasn't interested anyway…
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:37 PM
1

Neither matters because women won't tell you the truth about them anyways and the only guys who trip off if it don't really understand it.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:07 PM
1

If you don't just wanna be her friend then don't just be her friend.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:03 PM
1

Ok so that's good. Now if they're showing this and you pull back it always works. Either they'll just fall off because they weren't interested anyway or they'll reach out because whatever reason for them giving you those signs went away. Usually too if you've been fucking a girl for a min and her interest is falling you're already on your way out anyways.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:53 PM
1

What what do you mean by "strategy"? Why do you need one to deal with women who flirt? Always pay attention to action. If you're moving forward with setting up dates and having sex and they're giving resistance you move on. Simple.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:50 PM
8

Define "showing less interest". Also you don't go cold on girls as a tactic to get them back but to not deal with women who are wasting your time.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:31 PM
21

She said she was interested.. not that she wanted to be your gf. Hang out have fun hook up. If after a while she DOES bring up the gf thing be honest with where you're at.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:16 PM
1

Because y'all goofy mfs come on here all the time with these threads bitching about women.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:13 PM
6

Why do you care about some girl you don't even know and what dicks she's taking
/r/askTRP05/11/20 01:12 PM
2

If you don't like your gf snapping other dudes don't make girls that snap other dudes your gf. Simple.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:33 PM
2

Just gotta find a girl that's down with what you do. A lot of women don't understand when a man actually has a life but it is what it is
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:31 PM
1

If she's in the friends group just let it along and stop trying to get her out. If not then block her.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:13 PM
4

Tis irony. But yea you keep her in check by checking her.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:39 PM
4

See man thats what women want you to think. You think just because she sells pussy that you gotta do some "tactic" to get her. They all just hoes lol. If anything I would say they're can be 0 bitch in you. Sniffing that out is what makes them their money (granted all women do that too for other reasons).
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:21 PM
3

I like what I like. Then go for it. Why do you care about how some random people on the internet think about who you wanna fuck?
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:14 PM
3

Don't look for hobbies just because there's women there but look for shit you genuinely have an interest in. Even if what you choose maybe not have a lot.of women doing that you can meet people who know single women and go from there. Put yourself out there. You can't get chose by a bitch if she ain't never met you.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 02:13 PM
2

You gotta get some hobbies and/or meet ppl outside of your school. Time to build a social life.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 02:03 PM
3

I got shit to do more important then caring about how some women turn out.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:59 PM
2

Start talking to women.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:58 PM
3

You're giving too much energy to a woman who isn't reciprocating. Hence why you're in so deep. When you try and scheme like this into getting a girl to fuck you it's all just wasted energy. The second she shot you down you should of left it. Learn to look for women following your lead and spend your energy dealing with them.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:57 PM
1

Why do you care?
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:45 PM
3

Now. Why wait?
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:45 PM
4

I'm the most respectable person like it's all cool. Treat all people with respect at all time BUT at the same time demand yours. Listen if a hoe ghost me, that's HER loss. Why should I feel weird because a bitch is too dumb to choose up on me?
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:41 AM
1

Why do you care?
/r/askTRP04/11/20 12:27 AM
3

THIS, OP.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 12:27 AM
3

All dicks look weird. Women don't give a shit.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 12:25 AM
1

What would you say your conversion rate is? Also how many girls are you talking to say... a day or a week?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 09:03 PM
4

It's because she doesn't want it. Either she's got another dude and wants to play the field or she doesn't want that from you. So no, don't push for it and keep fucking her
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:03 PM
4

Keep doing what you're doing. I can tell by that tagline that you follow Corey Wayne, yes? What does he say about women who don't push for commitment?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:56 PM
1

Don't focus on "getting it right". This is just so you don't waste a lot of time on this girl if it turns out she's not down. Just don't be getting into anymore long convos in the phone about bullshit. You can respond if she reaches out but save the talk for the meetup.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:44 PM
1

Wait a week and shoot again. Straight to your place. And limit the texting. If she wanted to go out on a date date then she should of taken your offer. That's on her now
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:31 PM
1

Did she flake on you or turn you down? As in did she already agree to see you and then later said she couldn't make it?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:26 PM
1

It's common sense but if you don't know, you don't know. You know? Like a few years ago I would be agreeing with him
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:23 PM
1

Yea when girls write that stuff in their bio it's all bullshit. Don't even read the bio. All you need to do is move to make things happen. If she's not trying to go along with making anything happen, drop her. Simple.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:13 PM
3

There's no chance in hell that she's gonna ask to do that because she's looking for a relationship, not sex and futhermore she's not the type of girl who's gonna ask to come to mine BEFORE the first date See, this is why yall need to stop going back and forth with girls on your phone instead of trying to get them out. Bro this is the cut/paste shit women say when they don't find you sexually attractive. If she did this is the LAST thing she'd say to you. I'm willling to bet money that she's fuck…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:04 PM
6

Yea at this point she should be doing some if not most of the pursuing. Unless there's nothing to pursue aka she's fine with how things are. Just leave her as a plate.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:00 PM
1

There's nothing wrong with improving a girls life. That means you have value. You just fucking with people in general makes their lives better. Thats a good thing. Where you're fucking up is that you're not asking for anything in return. She left you hi and dry because YOU didn't use her as something to better your life. So of course if feels like you lost.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:58 PM
1

Do whatever the fuck you want. You don't go on dates to try and impress a girl. You're giving her the opportunity to show you why she's worth your time in the first place.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:54 PM
14

Anytime a girl says she's "too busy", read it as "too buys for you". Unless this bitch is like the CEO of a Fortune 500 company she's got SOME time to see you, realistically. If she really wanted to see you she'd make an effort, like offering a different day. Even if it's a lockdown. I mean think about it. This the LAST day she may get some dude over and she'd rather do homework?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:52 PM
5

Understand that you doing it is gonna screw up the dynamic you have. Most likely if she's cool with just fucking you and hasn't pushed for anything serious in 3 mos time then she doesn't' want anything outside of your dick. You may get her out with this but expect the shit to change. I'd go with someone else. Edit: How often is she reaching out to you to set dates vs you reaching out to her?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:49 PM
1

Ok. Thing is you wanna try and get her out as soon as you can. I'm suspecting you're in HS, yes. Ya gotta move fast in HS
/r/askTRP03/11/20 04:32 PM
1

You don't have a day to see her this week?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 04:21 PM
1

So why not link with her? Do you have a date set? If not, why not and when will you?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 04:17 PM
-3

Seems like a roundabout way to try and get back in her pants but fuck it you do you
/r/askTRP03/11/20 04:04 PM
7

So you were cool with fucking her before and now all of a sudden she gets one new dick and she may have something? What logic is that?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:55 AM
1

No. It's all about wha tyou wanna do. If you wanna meet in a public place, do that. If you want her to come straight overr, do that too. But it's about what YOU want.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:48 AM
3

Fuck a girl. And then fuck her again. Profit.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:46 AM
1

She's not interested.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:45 AM
1

I'd say let her slide on. If she wanna be back she'll be back. Besides you should have other girls you're messing with anyways so it shouldn't matter.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:44 AM
1

Why do you care about her losing interest if all you're gonna do is text back and forth? Is that all you wanna do with this girl?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:42 AM
7

Why do you care about another dudes dick and a bitch who ain't yours?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:39 AM
1

I get that. It's just frustrating because I checked every box I'm supposed to That's your problem and a lot of dudes problem right there. Women are people, not checklists. It's not "Oh well I did this and that why didn't I get her?" You can do everything "right" and still not get the girl.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:35 AM
1

It's not "redpil" but just how people work. Have you ever had an idea of how a girl was gonna act and then you meet her and she's completely different to the point that you don't even wanna fuck with her? Same thing.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:32 AM
2

Too many reasons to list. Sometimes it's not something you did but some outside stuff. Or sometimes girls will get an idea in their head of who you are and when you're not that they're just... disappointed.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:05 AM
2

If you're touching her and she's acting "shy", it may be she's just not interested. Who knows as to why. Remember that there's not formula to bang every single girl you meet. That's not how this works.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:52 AM
1

Girls trying to get dick are up...
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:22 AM
1

See you leaving stuff out. That's your fault, dog. YOU were the one who took long to respond and now she's mirroring you. She was prolly trying to hit.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:19 AM
1

Personally I'd let her respond first because I don't got time to sit in a girls inbox having conversations with myself lol. Socializing is a tennis game. Back and forth. Volley. If she don't hit the ball back over, we don't play. She may wanna fuck you but what's your time worth?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:14 AM
1

I honestly would just dead it. The thing about checking women is that takes energy. You wanna save that "energy" for girls who deserve it aka girls you're fucking with long time. If it's something you gotta check her for but she's new like this just move on.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:08 AM
1

Define "a while". Also depends on the situation. Who is this girl? A girl you just fuckin? Your gf? What?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:05 AM
4

I subscribe to the game. The REAL game. That's it. When we go into the whole "You would be happier if x" territory, all that talking is ego. ​ The only person who can define your happiness is yourself. Same for your sister. She's gonna find that on her own. Telling her she needs to not be fat and hop on a dick right now or she'll be "forever alone" is gonna get you kicked outta your family.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:08 PM
1

What's your question?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:04 PM
3

A man should do whatever the fuck a man wants to. Imo, however I think everyone should travel. A lot of these backasswords mentalities come from ppl who have never left their hometown.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:03 PM
1

Why do you care about what some girl you don't even know wants? Also this is just a bad decision as it's the ultimate shit where you eat. You NEVER mix business and "pleasure". That's how you get got.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:02 PM
5

Ok. So now lets use our logical brains to decipher this... do you think that some random people online that you've never met before know more about what your sister wants then you do? Her actual brother? Or even herself?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:01 PM
0

Why do you care about what some dudes you don't know think about some cake-ass movie?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:58 PM
6

Ain't nothing more unattractive then a guy who's not "naturally" cocky trying to act cocky. You go way to into the deep end and become an outcast. Stop trying to "be" something and just realize what you are find the woman that wanna fuck with that. Bonus game: some ppl already see you as cocky tbh.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:58 PM
1

Why do you care?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:55 PM
2

I'm assuming she wants to settle down and it is necessary for her happiness before her time is up on her looks. Why do you assume this?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:55 PM
1

Also long as a girl "in her prime' finds you attractive. If you can do it in your 60s, you can in your 60s
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:21 PM
2

Sure why not? Why would that be tryhard?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:20 PM
6

Stop caring so much about what ppl say on social media. If a girl has the power to keep from giving a dude the pussy, she don't find him attractive. That's all that matters.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:19 PM
1

You need to understand that you bring something to the table and don't need anyone to "validate" you. Think about the women that you approach. Are they really that special that getting them to "validate" actually means anything?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:21 PM
2

You gotta reverse that. Even though you're disabled doesn't mean someone is better than you just because they have a vagina
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:17 PM
1

What do you mean by "rigged", per se?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:09 PM
1

Why do you keep seeking women's approval?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:08 PM
1

What's needy is you worring about what to do because it may come off as needy. Remember. Do what you want. If she thinks it's "needy' then drop her.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:57 PM
2

Lay your 5 bricks. You're trying to hit a home run with the bases loaded and have never swung a bat before. Your job now, every day, is to go out of your house and say "hi" to 5 women that you don't know. You need to get accustomed to having convos with strangers first.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:45 PM
1

Why do you care if you'll never know what girls "n count" is gonna be anyways?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:41 PM
6

Don't care. You caring so much comes will eventually come out in your behaviors we all know how unattractive neediness is.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:40 PM
1

Wait so you've posted more than once on this broad? Also if you're sure she's "out in these streets" but when you're trying to set plans to make something happen she's giving you hoops to jump through instead, that should tell you something.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:38 PM
3

"I'm not ready for a relationship". Read "I don't wanna fuck you" or "I think you're trying too lock me down way too fast". That the only thing about being "butthurt". When you care so much especially for a girl you just met you come of as trying to control her, and they don't like that from guys they're not into. Move on.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:36 PM
16

im hung up on making it work That's your problem. You've had sex with this girl just once and you're hoping to keep getting on with her. You need more options. You being afraid of this tanking is gonna keep you from doing what you need to do to keep it from tanking.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:32 PM
1

It most likely isn't anything you're doing but who you are. I'm guessing these girls on your social media are ones that you don't know, so they're prolly just not attracted to you from what they see to get out with you.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:30 PM
9

Do what you want. Hit her back in a week. Let her reach out. Whatever. It's just some girl you're fucking.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:26 PM
1

Has this girl ever flirted with you before? Who knows, could be either. You gonna make a move?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:23 PM
3

Where did she insult you?
/r/askTRP01/11/20 09:10 PM
5

Why do you care? She cheated and now ya'll are broke up. Just leave it.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 09:08 PM
1

Exactly. Calibration is a fancy way of saying experience. Only one way to get that.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 11:05 PM
0

These goofy ass questions get to me, fam
/r/askTRP31/10/20 10:57 PM
1

You're not butthurt. You're giving her a chance to earn more time with you and you're guiding her to it. If she takes it as "butthurt" that's on her.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:35 PM
1

Yea I wouldn't just drop her but.. bring it up in a way where you're letting her know that responding to you faster will be better for her as you only wanna give her above plate treatment when she's earned it. And this last thing looks like she ain't earned it rn.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:27 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:25 PM
1

Well she did take long but again she really didn't have a position. I'd kinda slide it in to respond faster while making plans but just keep hittin it.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:13 PM
1

Well what you think is a normal amount of time is what to set. Maybe you wanna say an hour or 2 max. But let her know with your actions that taking 4 hrs to respond when you're trying to make plans ain't cool.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:10 PM
1

The subject of getting her out.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:09 PM
2

Yea. Seems like too much work. Also remember this is the BEST she'll prolly be around this subject.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:06 PM
1

Ok. That's good. Now understand that you can only really hold her to a standard as much as you promote her. So do you want your fwb to text ya back right away or is that too much for a fwb? That's on you.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:05 PM
7

Who knows. Maybe she just wanted to talk to you. Maybe she was down but changed her mind for some reason. All that matters is what you want. You wanna get her out and she's dodging. I don't got the time. Next.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 08:53 PM
1

I wouldn't. You need to define what do you want with this chick and if she's not down that's her loss. That's why you're confused as to what to do. You have no destination. How can you or anyone else on this sub direct you if you don't know where you wanna go? What do you want with this girl? Just a plate? FWB? and whatever you choose YOU need to define and set up.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 08:46 PM
7

She can't answer direct questions and is taking long to get back to you because she isn't interested. Hence why she gave you that "We're not hooking up" line. If she really wanted you that, the last thing she would try and do is lead the situation to a point where it may not happen at all.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 08:44 PM
1

And? Still just fucking. And you need to treat is as such whenever she tries to kinda "upgrade herself" like she's doing.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 08:42 PM
1

If she hasn't brought it up and neither have you, you're just fucking.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 08:39 PM
1

If you haven't had sex yet, you are friends. Also if she's actively trying to get MORE ppl over instead of having ya'll 1v1, she's prolly not interested. If you have nothing going on, go for it but make sure it's 1v1. If not, charge her.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 08:38 PM
3

Social calibration. Undeerstand tho that just because more girls "like" you doesn't really mean they wanna sleep with you.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 08:36 PM
2

I have this plate that’s basically my girlfriend That's the issue. First sentence. That's like saying you work in the mailroom but are "basically the VP". You're either one of the other. Whatever you consider her is gonna determine what to do. Is she your gf? Now you're just fucking. And LET HER KNOW that. If she's a plate, then she really doesn't owe you that fast of a response and you shouldn't had been making plans like that to begin with. So to answer your Q, she's just a plate and let her k…
/r/askTRP31/10/20 08:34 PM
2

No. Match with a girl and DON'T ask her out. I mean you're on a fucking dating app for fuck's sake. Why would you do that?
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:18 AM
1

Stop trying to "trp" or "out alpha' your parents. Especially when you live with them. They raised you and shit. They got the right (to an extent). If you don't like it get the eff out.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:16 AM
1

Yes. Because there's a place and time to do it and a lot of guys don't know what that is. A good guideline is you really shouldn't be getting that sexual with a woman you haven't fucked yet over text at all. It's not very socially calibrated. Or it could be those "high interest" girls weren't really that high to being with. Idk how you can judge hi interest if you haven't met the girl yet.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:15 AM
1

What do you do when you get a number from cold approach? Do that and next time you see her put that sexual vibe in.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:12 AM
4

You don't choose what a girl finds attractive and unattractive. This post basically says "Idk how this guy is getting pussy because if I was a girl, I wouldn't fuck him" but your not a girl. So...
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:10 AM
5

Ya'll come on here like you've never had a conversation with an actual person before. Bro if she's giving you shit in response to the shit you give her, it's not a shit test. It's called banter. And the fact that some girl got you so pressed over ONE message that you ran here asking how to handle it means you need a minset shift.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:09 AM
1

Depends on the girl. Who knows. Who cares?
/r/askTRP31/10/20 06:58 AM
2

Fucking with a girl in any capacity validates her. If her getting validation for you turns her off, she wasn't interested to begin with.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 06:43 AM
4

Why you care what a bunch of dudes do with they mouths, fam? Pause.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 06:41 AM
1

The shit tests are supposed to lessen as you deal with a girl. Not get worse. Something you're doing isn't congruent with who you were when she met you and is looking for a kink in your armour. If you were really "alpha" you wouldn't have that issue you're asking about.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 06:40 AM
1

My advice. Stay off of YT and focus on just seeing if what you've read in the sidebar can fix your life and apply it. Big danger comes from following randoms on the internet.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 08:45 PM
1

You should of set it up when you got the number. Why are you dragging your feet with this?
/r/askTRP30/10/20 08:19 PM
3

Ideologies (for the most part) aren't toxic. What happens is toxic people take ideologies and use them as an excuse to be even more toxic. ​ A fair amount of dudes come here wondering why they can't get pussy and don't realize that deep down they hate women for... whatever stupid reason. They use this as an outlet.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 08:18 PM
1

Why do you care? Their beef is just 2 man-children on the internet fighting over an idea neither of them started.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 08:14 PM
1

Don't get caught up in "looking beta" but control the situation. I wouldn't go out of my way at all to see her but if she's free on a day you're free go for it. If for ANY reason the next date you set up she don't come or flakes, charge her. Don't even respond to the message. Also limit how much you're talking to her thru text. Set whatever you gonna do and get off the phone. If she's so excited to talk to you on the phone it should translate to wanting to see you. If not... whelp you know the d…
/r/askTRP30/10/20 04:34 PM
11

One text may not save you but a conversation may be enough. Gonna be up to the jury. Best bet is go against what we call here about dealing with ASD. If a girl is getting wishy washy about sex just kick her out. It may be nerves or whatever but that's a prime situation where a girl could wake up the next day and feel she was pressured.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 03:29 PM
2

Why is that low value? Why would you care of some random woman seeing you as low value?
/r/askTRP30/10/20 01:39 PM
7

Guys "revealing their feelings' to women only works in Hollywood. Women are repulsed by it. It makes people's stomach churn. She may have been interested before but now she sees you as every other dude who is unattractive and dumped you in the trash. Nice going, Ted Mosby.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 12:55 PM
2

Why do you care what other dudes think about what you wanna do? We're just strangers on the internet. Do what you want.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 12:51 PM
2

It's not your job to change your life around because of what a woman may want in the future. I know AWALT and blah blah but not every single girl wants to get married. Some just wanna fuck around. Some what bfs. Some want husbands. That's not your job to worry about. What do you want? Find that out and go find a woman who wants that too. Simple.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 12:49 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 12:47 PM
2

She ain't forget. She just needed an out. Throw the ball in her court and let her reach out to get up.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 12:45 PM
1

This sub is for those who need help implementing what they learned on the main sub. If you wanna just hoecialize, that's what the main sub is for.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 11:05 PM
9

So now that you're here you're having less sex but you don't care? So why the post? What is it that you want? Don't hamstring yourself just to make us internet strangers happy. Go forth and fuck.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 11:02 PM
1

Do what you want. Ton of shit can happen in 2 weeks. She could fall in love or get quarantined. If you get her out again is less about what you do and more about her life. Personally I wouldn't but you do you.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 11:00 PM
2

The thing about OLD is that any woman who can actually get dick in real life doesn't take it seriously at all. So that chick is only gonna match with you if in her eyes you're damn near her ideal type. And just because she matched that don't mean she gonna bone and yadda yadda. I don't say that to discourage but more understand it is a numbers game but on steroids. Just go into that mindset and you'll be fine. Also don't make it your ONLY source of pussy.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:03 PM
1

Unless it's about some statutory shit no. It's not of her business.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:57 PM
4

When a girl goes "awww" that's a good sign that she's NOT interested. It prolly wasn't your approach but that she just wasn't down. Also she seemed excited that you cancelled the date (why did you?). That should tell you something.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:51 PM
6

I really wish guys here could see that and would stop with this "act like you don't like her" bs. When a woman sees a man acknowledging her existence she automatically assumes you wanna fuck her. Dudes aren't fooling anyone.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:46 PM
2

You can verbalise it if you want but talk it cheap and it's always better to speak with your actions. Girls with go on dates for a myriad of reasons. Some because they like the guy and wanna get dicked down. Sometimes for free food. Sometimes just to get outta the house.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 01:50 PM
1

There's some "Tinder guide" that tells guys to ask this as a way to start conversation. Couple that with the popular idea of "not telling a girl what you want to raise interest" and you get stuff like this.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:37 PM
2

Why even ask this question? Just move to get her to do what you wanna do. If she's not down, move on.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:36 PM
5

Well you never really HAD a set date so idk why you'd put her on ice for that. She kinda sounded like she wanted to see you but you did that whole "act high value" stuff. Wait till she responds (if she does) or like a week and try and get her out again.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:32 PM
1

Why is blocking not a option? You're problem is you're trying to use ghosting as a tactic. Nah. If a girl is cut of she's cut off. Don't even read the messages. Why?
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:27 PM
5

Anything you do isn't gonna hurt them. They don't care about you. It's why they fucked behind your back. Any type of "revenge" you take could possibly land you in jail. Cut off contact with both of them. Kick this hoe to the curb.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:26 PM
13

If a girl KEEPS throwing that line it's a rejection. Not a shit test. I personally don't even care why she said it and just move on. Or just give your number and bounce.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:24 PM
2

So you commented on something I posted twice unprovoked AND checked my comment history? You sure you not trying to link up?
/r/askTRP29/10/20 03:36 AM
2

So why you stalking me, then? You got a crush or something? Where you stay at bro let's do coffee.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 03:33 AM
1

I'll let y'all play the games with em then. I don't got the time.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 03:31 AM
2

Am I moving to smash or entertain her?
/r/askTRP29/10/20 03:29 AM
2

Honesty. Why lie? Why give this woman who I just met so much importance that I feel I gotta lie to her?
/r/askTRP29/10/20 02:35 AM
1

Did you flirt with her at all before you got home? The second you meet a girl it should be kino on. Not full on but working to it. Guys on here try to "jump the grand canyon". They don't flirt at all and just think they can whip out they dick and she gonna suck it.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:10 AM
1

What are y’all thoughts on social media? I’m thinking about deleting all my accounts except for fb to keep In touch with family. Then do it. Stop trying to cater your life for some bitch you don't even know.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:06 AM
5

I wouldn't be tripping over what to say to someone who thinks bragging about doing drugs is cool. Are they a teenager or something?
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:05 AM
3

Do you wanna talk on the app all day or go on dates? If you gotta do shit just to "bump up your message" as she doesn't care to read it after matching, she ain't interested.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:02 AM
1

Why doesn't EVERYONE always try to improve their situation. It's easy but it takes work.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:00 AM
1

The line is whatever you naturally are. Because at the end of the day you can only "be" something your not for so long. Also trying to change yourself how women perceive you is NOT the way to do it. It'll be goofy, uncoordinated and all bad. Women go for different shit. Whatever YOU are, girls will go for that. Stop focusing trying to be something and find the girls who like you.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 10:37 PM
0

Do you have one?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 10:35 PM
3

Move on. Also don't bring up your job situation. It's none of their business.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 10:34 PM
5

Not your problem. Stop giving this girl power over you. Control your emotions and move on. Trying to get "revenge" isn't gonna do shit and just drive you crazy and could potentially put you in jail. I'd delete this post, tbh
/r/askTRP28/10/20 10:33 PM
2

If you don't wanna wait for sex, don't wait for sex.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 10:25 PM
6

The issue with the whole "bad boy" thing is that yes girls are into it but what women think a "bad boy" is varies. Some think just you being direct is being a bad boy. Others won't respect a dude unless he's beating them upside the head half the damn time. Focus less on the bad boy bullshit and put that energy for going after what you want at all times. That will naturally give off that "bad boy" vibe. And remember at the end of the day, don't give a fuck what these hoes want. What do YOU want?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 10:24 PM
1

Ok. So why didn't you ask her to see you on Saturday? She may have plans AND wanna see you still.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:21 PM
1

If you think casual sex is evil, why are you on this sub? Wouldn't it be better for you to just find a girl that subscribes to that thought process as well?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:06 PM
1

What is the "good" we're destroying and the "evil" we're creating?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 07:45 PM
0

Welp, the world doesn't revolve about what you think it "should" do. Why should it? What makes you so special that it should conform to you? But you can be mad at women, bitch, moan and check out if ya want to. No one really cares.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 07:15 PM
1

I'd say don't trip at all and just go for the friends you're trying to hit. And stop using "prospects". You're either fucking or ya ain't. Getting caught up in grey areas is girl shit lol.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 06:17 PM
3

Don't "play" shit. Do it. You wanna get this girl out, make the move to do so.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 05:54 PM
0

Your place or hers. You won't know before you ask. She may just be down and you'd never know but you think you can read her mind.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 05:53 PM
9

Not that I care Well you DO or else you wouldn't had posted this. Now for the cheating she can either take it as the girl was stupid and messed up a good situation or she can see why you got cheated on. Best not to bring it up. Not they business.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 05:52 PM
0

Why do you care? You trying to buy stake in it or something?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 04:56 PM
1

We don't know. We're not her. Regardless of the reason, do you like that she hit you up in the middle of the night?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:46 PM
1

If you're gonna split the bill, decide that before you go out and let her know. Now if she agreed to splitting whenever afterwards and she doesn't do it, yea calling her out isn't harsh. Could you have been nicer? Yea. But if someone tells you they're gonna do something and they don't do it... they kinda deserve it a bit.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:32 PM
1

I mean what do you want from this situation...
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:31 PM
13

Get rid of her. You're just hoping to call her a liar hoping it hurts her feelings since she hurt yours. YOU, my friend, are the problem. Why are you keeping some girl around and talking about "LTRing" her when she doesn't even wanna have sex with you? She's still banging her ex and is just wasting your time.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:22 PM
1

Ok. So 2nd. My point still stands. My question is still. What do you want?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:01 PM
1

Would that be a good strategy? There is no "strategy". You do what you fucking want. Wanna text, cool. Wanna wait, cool. Where you fuck up is thinking you have to do one or the other to "get" her. There's so many things that could make it happen or not happen outside of your actions that it doesn't really matter that much. You can wait a day and she either wanting you more or she meets another dude and forgets about you. Same thing for if you hit her up that day.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:55 AM
8

Why are you so invested in what other people think?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:52 AM
3

I’m unsure whether asking her on a date is what she would want That's your problem. You're trying to "figure out" what she wants and trying to do that. This is why you're afraid of making a move. What do YOU want? Guys try to do this shit where they wanna change what they're doing because they think it'll make the woman wanna keep fucking with them. Bro, if a girl is interested, she wants to do WHATEVER you wanna do because she wants YOU, not the "thing" ya'll are doing.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:40 AM
1

“discussing these things can often prevent things from going where they would naturally." She was kinda right with this. Asking her upfront like that is really socially uncoordinated. If you wanna have sex with this broad, move to have sex with her. You're asking because you're afraid of rejection. Don't fear rejection. Run through that bitch.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:06 AM
3

Why did you ask her if she had plans?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:04 AM
2

It may not be your game. Remember that there's gonna be people, men and women, that from the jump just don't wanna be around you. It happens. Keep it pushing...
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:02 AM
9

This is your THRID post about ONE girl. Do you not see a problem with that? What is it that you want from her?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:01 AM
7

Peaks and valleys, my friend. No one stays hot all season. Are you paying on any apps?
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:54 PM
2

Have a life that keeps you out of the house and approach when you see a girl you like.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:55 PM
1

So you 2 both have been divorced? Your wives just got up and left just because they felt like it?
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:07 PM
0

Have you actually ever talked to a woman before. Y'all on here act like a girl is just gonna wake up one day and stab you in your balls because of "feels". Listen, women may not be as logical as men but that doesn't mean they're completely void of it.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 06:55 PM
1

How am I thinking like a woman?
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:38 PM
2

I got some man boobs because the lockdown has kept me outta the gym but no. Why do you ask?
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:31 PM
1

You can always walk away, what are you talking about? And the sexless marriage isnt because she just "turns 40" but because dudes get comfortable and the relationship becomes more platonic. That can be stopped however and are in your control.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:27 PM
-1

How is marrying a woman giving away your power? If that's true why do men here on TRP listen to all these married guys like Rollo and Donovan?
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:03 PM
2

You shouldn't be even entertaining a relationship with a women in that short amount of time. You need to vet her. And that takes time. I'd say 3 months at the earliest. Some say way longer. But 3 weeks is no time to decide if you want a relationship.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:42 PM
1

Thing is I don't want one. Then don't. Don't even need to read the rest of your post.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:28 PM
20

Either she doesn't like sucking dick or doesn't like you enough to suck your dick.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:24 PM
-2

Again, doom and gloom. Idk what women yall be talking too, but a girl isn't gonna just come home and divorce you because you said the wrong thing. All break ups happen because the dude was fucking up over time or just fucked up from the jump. Stop giving women power over you. You really gonna choose to marry or not get married over some bitch that you haven't even met yet?
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:20 PM
3

It's some ego and some NiceGuy sprinkled in (which is also ego). I feel insulted because I've had and fucked better looking girls with better social status than her that were on their knees after me. Remember that women are people. Those "hotter" girls may have just liked you more that this one does. There's so many factors that go into it past just how hot they are. I feel insulted because I've changed my lifestyle of fucking random new girls every 3 days just not to hurt her little feelings Th…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:18 PM
4

Either way tho you need to work to get that experience. Neither of those things are a cop out. There's a movement going on now were a lot of high functioning adults are actually on the spectrum and they didn't know until they were in their SIXTIES. Most dudes aren't "ugly". They just tell themselves they're ugly because the 6 girls they went after shot them down. That's waaaay too small of a sample size.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:10 PM
5

Not really. A girl with a bitch ass dude is just as unsafe as a girl by herself. In her mind, he's just dead weight. That's why the disrespect is there. The man is useless.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:58 AM
1

You should next her since you don't wanna deal with her.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:03 AM
7

Don't go into marriage with "doom and gloom" shit guys on here all use. Even if the "perfect" marriage doesn't exist you can still get damn near close. Thing is you have to work for it.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:02 AM
1

Get off your ass and fix your negatives. Also, your problem is that you're looking for happiness in a woman. Big missed steak. You're not unhappy because you don't have pussy. You're unhappy because you have no life. You have no goals or direction, so you have no energy to do... anything. You need to choose what you wanna do (that's not women) and put energy into pursuing that. Then your life will change. It doesn't have to be anything special. Maybe just finishing school or making a certain amo…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:01 AM
2

Do you wanna wait til marriage to fuck her?
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:57 AM
48

Understand this, you're weak and women HATE weak men. It's not that they're "using love against men". It's that men who bend to women like that are a risk to her survival. If a girl is knowingly doing shit to piss they man off, they need to be booted. Keeping her there is YOUR problem.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:56 AM
13

You shouldn't "forget" about girls but don't focus on it. Your job in HS is to get in them books and go to college. The "girls" aspect is gonna come to you unless you actively TRY to not deal with it. I only have 1-2 "girlfriends" in HS. I could of had more but I was actively doing shit to stop it. Unless you're a complete outcast, which you actively have to try to be in HS, the girl thing will settle itself.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:52 AM
1

Ok. Do not do that. You know how we talk about shitting where you eat? Hitting on customers at your job is even worse. Most places that are chains even have rules against doing that. You "talk" to the wrong guest, she gets creeped out and its all over.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 11:22 PM
158

Honestly it's all lack of experience. It's kinda a dice roll but it usually stems from how you are in high school. You either date around and learn to get good at it, or you just kinda meh your way through dating and relationships and thats the only time you have to get it developed. So now you got guys that need to absorb all that shit they missed out on in HS
/r/askTRP26/10/20 10:40 PM
4

Why would you feel insulted? What's keeping you there is the fact that you see her as a challenge. That's the OPPOSITE of women you want in your life. Not crazy projects but easy going women. I'd get another girl. You say you can fuck her and dump her without attachment yet you still posted this.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 10:37 PM
1

will i have to work in the airforce while i go to college? You sign on for 4 years. You serve for 4. While you're working whatever your job is, you can go to school when you're off and the AF will pay for it. They have their own CC and certain universities they work it. There's an education center on every base. Talk to them about it. do i get to decide which i go to? Base-wise, no. You get a "dream sheet" of the top 5 bases you wanna go to and, depending on your job, if the job is there and the…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 06:04 PM
1

Sure why not? What's there to lose?
/r/askTRP26/10/20 05:50 PM
3

You got all that from a message, eh? Dude this is called CONVERSATION lol. It may not be an answer to your question but still a reply. Keep talking with her.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 05:46 PM
1

Do what you want. You already porked her. If you want it again, hit her up again. The one thing I'd avoid is trying to see her like the next day after sex but even then sometimes that's ok.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 05:41 PM
2

Go AF and do as much of your school while you're in. Once you pass BMT and get to your duty station ask about CLEPs. Basically you can go in, take a test that's like an hour and if you pass you get the full college credit for that class. Do that for your GREs and have the AF pay for your tuition while inside. They will NOT push you to get an education unless it helps them out. You gotta manage that on your own.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 05:38 PM
5

When you're sitting at home trying to figure out the next move for a girl you met on Tinder and haven't fucked yet. it's time to move on. You're too emotionally invested into this. Its why you're even tripping off this friend code nonsense.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 12:56 AM
4

Why are you so worried about how you'd answer this? Anytime you're trying to set something up and they're blocking it like this, most likely they're on some bs. Just keep going back into setting the plans.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 12:48 AM
3

Prolly not. When a girl breaks it off super hard like that she was prolly 1 foot out the door at the start. I wasn't you failing a shit test that tanked but most like was heading to this for some time.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 12:47 AM
8

Maybe. Maybe not. Usually not. If a girl is "distancing" herself it's her mostly trying to get away from you.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 12:44 AM
3

She already know it gets to you and is pushing your buttons. That's why she keeps doing it. You need to check her on it.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:57 PM
2

Why are you worried about looking butthurt?
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:51 PM
9

Ok. But understand that even tho you planned it like that your 2 still aren't serious. You can't like "lock her down" for a set time period just because ya'll split a room.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:13 PM
3

Why are you going on vacations with fwbs? Why didn't you get 2 rooms?
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:06 PM
1

When she starts going in on some shit you don't wanna talk about, don't talk about it. She keeps pressing, walk away or check her on it. If you believe what she's saying is disrespectful and you just stay and take it, she thinks your a guy that likes being disrespected.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:03 PM
30

You're giving her bf energy. Stop. This is s FWB/Plate. Not your girlfriend. If she wants to go fuck other guys, that's what plates do. Locking her outta your room just because she entertained another dick and giving her an ultimatum is childish. If you don't want her to have sex with other guys, then ltr her. If not, blowing up about just makes everything dumb.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 07:57 PM
0

How would we know? We're not your girl.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 07:47 PM
3

Date multiple girls. You're stuck where you are just because it's your only option and you've tricked yourself that she's your best option.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:55 PM
0

Be a man worthy of her obedience. If you have to do a certain "thing" to gain her respect, she don't respect you.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:51 PM
5

Meh, every older generation of women thinks the younger generation of women are "trash". I'm guessing your mom grew up in the 60s/70s. Their parents thought the same thing, too. Lol. Now, this scene you saw honestly has nothing to do with that. Look, dudes in their 60s KNOWS why this thai girl is dealing with him. If anything the blame is more on him for subscribing to this situation in the first place. And alot of other dudes with money do this too and ppl look at women as the problem. lol
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:49 PM
5

Girls who wanna fuck you will fuck you. Those that don't will make excuses. So she's not inviting up because dah viruz but tells you she's "seeing other guys" and is ok with making out with you. Goofy shit. Next this hoe.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:09 PM
3

They could be looking at you because they think you're hot or because you look goofy. Who knows?
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:06 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP25/10/20 11:34 AM
5

Op is looking for validation. He's hoping that you can see if a girl has been ran thru because his ex is and now is depressed. He's hoping breaking up caused that depression so he can feel better about himself.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 07:21 AM
2

Everything else. A girl isn't attracted to money.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:14 AM
3

You can be a socialite at any level of income. In fact if they want to move up the two tend to meld together. Your network is your net worth. But let's talk about you for a min. What's your issue?
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:55 AM
6

Same way you fuck a girl without one.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:51 AM
3

never got any sexual vibe, but we get along good as friends Why didn't you make one? vibe kind of changed after first meet. Felt more friends vibe It was always a friends vibe because you didn't move past that.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:49 AM
6

One guy makes about 100k/year. He's outgoing, confident, well versed in this craft, just killing it at life. Just being around him you feel your life is improved. Another guy makes about 150K/yr. He's slobbish, annoying, has not friends and is a recluse. The only time anyone even notices him is when he pulls up in that new Benz he just bought or wearing his Armani suit. One is high value, the other one his high earnings is his ONLY value. See the difference?
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:47 AM
12

No. You can't. Dudes just be online making up shit. Now if she's been through some hard shit, yes. But not just because she's had a lot of guys. That "depression" you're seeing is most likely just coming from age. As you go up in years it's easy to not be at that place you wanna be and that leads to depression.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:43 AM
1

And what do you wanna do with her because of that. Talk to her? Take her out? What?
/r/askTRP24/10/20 09:32 PM
1

What's the reason you swiped right on her for?
/r/askTRP24/10/20 09:14 PM
3

If a girl "becomes" disinterested when you move to intimacy, it means she was never really interested in the first place.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 09:14 PM
3

The same way you approach any girl. Go talk and ask her out, doofus.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 09:12 PM
1

Sounds like someone came here with their messed up mindset and just used TRP to make it worse. I agree with you on some sense thinking all you gotta do is say this and do that to fuck a bitch are living in fantasyland and have a lot worse problems then just being here on this sub.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 09:11 PM
3

If you think you being overweight is causing you problems, your confidence isn't as much on point as you think it is. Keep cold approaching and work to lose weight at the same time.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:56 PM
1

How can I turn this into sliding I the DMs and asking her out? Slide in the DMs and ask her out. You answered your own question.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:54 PM
2

It didn't work for you because of you. Lifting is supposed to give you that boost and "I'm the prize" feeling by proxy. If you lifted and it didn't do that, it's something else.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:53 PM
1

What do yo mean "answered correctly"? This ain't Jeopardy. What did you tell her?
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:52 PM
1

The reason you're asking these questions is because you don't know what you want. Do you wanna fuck her? Invite her over. Do you wanna have drinks with her? Ask her out. This going back and forth in the DMs does nothing but waste time and make it look like you're indecisive. This girl already knows you. You don't have to "build" anything.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:51 PM
2

Here it is... you do NOTHING. This girl isn't your girlfriend. Why do you care so much if she's fucking another guy or not? You really don't have the right to even ask her about this. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:48 PM
2

Could be you just hit 3 girls that didn't wanna have sex with you at that time. I mean it's not the first time this has happened to you, right? This shit is a numbers game. Even Tom Brady didn't win the Super Bowl EVERY year he played in the NFL.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:45 PM
1

You sound like "the girl" in this situation. Why do you care so much if she takes a min to text you back? She has a life, remember? And why does her taking a min to text you back make you think she's cheating?
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:44 PM
0

You should of said what you wanted. Did she look like a hamster?
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:39 PM
0

IDK why not go to the sub and ask them? This isn't FDS.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:38 PM
3

The best place to meet women is always the places you like to go to outside of work school and gym. If you like bars/clubs, go there. If you don't, go somewhere else. Going to bars/clubs when you don't like being there just to meet women makes you look weird.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:37 PM
5

You're giving this girl too much energy for a plate. You say you DGAF yet you made this post and are asking all these questions that don't have to do with you fucking her. She hits you up outta the blue in 2 mos? Set a date a fuck her. Where she was is none of your business. That's why she's stringing you along. She knows your emotionally invested and now she's playing games. When a girl is playing games you don't try and figure out what the game is, you dip.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:36 PM
1

Understand at the end of the day that everyone is selfish... and that's ok. That "selfishness" is hard wired into us for good reason, survival. That making sure that above all else our needs are taken care of keeps us alive not as just single organisms but as a species as a whole.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:32 PM
2

What ppl don't talk about with beards is that for girls it's a case by case basis. It just like a hairstyle. Some love it and some hate it. I'd grow one if you truly want to, know you actually can grow one, and are willing to make sure you upkeep it. Unkept facial hair is nasty across the board.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:29 PM
6

Between working at my job and on my startup I don’t really have the time to go out to bars or join any clubs You need to make the time outside of your job and make it happen. How else are you supposed to meet women?
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:27 PM
2

I think Rian Stone like said a version of it and took it from somewhere else.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:26 PM
1

Why would she think that a guy walking up to a girl is desperate?
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:26 AM
2

I love the teamwork on this question. Now for OP, are you talking about your coworkers or just girl that come into your bar?
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:23 AM
2

UNDERFUCKING RATED COMMENT "Too many guys try to put themselves in the girl's box and then reconfigure the situation so they win. The key is never let yourself be put in the box in the first place."
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:19 AM
3

I respond to almost all of em. I mean why use the app if you don't message? Also the reason all these other dudes use boring lines because it works for them. This whole "you gotta entertain her" stuff is bs. You could entertain her and she just wants to keep talking to you on the app. It's not gonna make her wanna get in your pants.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:15 AM
1

Are you trying to fuck this dude or something?
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:09 AM
10

I dunno man. Do you suck dick? Did someone tell her you suck dick? No? Then who fucking cares, man? Ppl talk. It is what it is. Don't let it get to ya.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:08 AM
1

Exactly. She knows you wanna date her. So anything she does not fuck that up means she's not interested. Full stop. Yes this was a 2nd last minute change. She's running you around. Dump her.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:28 PM
1

You're overthinking it. Keep it simple. You wanna get this girl out 1 on 1, right? So her trying to do anything outside of that, "no thanks, let's meet up later".
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:40 PM
7

Go get another girl and focus on your purpose. You can do both.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:24 PM
5

Next. Flaking is a form of disrespect. Don't deal with women who don't respect you.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:17 PM
4

Set the meetup and stop fucking around.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:14 PM
2

When a girl says she's "busy", read it as "too busy to see you". Dating 101.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:35 PM
2

This girl isn't interested and is just hitting you up to smoke your weed
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:01 PM
1

No. The personality traits of DT are hard baked into people at birth and trying to mimic them just makes you a sociopath.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 02:46 PM
1

You do. Also understand that you trying to fight him still gives them power over you. Why do you care of some guy thinks he's "better" then you (even if he does)? That's nor your job to care about. Cut them both outta your life and move on.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 02:45 PM
1

And fighting him is gonna do...what? Outside of possibly getting you locked up?
/r/askTRP23/10/20 02:32 PM
1

I mean she could be. The issue is you're not standing on anything. One one hand you say you don't wanna come between them "unless she initiates". So it's not the bf, you just don't wanna get rejected. If you truly wanted to respect their relationship you wouldn't care if she made a move. I'd say it's time to shit or get off the pot. You're just working out with her to backdoor in and now that it seems that you won't you wanna bail. So either ask her out or next her. Not that complicated.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 01:12 PM
2

It doesn't matter. Setting 1st dates with girls don't mean shit. Especially online.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 12:55 PM
1

This girl wasn't into you at all. 1 reschedule is fine. Ppl have lives. But the whole "I just met with my friend and bf" should of been a dealbreaker. Doesn't matter if this guy is her bf or not, the fact that she invited 2 other ppl along with her means she wasn't interested.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 12:38 PM
3

It's your numbers, bro. 10 girls is nothing in this racket. The higher up guys talk to 10 girls in two days, not in one month. Understand this. When you meet a girl online, her seeing you most of the time is if everything else falls off and she has nothing to do. She don't care about your SMV. She's just bored. Just keep pushing bro. You'll see what I mean when you talk to more women.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 12:31 PM
1

Why would you wanna fight a guy who had sex with a girl who isn't yours?
/r/askTRP23/10/20 12:27 PM
3

Don't. You're playing on their court and spotting them 40. If you wanna fuck a stripper you gotta meet her OUTSIDE the club. Then the same way you get other women.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 12:25 PM
1

You gotta beat it over her head that no matter what she does you're gonna wanna fuck other girls. Work out the 3some as a compromise. The thing is unless she's LEGIT bi it's not gonna work. There's your girl thinking other girls are cute vs actually wanting to share her man with another girl. Check Patrice ONeal on threesomes on Youtube.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 12:24 PM
1

It's a constant battle because you don't have it in the first place. There is no battle. Whenever you see her trying to "take" it you just pull back. Simple.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 12:20 PM
1

How many other girls are you talking to?
/r/askTRP23/10/20 12:19 PM
2

See the thing is my time isn't a game. So this "see who gives a f less" I won't play it because I'll just bounce. Why "play games" with a girl when you could just go get a girl that ISN'T messing around?
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:51 PM
1

Can you do gym and sushi later. Of course gym is a priority but you can always work more into your life.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:47 PM
1

The this is, it does matter. These people you were talking about you know 0 about. Just what someone read on the internet. So your analysis of the situation and anything we may add onto it is completely wrong and doesn't help you in any way. Too many guys are on here trip on ppl they don't even know and disguise it as "discussion". Do you wanna get laid or do you just wanna talk about getting laid, yknow?
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:14 PM
1

Depends on the girl. Who knows? Don't waste time worrying about it and go not be a simp.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:30 PM
1

Welp you do care, or else you wouldn't had asked this to begin with. And those "When do I text her" post may be lame, they're more helpful to the OP then gossiping about some people you've never met or know 0 about. Now for "hypergamy"... stop trying to defeat it. It's not am enemy. If you think it is, then you feel that women should just give you themselves without you having to work on yourself. That's lazy. The point of this sub is to help those who are confused on a trip subject or how to ap…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:00 PM
2

You're too caught up in other things instead of going for what you want. I can't fuck because my school and my rep (that you don't have because if you DID you'd be fucking). I can't holler at this chick because my friend. I don't have oneitis yet I'm afraid to make a move so I write this novel using all this cool lingo I learned. Bro, YOU'RE AN ORBITER. Just like all her others. Giving her all this attention while failing to make anything happen. Who cares if you flirt with her, why haven't you …
/r/askTRP22/10/20 01:02 PM
1

Why do you care?
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:53 PM
4

No. It won't. Because understand in her head... she's right. Even if in ours, she's wrong all it has to do it make sense to HER. And if it makes sense to her, that's all that matters. You trying to convince her otherwise is too much energy. Women aren't like us, and that's ok. If women were like us, you wouldn't get any play unless you were in the 20% financially of all men that exist.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:05 AM
3

It goes like this. The main reason they keep bringing it up is because it bothers you. That's it. Now you know your faults. My question is, are you making strides to fix them all? Then you have no shame. Yea you may be fat and a virgin but that's because you were living a fat virgin life. Now your changing and just need to let time catch up.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:00 AM
1

The reason you don't fuck coworkers is because you're letting her feelings come between your money. You piss her off one day and the next thing you know, you're fired. Especially when it comes to having sex. Hell if you and her get into it too bad your job will just ax you both to get rid of the drama. Plus you don't even know if she's down down yet. You could make a sexual hint hanging with her OUTSIDE of work and turns out she's not about it? Fired.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 01:56 AM
3

It was mostly over when you cancelled and didn't reschedule. If she was down and you passed on her even with a valid reason she thinks non interest and moves on. But yea I'd say it's leaning to done with the whole "I have a date tonight" line. When a girl is interested the last thing she'll bring up is another dick.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 01:50 AM
27

When girl's play hard to get it usually means they're not into you like that. Don't waste your time with the bullshit. If it truly is a game of who can give a fuck less women give ZERO fucks and I mean NEGATIVE ZERO.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 01:44 AM
1

Either the sex is gone downhill (she's just not enjoying it) or the attraction is gone. Either way I'd shelf her. Life is too short for bad sex regardless the reason.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:55 PM
3

You don't even know this girl? Wait and actually spend some time with her before you think about locking her down. But the thought of her being aroused by another woman is a bit weird for me. Why?
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:49 PM
1

From your date, you did fine. You need to get this logistic thing settled BEORE you go out on the date. If there's no way you can get back to a place to have sex because of the distance, why are you even meeting her out? The kiss thing...I saw ALWAYS go for the kiss. Imho this whole "keep her wondering if you like her" thing is all BS. You're calling her. You're touching her. You're acknowledging her existence. She knows you like her. If you wanna see her, call her and get her out again. If call…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:47 PM
3

See, by my reading it looks like what you said WORKED on girl 1 and what you said DIDNT WORK for girl 2. Girl 1 wanted to be friends. It's not that you saying to her you wanna keep it casual tanked her interest. It was already gone and she had to stop wasting your time. Girl 2 y'all made out but didn't have sex. So she got your time and you didn't get what you really wanted out of the situation. Saying what you want doesn't make a girl react in a certain way, it forces them to show you what side…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 04:05 PM
1

Could it be that the girls you told that you wanted something casual weren't interested and the girls you said you didn't know were? And if it works why didn't it work on this girl? Also define "worked".
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:45 PM
2

Think about it logically. If you truly believe that women do things "in their nature", how could you be mad at it? That's like being mad that lions hunt zebra. It's a natural thing. The thing is, women don't "manipulate" men. (Here come the pitchforks.). Men manipulate themselves. The only reason guys play the games they do with women is because they're trying to, on a level, "manipulate" a women into fucking them. So if you play the game willingly and lose, can you get mad at your opponent for …
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:18 PM
2

It sounds like you used to be a yes man and now that you're shifting from that you're getting some pushback. I would advise balance. You don't have to go full on chode on the people around you. Just have a backbone, that's all. Then you won't trip when others trip about you.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:14 PM
10

It's a dial. You can raise and lower it but it lowers easier and faster than it raises.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:10 PM
4

OK. So LJBF is always rejection. It "could" be a shit test but if a girl is gonna go that nuclear with it, don't even bother. I also disagree with the whole "nothing telling women what you want" thing. If you want something casual, tell her that. Because she knows you wanna hit, but the fact that you can't even say that to her shows her you're not a man and don't stand on your own and go for what you want. That's why she hit you with the "I start out as friends with all my dudes" line. Good call…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:06 PM
3

Oh you short short. Might as well give up. It's over for you, bro. /s Remember that your height is only an issue if you think it's an issue. If you step to a bitch like being short is a GOOD thing, it'll help your mental.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 08:10 PM
2

You ready to earn your Red Wings?
/r/askTRP20/10/20 08:09 PM
6

She's fucking with you dude. It's nothing serious. Think like this, what negative would come from her talking about you fucking her friend? You WANT women to run their mouth about shit like this lol
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:48 PM
4

If you wanna try it again, go for it. You don't need our permission.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 02:04 PM
1

The "red pill" title is the most overvalued and cultist thing about this group. All being redpilled means is you know about this sub and read it. That's is. But you can still be red and be "beta". You can still be red and be a simp, a bitch, etc. What do you do with the information you learn here? That's what matters. Too many dudes come here, read the sidebar, do everything WRONG and then come back to TRP like "y'all are right these women are SLUTS" and complain. It's annoying. What's worse? Wa…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 01:56 PM
1

Get off the internet and go live life
/r/askTRP20/10/20 01:49 PM
1

Don't. Concerning yourself on how another man thinks and moves is a waste of time. Spend that energy to make YOU better and upgrade YOUR situation. Yknow who loves to sit around and worry about other people they don't know? Women.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 01:43 PM
1

OK. So the thing about most red flags is that they're personal. I honestly don't think a girl fucking you on date 1 is a red flag but some guys do. And some guys have so many red flags to the point that yes, it is a confirmation bias that a women will never be good enough because the good enough women in his mind doesn't exist. My personal thing about girls that hang out with you go on dates and don't fuck you is that most of the reasons they give you for not sleeping with you are bullshit. She …
/r/askTRP20/10/20 01:07 PM
4

I see this point but 9/10 it's because the dude is giving her too much energy in the first place and it's super apparent. So many guys would do better if they stopped trying to figure this girl out or worry about what that girl is doing and just drop em
/r/askTRP20/10/20 12:53 PM
6

You're talking about the guys who haven't fully intenalized the whole "you're the prize" thing. And that's why they're in the dumb situations their in. So may "This one girl" posts could be solved by just dropping a bitch the first time they act goofy but guys don't wanna do that.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 12:52 PM
1

Sounds like you're in love with the drama. Tbh it all just sounds like a headache. Ditch em both. Just don't lie to yourself that telling your ex friend that you fucked his ex girl is anything but a pot stir.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 11:12 PM
9

I posted this on the SECOND post you mad about this bitch. She was settling for you. To women, sucking your dick is ABOVE sex. They'll give up the pussy but only suck dick for the guy they REALLY wanna keep.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:03 PM
3

She was settling for you. Hanging out of a few months and not fucking. Most likely she started fucking you because her main dick dropped her and you just happened to be there. Hence why she bolted the second you weren't there to give her attention everyday. A girl can only play you if you don't know what you want.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:01 PM
1

For some men it’s about respect. What is this I'm reference to?
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:46 PM
12

First thing you gotta do is put yourself first. Stop tripping on what women got and what you don't. It's a waste of time and how dudes end up in the Black Pill BS. If you want a relationship that's cool, but don't put that on display so much. That's your issue why girls don't wanna mess with you. They've all had their share of guys that do that and 10 out 10 times it was because the dude had no options. And if a girl thinks you have no options she's not gonna wanna fuck with you either. Instead …
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:16 PM
6

So this girl you were messing with keep overstepping boundaries and ended up running you and now your plan is to go back to your friend whom you've decided to cut all contact with and "give him a heads up" that you boinked his ex. Sounds like a set up for a shite B rate movie. Move on from this whole situation, bro. Seriously.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 01:02 PM
2

You're the side chick And I saw "chick" because you're the woman in this situation, too. You're more concerned about taking a photo with this girl instead of actually having sex with her. Why?
/r/askTRP19/10/20 12:54 PM
3

If she has all those "red flags" she's not a unicorn. It sounds like you just found a girl that has a nice body and isn't a complete dunce that you enjoy her company. Which is fine but realize it for what it is. Also, she's a plate. There's 0 reason that you should be giving her so much brainpower. Ya'll are just fucking. And you've only been fucking her for 2 mos. You don't even know her yet.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 12:52 PM
6

It's in us to HUNT to fuck multiple girls. Once you get the girls and there's no hunt, it's not as exciting. Maybe it's time to go for better chicks that you actually like dealing with. A lot of guys come here and go "Welp pussy is pussy" and would love to be in your shoes. Now you know how cheap pussy is and a bitch need more to keep you.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 12:49 PM
1

If you're not so stoked to kick it with her, why would you waste ya'lls time. Think about it. What's the maximum amount of women you could deal with at once? Now.. why fill that roster up with a bitch that don't make the grade?
/r/askTRP19/10/20 12:46 PM
1

What makes you 100% sure this girl is crushing on you? It sounds like blanket disinterest.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:32 PM
0

1.Posts must be requests for advice OR clarification " It's called askTRP, not tellTRP. Not pollTRP, or discussPhilosophicalIssuesWithTRP, or haveAConversationWithTRP."
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:24 PM
0

Good luck on your term paper, but this isn't the sub for these questions.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:13 PM
2

Being reactive to what a woman is doing.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:13 PM
1

What do you think? What has your experiences with women taught you?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:06 PM
0

Ain't nothing more beta then tripping about what women think. Why do you care? How does this help you?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:06 PM
11

She wants a friendship What do you want?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:04 PM
1

When thinking about what to do, all that matters is that you're doing what YOU want to do. That is frame. You see guys saying "Oh I held frame" or "I played it cool", that's wrong. You don't have to play shit. Either you're cool or you're not. Understand also whatever you actively do to "hold frame" in a sense is faking it. Don't fake it. Be it.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:01 PM
2

You're reading WAAAAAAAAAY too much into this. Nothing's there. If there was she would have actually hinted at you to make something happen like inviting you out to hang or something.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:11 PM
1

Why do you care about someone so fucked up they think taking pussy is an option?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:05 PM
1

We went through a lot together and she really was "my rock" during the roughest moment of my life, so now I feel like I have nobody at all now that I've lost her. That hurts, big time. This statement right here is the issue. You were using her as a stable figure of emotion and that's fucking backwards. Even tho you were never exclusive it seems you were way into this relationship more than she was, and now your ego is hurt. Get rid of this girl in as many aspects of life as you can and learn how…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:04 PM
1

It's been 2 weeks. It's gonna take just as long as you where her bitch for her to get out of your mind.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:00 PM
-3

You want to fuck, not sleep over. You're not in middle school. And if you wanna fuck, how you gonna do that on a date during the day?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 01:59 PM
1

What you all judge and interpret about is irrelevant actually. Exactly! And you should have that attitude about women, too. Their thoughts are judgments are irrelevant in the grand scheme of things. TRP needs to harp on this more because guys miss it. You're the prize. When you're all in your head about how she sees you and are doing shit not because you want to but because of how you think she'll see you, that's no different than being a niceguy. You know how to "recover" from "mistakes"? Don't…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 01:58 PM
1

What makes you think that it can't? It's just like an impression. They can all be changed but it takes time. And tho, why do you care? If a bitch don't think you a man tell her to kick rocks. Ya'll on here care way too much about what women think, and it's the reason you're here in the first place. Ya'll have learned nothing.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 01:45 PM
1

Do you want to give her your FB? If not, don't. Think for a second. How does having a FB NOT make you an axe murderer? Goofy shit bitches say.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:16 AM
2

Not your job. Her image of you in her mind changes like the fucking wind. You're never responsible for the image other ppl have of you in their head. Remember?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:15 AM
6

Pull back. If she don't respect you, you trying to do any actual work to gain it back makes you look more like a bitch.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:14 AM
-2

Why not see for yourself? We ain't you.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:12 AM
1

Let's see.. you let her set a time limit on a date.. the day of the date and was on some bullshit about going back to your place and kissing you at the end. And you're wondering if you should invite her out AGAIN?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:10 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:08 AM
1

You on the wrong sub then, bro.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 11:17 PM
1

It's kids, man. Have them or don't. Also how does asking about other dudes' kids help you in getting laid?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 10:46 PM
-1

Why do you care?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 10:37 PM
2

Why do your care?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 10:37 PM
2

You care too much about this bitch. Go get another one.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 10:36 PM
2

Why do you care?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 10:35 PM
3

Tl;Dr You're thinking way too much about this. Do you wanna hit? Then go for it. Their relationship is none of your business
/r/askTRP16/10/20 10:34 PM
2

Yea stay away from this guy. Any who spends his energy just sitting around shitting on other dudes isn't worth your time. Now for the alpha and beta thing... when we talk about humans those are more placeholder words then actual things. If they were actual alphas you'd have to physically kill an alpha just to get some ass. Don't get lost in mentality. Get lost in ACTION. Sitting here talking about being alpha is all fun and dandy but unless you're using that in the real world, you're no differen…
/r/askTRP16/10/20 02:59 AM
4

Stop letting dudes on the internet you've never met influence your worldview and go outside your house.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 02:55 AM
2

She doesn't like you. Keep it moving. You feel less motivated because this girl isn't doing what you want and instead of realising she's not gonna play ball and bounce you still deal with her.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 02:53 AM
1

Dudes be on here with the goofiest questions and wonder "Why don't girls like me?"
/r/askTRP16/10/20 02:51 AM
1

Why do you care? How does this help you in your situation?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 02:50 AM
1

Why do you care? How does this help you?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 02:49 AM
2

Because she was bored. Like I said she may like being... around you but not riding you, y'kno? That explains a lot of relationships.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 02:48 AM
3

Don't. They're fucking working. Leave them be.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 02:47 AM
1

This girl wasn't into you. If you though she was into you why would you play games and unfriend her? Her tripping about you not talking to her wasn't attraction. It was she missed your attention. And don't ask girls to be your girlfriends. THEY should be bringing that stuff up. Also have yall even been on a date together?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 02:45 AM
2

Sounds like she's not interested and is just going through the motions so you don't freak out and like... kill her or something. She may think you're a cool dude or whatever but doesn't want your dick. You're trying to hamster it that she's just shy. It's why you focus on little thinks like oh I touched her oh she was hugging me. That don't mean shit. Also the fact that she wouldn't look you in the eyes was the sign that she ain't into ya. I'd move on from this.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 02:43 AM
1

You can't. He's gotta learn the hard way.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 02:40 AM
1

I don't do it for results but rather it's so she has 0 room to waste my time. When you give girls a grey area it 99.9% leads to her bullshitting you. It's to the point now when ppl say something open ended I straight up get annoyed lol
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:12 PM
1

Don't do that. Set it up in person. Place day and time. And get the number so you can confirm the day of. If you don't have all three of those things it's not a date. Then the next day she could set something up that day and now instead of just telling you something better came along it's better to just ghost.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:04 PM
1

There you go. You wanna push to the point that when a girl is giving you that number that you and her both know what the deal is. Also want you can do is set up a date there in person. If you get resistance, you can just dip and not even leave your number if you want to.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:37 PM
1

Are you flirting at all with these women? Making sure you're letting them know it's man to women and not platonic?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:29 PM
1

You're gonna have to tough it out then. I don't understand why you'd fly to see a plate anyways.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:26 PM
1

What does this have to do with you or helping you in your situation?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:25 PM
1

Why do you care? How does this help you, specifically?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:24 PM
5

Ok well here's your first lesson. And one you need to carry with you though your dating career. If a girl doesn't wanna give you what you want take your L and leave. Don't sit there being her friend if you're trying to hit. That's just said.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:16 PM
1

Why do you care? How does this help you?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:05 AM
2

Those are the boys that haven't learned the game yet. You gotta not just learn the game and accept it for what it is. Trying to fight it is like fighting nature. You can't fight nature and you MUST respect it.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:03 AM
1

You're prolly fine. It sounds like you're almost there tbh. Just invite her out and do more of the same. Try to cut the regular conversation tho. You don't need to know her that well and having a flowing SEXUAL conversation is gonna get you in.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:00 AM
1

Maybe she was. Maybe she wasn't. Who knows? Why do you care if it seems that she ghosted you anyways. we work on the same company but different departments and please don't start saying things like you shouldn't smash women from the workplace etc.. That's still a fucking coworker. And the reason we say it is because dudes that don't wanna follow it are basically putting pussy infront of their career. That's backwards.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:56 AM
6

I've made this mistake before. Do it again? I walk down this street before and last time fell in a hole. Should I go down this same street again knowing there's a fucking hole in it?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:53 AM
2

If you think TRP says to stay in a situation you fucked up, you have learned nothing. How can you get abundance unless you actually go out and get it?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:52 AM
1

Welcome to women 101. That's just how they operate. If you don't wanna wife em up who cares?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:50 AM
1

Yes ask her out. The thing is avoiding acting needy in a way IS needy. You're not acting this way because that's truly how you are but because you're trying to get a certain outcome. If you didn't care about this girl you wouldn't be on this sub trying to get her, would you? How you avoid neediness is not to be so attached to something happening. Outcome independence.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 07:06 PM
1

Not like that. You wanna play it that you know she wants your attention because she's interested. Either she is and is gonna have to play ball and go out with you or she's not and will make up some BS as to why y'all can't get up.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 06:54 PM
2

Don't read into whatever dumb shit she's doing at work. That doesn't count and she could be just doing that because she's bored. If she wanted to tag along to lunch you may have an in. Next time she starts following you around, call her on it and try and set something up.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 06:40 PM
1

Which ever one they're closer to or is just on their way home.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 02:48 PM
1

You can if you want but if you're keeping a girl around that you wanna fuck and she doesn't want to that counts against you for social proof.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 02:38 PM
1

Whoever sells the products the cheapest.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 02:36 PM
2

Those are two different images. The one your refering to is business image (which has nothing to do with fucking girls and is outside of the scope of this sub). All your business image is is how good of a product/service you deliver and the consistency of it. Ppl think Jeff Bezos and Elon Musk are evil tyrants yet still give them money. If a girl thinks you're dark or mysterious or whatever, who gives a fuck? Is she sucking your dick? That's all you need to care about?
/r/askTRP14/10/20 02:09 PM
5

Black Philip Rule #1: It's your fault. Like your title says... Almost gave up my dreams to be with a girl. YOU made the choice to put her above your dreams and when she turns out like this you wanna blame her? You're not an innocent bystander in this, sir. You're the one that put pussy in front of the goal. Never do that. Now you know. Take this lesson and move forth.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 12:53 PM
3

Now see, THIS is a bitch that's truly playing games. Remember this rule, is a bitch has the audacity at all to play games, she's either not into you that much or just straight up nuts. Either way don't fuck with it. Next.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 12:47 PM
3

Ok so since you're gonna ignore the co-worker rule (I mean you are 17 and this isn't your career so you can swing it) you want HER to do most of the pushing. She honestly could be doing all this just to get your attention at work. That's it. Since ya'll have worked together, how many times has she brought up doing things outside of work?
/r/askTRP14/10/20 12:44 PM
3

Ok, I think you're trolling but whatever... She wanted to hit and you kept shooting yourself in the foot because you kept thinking for her. It all starts with your title. What does she want? This is NEVER the right question. What do you want? That's your problem. You're assuming what she wants and it's fucking your game up. Did you wanna fuck? Yes? Then why didn't you? Also, don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 12:41 PM
1

Idk why don't you tell us, incel. Ok real talk, why do you care? How do this question help you and your situation?
/r/askTRP14/10/20 12:35 PM
0

In her defense, girls will get messages from dudes like this all the time to the point they just blend together. So she most likely glossed over it and actually didn't see it. Just because some dude sends her some hearts, doesn't mean she's gonna go off and suck his dick. She may not even like the guy like that. I wouldn't blow up about it.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 12:34 PM
4

You care way too much about how people perceive you. Especially woman. So what if she sees you a certain way. All you should care about is if she's fucking you. Yes? Keep her around. No? dump her. It's that simple
/r/askTRP14/10/20 12:31 PM
2

Use your brain. What do you think? Why do we even say "text for logistics" for?
/r/askTRP14/10/20 12:29 PM
17

If this girl isn't your gf you don't bring her around your friends. That's gf stuff.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 06:05 PM
4

She's bored. Stop reading into what girls do on social media. 9/10 it don't mean shit. If she wanted you again, she'd get at you.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:19 AM
1

How do you even know she wants to smash and isn't just trying to get you to come down and tip her? Plate who you want, but ya'll ain't fucking unless ya'll fucking. Focus on that first.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:16 AM
1

Why do you care? How does this help you?
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:14 AM
1

If you're here asking this question, you've already lost the frame. Because instead of doing and saying what you want, you're trying to think of the right line to say to hook her. You're coming at it backwards. Remember this is just some rando you hit up on IG. You're giving her way too much brainpower.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:14 AM
1

You guys are both kids. You don't compete anyways. Different bitches like different shit. It's not your job to be "better" than these "older" guys but to find the girls that wanna fuck with you. That's it.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:11 AM
1

She said she wants to see this other guy and stay friends with me. "I'm good on friends. But if you wanna ride again, hit my line." I know older RP guys will laugh at this but how to proceed on snapchat? We would probably snap each other 30ish times a day This is why you're out. Not anything you think it is. When you're just smashing a "plate", that's it. You set it up, yall have sex and she bounces. Going back and forth on social media when she just wants to party is eerily to close to the bf-l…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:10 AM
2

You're a kid. This feeling goes away with experience. Stop hamstringing yourself by only going after one girl at a time. That's why you get this oneitis overdrive.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:07 AM
1

Real talk, you shouldn't really care if a girl thinks you wanna be "just friends" because if you're moving the way you need to to make shit happen, eventually she'll catch on and will need to make a decision to fuck with you or not. It's not just using "date" vs "hanging out". How's the interactions you 2 have together? Are you flirting with her and pushing up against that sexual line? That's what really matters. Because you can call her beautiful and date all you want but if you ain't flirting …
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:03 AM
2

There's this girl That's where you're fucking up. You're too invested into this one broad. You shouldn't care if some girl thinks you're too smart. That's her problem. What should I do if I want to have a relationship with her? Why do you want a relationship with her? How long have ya'll been fucking?
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:54 PM
11

Think less "lift" and more "get in shape". Its just that for most people lifting is enough. In soccer you can still lift and stay lean tho. I'm pretty sure.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:52 PM
1

Ok. If that's happening then there's no attraction then. Either you're doing something to turn them off when on the dates or they just weren't interested in the first place
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:34 PM
1

Hmm.. Wait, is it the norm that girls break it off after having sex once or twice?
/r/askTRP12/10/20 07:22 AM
3

There's your conundrum. You either gotta muck through the "sex only" dates to get her to want more from you (or even find out if she does) or just find the girl that doesn't mind doing more outside the bedroom. How old are you and how many times per week are you seeing these girls?
/r/askTRP12/10/20 07:08 AM
5

They're not slow. They're not into you enough to go past talking to you on the app.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:37 AM
2

Drop her. We got serious but I screwed up and ignored some red flags : Multiple male orbiters. Ex bf around and she even would hang out/going out with him. High social media presence and activity while not friending me on any of them. Lots of selfies. Facial work - lashes, botox under eyes, brows done. And this is why she was on some bullshit. If you saw all these red flags in her and locked her down regardless, she could tell and was just gonna run wild. Think about this.. she all these things …
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:32 AM
7

As the man in the relationship it's not your job. Once you hit, that's it. If they don't wanna stick around afterwards, that's on them. Now if they're not staying around, it's most likely for them there's no reason to. Either they don't see you as a good long term prospect (no comfort, they don't like your trajectory in life, etc) or it could be you're doing too much at the start outside of sex that they feel they already got you.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:30 AM
1

Don't. Why would you want to?
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:26 AM
4

If they're initiating then they want you're attention for some reason. Your job, tho, isn't to care about why and focus on what you want from them. Do you want them to come over or do you wanna just chat on the phone with them?
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:26 AM
2

Reading thru this there's something you're not telling us that would explain how she's treating this situation. This isn't the same case of " She was over you 4 months ago, she was just waiting for another man and then leave." is it? With how hard she dropped you on your head, most likely. it is the 3rd time we are together so Red Flag! FUCK.) This most likely has to do with it. No matter who broke up with who the 1st time ya'll split, you agreeing to get back together is all bad. If you dropped…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:24 AM
1

She apologized a week later and said she's been at a bad spot in her life You can take that 2 ways. Either she was telling the truth and she really was going thru some shit because life happens or some dude she was going after dropped her on her ass. Could be either way with all the attention seeking she was doing on this "meetup". My question is, if this chick is truly your friend, why didn't dig to find out what happened?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 10:19 PM
1

Exactly. Why else would OP care about this situation unless it could have been he left off on some pussy?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 10:16 PM
2

If she wanted to "take it" there she would have done it. Leave her alone.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 10:11 PM
1

Go after the 9s and 10s. Simple
/r/askTRP10/10/20 07:23 PM
2

You're 16 years old. Learn this point now less you be doomed to be like the other shlubs on this sub. Stop giving a shit about people that aren't you. It's a waste of time and takes energy away from the person you want to grow to be. So some dude gets girls. And? How are YOU with your situation?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 07:22 PM
1

OP, what does worrying about this do to help you at all?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 07:20 PM
1

Half the questions I be seeing on this sub nowadays need this response.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 07:20 PM
2

Why do you care about other dudes and who they date? How does that help you?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 07:19 PM
1

Why do you care about dudes that aren't you? Sounds like a big waste of time.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 07:18 PM
2

You're 17. Don't waste your time with this and focus on your school and dating locally. Do you even know if this girl is attracted to you now? Plus, who's to say you don't decide to go to a school somewhere else?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 07:17 PM
1

That's it? Just cause she's cute? You don't even know this girl. Why not date her for a while and have sex with her and then later decide if you wanna be exclusive?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 11:47 AM
1

Exactly
/r/askTRP10/10/20 11:46 AM
1

Why would you wanna make this chick your gf when you don't even know her?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 11:40 AM
1

You're giving her way too much of your energy. Why are you all up on her social media like that? You do have feelings. Just fuck the bitch and stop caring about her so much.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 04:25 AM
1

How would I know? I've never met ya.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 01:52 AM
6

She's an adult. If she can't bring it up to you, it's not that big of a deal.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 01:19 AM
3

I doubt you've fucked up that much if she's still trying to see you.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 01:18 AM
1

Flip the chess board. Search " Patrice O'Neal - Getting Out Of The Friend Zone" on YouTube
/r/askTRP09/10/20 01:17 AM
2

They do it either to just fuck around or because they smell pussy
/r/askTRP09/10/20 01:14 AM
3

The ultimate blue pill is wondering about what other dudes are doing and if they're "blue pill" or not.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 01:13 AM
5

"Excuse my homeboi. He gets kinda goofy when he gets around girls." Keep it pushin...
/r/askTRP09/10/20 01:12 AM
1

If you don't wanna go do coffee, don't go do coffee. Not for your texting bit. You gotta reverse the ship. When she starts texting about random shit, respond but kinda take your time with it.. more and more and more. She'll get the hint.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 01:09 AM
1

There's a writeup on the main sub which basically says whether she actually has a bf or not doesn't really matter. So do the same thing if it's a shit test. Me tho, I don't care what it is because if a bitch gonna be dumb to say some shit like that to me, I ain't even gonna fuck with her.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 01:07 AM
1

This is what happens when you try the "friends first" bs. She thinks you're a loser who just acting like a friend to get in her pants. So if you stop contacting her it's a win win for her. The anger is from thinking you'd just go back to your friend friend role after she shot you down. Also the term "friend" is used very loosely.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 06:48 PM
1

Yea you overreacted. Dude, it's just social media. None of it matters. And I'm even gonna put a lil wrinkle in your head for you to ponder over. Could it be the reason that she didn't tag you is because she thinks you're mad at her since you haven't spoken to her in 5 months? Have you known her for some time?
/r/askTRP08/10/20 06:07 PM
2

If you're happy, why change up just for some pussy? That's still putting it on the pedestal. Thing is you're always gonna want some strange. And as long as your dick still works you're always going to be able to get it unless you're like... 75 or something. But you got TIME, bro. Early 20's? Pssh you could fuck up and stay with her until you're like... 38 and then decide you wanna break it off and fuck strange if it bothers you that much. I'd say for you to stick it out and enjoy the ride. Hell …
/r/askTRP08/10/20 06:05 PM
1

Welp, if you're not gonna give her dick she might as well get some attention from you
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:11 AM
2

You're a kid. What is there to "respect"? When you say attacking to you mean by physically putting hands on you? How are your grades? What's your plan after high school?
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:10 AM
2

You're getting to autistic about it. It's less about the actions and more about the energy behind them and knowledge of social cues.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:08 AM
3

How would we know? We're not her. Next time approach.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:05 AM
0

Don't waste your time trying to fix those who don't wanna fix themselves.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:04 AM
1

You need more pussy if a girl you've only been seeing for 2 mos has go you like this. She should still be in probation.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:18 AM
4

Seems as if trying to get this girl out is pulling teeth. TBH I wouldn't even care and just get another bitch. It's been months.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:17 AM
5

You're overvaluing the dancing. This is like asking "Why would she give me a hug and then hug another guy?"
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:16 AM
1

You care too much about what women think. Focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:14 AM
1

Ok we're getting into waaaay to many questions. Don't worry about what I do or anybody else. If wanna drive, then drive.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:35 PM
1

Both
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:08 PM
1

Take em to do what you wanna do. Avoid dinners and movies but ice cream is ok. You wanna avoid a full on dinner just because the date is more of a way to just see if y'all vibe and to flirt with her. Dinner is gonna lock you into a place for an hour and if she's ready to go (either back to your place or to get away from you) y'all are stuck there until you finish. Also the date shouldn't last more than 30 mins.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 04:37 PM
2

Con is you're not gonna walk on and bartend straight outta school. You're gonna have to barback for like a year at the least if the place is halfway decent. Unless you already have experience. Also, look up where you live as you may not need to even go to school. Out here in CA they advertise the schools all the time but it's not required by law and a bar owner could give 2 shits less if you can make a Long Island in your bedroom.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:39 AM
2

Don't worry about being timid or desperate and just do what you want. Understand that women are gonna have all sorts of different grading scales. Some girls think you just approaching them is too desperate where others will think that if you don't bonk em over the head and drag em back to your cave to fuck em, you're too timid. Talk about what you want. Make sure you flirt a bit. Proceed from there.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:36 AM
1

Don't shit where you eat. You may not work together together but if you fuck this up and she can get you fired, now you're putting the pussy over your money. Never do that. Now with this broad, you've both said your piece. You gotta stand on it. Let her walk and come back or stay gone. If you keep chasing her after she cut it off, you're telling her that's what you want and it's all backwards. Why didn't you fuck her on your date? Edit: You should never have the talk before you have sex. She thi…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:30 AM
3

You can be "kind" and still get pussy. It's not about being rude but standing on what you say and what you believe. Focus less on being "rude" and more on saying "no" to things you don't want and setting boundaries.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:26 AM
3

You should come at all the girls the same way because even tho THEY may be different, you're still the same dude. You're the prize, remember?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:24 AM
1

Welp, here's the thing. You can straight invite bitches over, and some girls will be down but a heap won't. And then more will wanna come back after 1 date, then more on 2 dates, etc But here's the flip, if you're taking a girl out just to have a better shot at fucking her, she'll pick up on it and drag it along as long as you let her. So I say do this. Decide if YOU wanna go out on dates and choose how many dates YOU are willing to do, and go and adjust from there.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 12:59 AM
1

Even with all that, bro. Doesn't mean shit. Or it could mean something but your personality is unattractive to them. You even see a car that looks mint as fuck bit drives like shit? Same story. How can you tell a girls interested. Welp, is she trying to make plans to see you out? Get you alone one on one? When you set plans, are they excited? You're reading way too much into shit that doesn't matter and that's what got you confused. A girl calling you hot should cause the same reaction as a girl…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 07:31 PM
5

Why do you care?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 06:41 PM
1

Ok lemme ask it this way. Is texting for long resulting in you getting more ass? Like have you measured it out?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 06:25 PM
1

Is texting longer getting you more sex or just getting more dates?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:55 PM
1

Women can find you attractive and not be attracted to you. And women find dogs cute. Don't mean they wanna get plowed by them. You're taking too much stock into what women are saying because you think it's an IOI. Not necessarily. Just keep playing the numbers game until you find a girl that's following your lead. Basic stuff. she’s totally my type too ( we’re both alternative with a few piercings and tattoos and we like the same type of music) I just never understood this. You hardly know me af…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:53 PM
1

See I'm guess you truly really DON'T care about wasting this girls time. You only feel bad when you're out doing ltr stuff and feel good when you get your dicked sucked. You're being phony. Either through your words, your actions, or both she's getting the idea that you two are dating dating. So cut that off. Be honest with her and tell her it's just casual. But you're afraid to do that because you think that if you do it'll kill the bjs. You're putting her feelings before yours and that's a rec…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:47 PM
2

You're caring too much about what she's saying. Women are goofy. She wouldn't know how she'd take your breakup unless you actually dumped her. Why are you so concerned if she "cares" about you? If she's doing right by you that's what matters.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:42 PM
1

I wouldn't be stressin if she wasn't so fuckin sexy So don't stress it.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:40 PM
25

Women can be direct but a good amount of the time it's just for attention. Only one way to find out if she's bullshitting or not.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:38 PM
3

Tell her you don't want to be serious.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:37 PM
10

If you truly love women; be BRUTALLY honest with them.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:36 PM
3

And that's your problem and where I'm gonna end it. You think that you have to be this this and that to get a girl, but when you see a dude who doesn't have anything of the things a guy needs to have to have a girl it's because he's beta bux. You gotta get off the internet and realize life isn't white and black like that. But you've already make up your mind. Nothing you see or are told is gonna change it.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:45 AM
6

How do you know tho? Did you walk up to the girl and ask her? Also I have and you have too. But the thing is your mindset makes you blind to those people because all your focusing on is the couples that you can use to prove your bias right. When it gets to the bottom of if you have no idea of why a girl wants that guy. You're repeating what some guys who admit they don't get pussy tell you. And why in the hell would you take advice about what women find attractive from guys who don't get women? …
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:15 AM
3

What I'm saying tho is you're even giving this girl ANY attention after she told you she wasn't down for what you want, you're kinda not giving her the chance to come back. But hey, do what you want. Open relationships are agreed upon sets of rules. Like yea you still fuck other people but you maybe give each other priority or however you wanna set it up. Plates are just fucking. Also the different is that is has to be laid out for them. If you want a plate to fuck just you, you gonna set it up …
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:53 AM
1

Prolly. That happens a fair amount of the time. If she's saying she sees you as a friend it's usually too much comfort, and that varies from chick to chick. But hell, some girls if you don't like beat they ass on the first date, they think you trying to wife em up or something. Just keep it pushing, fam. You'll land em.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:47 AM
1

I would ask is why put so much energy into a girl who's not trying to have sex with you. I think ASD be getting overhyped. This is your 2nd date. You wanna fuck her and she knows that. So the only reason she would be making it harder for that to happen is because she doesn't wanna have sex with you. Also this date has way too much. You're giving way too much time. You need just enough to get the job done. I get the whole "time travel" thing but that's just hitting 3 different bars in a night. Th…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:41 AM
1

Why didn't you smash her at the party or that same night that you met her?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:36 AM
1

You wanna have your cake and eat it too. It don't work that way. You basically want her to wait around for you to get to that point while you're out dicking down Georgia. You're at a crossroads. Do you wanna be single, or stay with this hoe and shack up? Both come with pros and cons but at the end of the day its your life. I would ask you this, if you knew 100 you could find another girl like this when you're ready to have a family, would you hold onto this one?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:34 AM
1

Sounds like it really wasn't there. A thing guys get tripped up is thinking "chemistry" and "spark" are the same thing. In fact, they're more like opposing forces. The fact she saw you more as a friend is because you were pushing the friend vibe like bonding with her and finding mutual interests instead of building up the attraction. Like before you "jumped" on her, how much did you flirt with her? Touch her? That kinda stuff.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:29 AM
1

But then I start thinking about it and red pill things and I feel like this is where I go off the rails and either my insecurity shines through or I just need to somehow train myself to not analyze these situations, I don't know. That's it right there, dude. Women are goofy. She wanted to fuck you now. You made her bust, now she don't. It could be this other guy. It could be that you got her off but she didn't like HOW you got her off, maybe she doesn't like fucking you (you how like you'll nut …
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:22 AM
9

Ok, so what makes you think that their jawline or their tattoos are why they're together? I mean you see women with guys without those things, right? Also how do you know that these two people you know are even together, unless you're watching them make out, which if you are, that's kinda creepy.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:12 AM
16

OK. This is the thing. It's not the girls or your face or whatever the fuck, it's your mindset. Listen, hoes don't fucking know what any of that shit is when they're around you, all the care about is how you make them FEEL. That's it. You can be a short Indian fucked up face fucker but as long as you make them feel some type of way, they'll fuck with you. Your problem is you have a bad confirmation bias. You know how the scientific method right? Hypothesis > experiment > data > conclusion. Inste…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:53 AM
3

If you nexted this girl, why are you still talking to her? She fucked up and now you decided to just give her what she wants and stop getting what you want? If you wanna be open you need to stand on that, full stop. Either she's your girl and your relationship is how you want it, or YOU DON'T TALK TO HER. lol Also with plates, they're gonna date other guys. The biggest thing I see on here is guys who want gf treatment from women without make them their gf. That's not how the world works.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:47 AM
12

Ok. Well if you think the black pill is real, why are you here wasting our time? Go talk with your other blackpill friends that don't get laid and wanna blame the women instead of going out and talking to them and realizing all that shit is made up.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:38 AM
21

Do you wanna be a blackpill pussy or get pussy? You can't do both.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:35 AM
20

Your pics suck
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:27 AM
1

I'm worried I won't be able to perform in the moment and that I'll disappoint her. That's the issue. You cannot be afraid doing or not doing something because of how she is gonna take it. That's never the move with dealing with women. Think like this. It's your first time, right? Wouldn't it be WEIRD if you jumped in your first time and just made her bust a bunch of times? In reality you won't. And that's ok. You're inexperienced. Stop holing yourself to this standard you can't make because I'll…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:43 AM
1

The last thing you should be doing is you're that far down is deal with women.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:59 PM
2

Do want you want. The most beta thing is doing something you wanna do because you think it's "beta". It's not the action, it's the reason behind it that matters.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:50 PM
1

You need to show her. Pull back and/or demote her. No reason to trip off her so much if she's not even gonna do the simple decent thing and block this guy.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:44 PM
2

You already fucked up by not setting plans the first time you chatted with her and are spending way too much brainpower over this. Look, she either wants you or she don't. Just shoot. Understand tho that doing this has the situation to fuck things super sideways if you fuck it up. And if you're on here asking just how to approach, I'd get a different bitch.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:23 PM
1

You handled it ok. But her waiting a week to tell you and then says she shouldn't have as well is kinda sus. Remember, if a girl is down for you, the last thing she'll do is even give you the IDEA that she would do something to fuck it up.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:20 PM
1

Don't focus on it. You leave it in a place where you're letting her know what you want. So if she picks it back it a good amount of times it means she wants to give you what you want.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 11:31 PM
8

It's not lack of motivation. It's lack of vision. It's like you said, you have no purpose. Welp, what's the point of working hard if it's not getting you to where you wanna go? But that's the real problem. You don't know where to go. So you don't have to put effort into anything else you know it's gonna get you to where you wanna go. Define that goal or that purpose. And remember that a purpose doesn't have to be like "save world hunger' or anything like that. Your purpose could be " I wanna mak…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:37 PM
7

Fuck it I'm bored lemme read in this novel and I'll respond to this when I'm done Edit: OK... Whew. Ok I think you're just trolling but again I'm bored. Your issue is you're being a bitch. You're completely reactive and doing everything just because how it would affect your girl and not because you knew better. You dated her for months without fucking her because she wanted you to. You're withholding sex now because she did it do you. Why are you wasting her, yours, and everyone else's time with…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:10 PM
1

What is she like when you're off the clock? Is she hitting you up? Is she trying to spend with you outside work? If not, she's just chasing some work attention BS. You need to get into other shit outside of work so you stop tripping off a girl you never dated. Also, don't (try and) fuck your coworkers.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:02 PM
1

How long have you been at this?
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:58 PM
1

I’m not in this situation You have way too much free time to be sweating over this then.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:57 PM
3

Wait a week and shoot again. If you get another no put the ball in her court and keep it pushing.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:57 PM
2

She's done, dude. She knows what she's doing. If you're pulling back and she pulls back too, it means she doesn't care if this situation ends. Real talk it was probably on it's way out before ya'll moved in together and covid just sped up the process. Sucks, but it is what it is. Dread isnt' supposed to be a tactic. It's you realizing that you were putting her above you and that you now are reversing the situation.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:54 PM
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The same way you'd fuck any other chick. Most likely tho, you're already out. You talk about dudes being thirsty and approaching her yet you're trying to do this "ignore her" bs and seeing how guys and her dads treat her and thing she doesn't notice.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:51 PM
10

You should be worried less about some colleagues that you don't even have right now and put that energy into finding employment.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:47 PM
-13

If you don't have a strat to get plates normally, you're asking the wrong question.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:46 PM
-12

The same way you get plates normally.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:38 PM
6

Your mindset is fucked up. Remember looks are subjective. What you may say is a 5 I may say is a 9 and vice versa. Her looks have nothing to do with how hard they'll be in a relationship. Also just because you see her as just a 6 doesn't mean she'll see you as a god. Hell, she may not even like you lol
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:36 PM
1

That's what I'M saying, man. All over this sub. Guys treat plates like girlfriends and then wonder why she's tripping when they don't wanna be official or find out they're fucking other girls.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:32 PM
1

I always say that all that really matters is if she's following your lead. If it's not a red flag for you who cares. My issue is that 2 mos is way to fast for a relationship. Of course she's pushing for it because she's gotta get you before you realize she aint shit. The only reason you're even considering this is because you're afraid to lose her. Don't. Also, if you're only having sex with this girl and are spending time together outside the bedroom, she's your girlfriend. That's also why she'…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:32 PM
8

Nothing. You probably are "special" to her but not attractive to her.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:22 PM
4

If you're gonna see her in class and wanna make a move, do it in person. If she sees you in class all the time and you don't talk to her and slide in her DMs, she's thinking "Wow, this guy doesn't have the balls to talk to me"
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:58 PM
3

Ok, on the gaming side. Peep this. Like you said she knows you wanna date her. She's not setting definite plans and all of a sudden ya'll don't talk as much. What should that tell you? I feel for sweet girls sometimes. What you described is most likely just her personality. Not necessarily that she's into you. For the friendship, I'd say go for it if you want but go in with the idea that you will STAY friends. If you think you're gonna just be friends with her with the idea that later she'll cha…
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:55 PM
1

Why do you care? It's not your job to worry about why she feels a certain way. Are you in the wrong? No? Then she trippin. And we all know bitches be trippin
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:48 PM
1

How does knowing about how other peoples parents interacted affect your situation?
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:47 PM
6

Sounds like a lot of brainpower over just a friend. Just chill. Talk if you want. Or don't.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:46 PM
1

Respond when you want but taking a day to respond doesn't seem like high interest. You may be misreading this a bit.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:44 PM
6

Don't put in your bio but just have a pic of you doing it. If they ask about it that's a GOOD thing.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:43 PM
1

Go to Russia and find out.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:52 PM
1

Yea well rules are meant to be broken sometimes. Why not go to her place?
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:23 PM
3

Fuck no. Why do you care about some random hoe you ain't fucking? If you done with her, be done with her.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:08 PM
-12

The fuck is wrong with you? If she's underaged why are you even have second thoughts about this?
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:07 PM
4

Do what you wanna do but do NOT have something at your place if you have roommates. They say or do one thing and could fuck up the whole situation.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:06 PM
2

The fuck is wrong with you?
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:05 PM
3

Why do you think she doesn't respect herself if she sucks off 100 dudes?
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:02 PM
1

You're giving way too much brain power into a hoe you've known for a week. Knock that shit off. Also, if she's so high intertest and you've know her for a week why haven't ya'll fucked yet?
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:39 AM
3

Don't LTR either. You're not ready. Guys gotta understand that LTRs are WORK. You don't fall into one and set it and forget it. OP, ya just started on this road, imagine your workload x10. That's just ltring ONE of the chicks. Do this. OLTR em. When they bring it up, you move it to the open relationship. Sell it to 'em that they both are good for you and don't wanna choose. Now the one that's NOT down for that, kick HER off and keep the other.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:38 AM
1

Why would you cancel her off of this. Don't be too spergish and move the date up a bit if you can. There's nothing wrong with bending a bit lol Now if you can't do b4 8 or don't WANT to... then don't.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:35 AM
4

It's really hard to look a girl in the eye and say "i love you" knowing she has banged that many guys???? Why?
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:31 AM
4

If you don't wanna be friends with her, don't be friend with her. This is how you know you have oneitis. You're afraid to do what you want to do because it might hurt her feelings. Your happiness is the game. You're spending way too much brainpower on this. Just do what you want.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:23 PM
7

The problem isn't her, it's you. You're giving this girl "relationship energy" when ya'll are just fucking. You guys need to compartmentalize the girls in your life. If you're gonna have plates and just fuck them, JUST FUCK THEM! That's why you're getting all in your feelings right now about it. You say and call her a "plate" but give her LTR energy and when she doesn't match that energy you get upset. She's a plate, right? Cancel your plane ticket, and tell her when she gets back you gonna have…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 09:54 AM
2

It's less about your actions and more about the energy behind them. How much money you make don't mean shit. It's about how you're coming at her. If you're coming at her for a position of power like all dudes can and should do, the money is an addition. If you're coming form a position of weakness and are thinking "well I gotta show her this money or she won't fuck with me" THAT'S how you look like a trick.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 09:47 AM
3

It sounds like you have way too much time on your hands to be tripping on how some girl who isn't involved with you in any way presents herself online. You need to add more things to your life because this whole "analyzing other ppls lives" shit guys like to do on here is creepy as fuck.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 09:43 AM
2

Move on. This girl isn't interested. You shouldn't be thinking this hard about a chick you met on an app. Just set the plans. If she doesn't wanna follow through, boot her.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 09:40 AM
4

Don't flirt at work. Even if she takes it well someone around you could trip out and get you fired. Keep it cordial. Like you said the balls in her court. All you can do now is wait to see if she hits it back. Like you said in your writeup you got other girls, so you shouldn't even be trippin, right?
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:51 AM
2

Understand that the timeframe to get it in with women is VERY short. ESPECIALLY if they're giving strong hints like she gave you. Because even though basically life happened to what you were doing, it doesn't get you bonus time. The fire has cooled off.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:47 AM
4

This is the first thing guys who don't know what they're doing need to get into their heads. You're either the stuffed animal on the bed or the dildo in the drawer. Choose wisely.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:45 AM
-1

Why does it matter what we would say? You ain't us. If we gave you something to say and it didn't mesh with the guy you showed up as on the date, it'll come off as goofy and lose you the goods. Trust in yourself. Just text the bitch.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:43 AM
2

When she was hinting at you on having "sessions" you should had set something up then. You took too long and this thing called LIFE happened. Whether or not she was lying kinda really doesn't matter as the fact that you kept hitting her up doesn't make it look like you're a guy with shit going on since you got all day to try and get this Covid bitch out, y'know? You took your ball and went home. Game over.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:40 AM
4

You're being disrespected because you don't give them anything to respect. You don't even respect yourself, because if you did and you had a problem with them swearing at you, you would had said so to them.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:30 AM
1

You're giving these women too much power over you. Instead of looking at yourself and realizing you're the prize (which is in the sidebar), you're going around looking for women to validate you so you know you're the prize and when they don't you get upset. Remember if you give someone the power to make you happy, you give them complete control of your emotions. If a girl says yes or no, it shouldn't bother you because in the grand scheme of things it doesn't mean a lot anyways.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:29 AM
6

You've been talking to girls for MORE than this before setting up plans?
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:26 AM
4

You may have not said it but if you've been fucking this broad for 4 months and did ANYTHING else outside of that (hanging out, talking on the phone a lot, pillow talk), she thinks you were moving to something. Then all of a sudden you got another bitch and she goes "Wait.. soo I though we were gonna be exclusive and he was just being casual the whole time? Well so will I."
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:25 AM
1

Welp here's the thing. She's only gonna stay on the backburner for a very short time since you're boo'd up also you haven't fucked her and you don't wanna cheat on your girl so...
/r/askTRP27/09/20 07:32 PM
5

Some just like to keep their family and friends separate like that.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 07:25 PM
77

Could it be a cultural reason as to why she wouldn't tell this caller she has a bf? Could it had been her parents called and they're against her dating outsider her race?
/r/askTRP27/09/20 04:41 PM
1

Like you said, she's got another dude. May be broke. Hit her up again and see if she'll come out. If anything other than ya'll fucking happens, drop her.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 04:39 PM
3

I'd only do it if you're somehow capable of the job already and aren't going in blind. You're gonna need to put a place where you got that experience, though. And they may call them just in case.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 04:37 PM
1

And?
/r/askTRP27/09/20 04:34 PM
2

Just because you get her SC don't mean shit either. An app is a app. None of em mean something lol.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 10:58 PM
2

They're plates. You shouldn't be putting a first thought in them period
/r/askTRP26/09/20 10:50 PM
1

You don't
/r/askTRP26/09/20 10:49 PM
2

But you're not special on SC either. You're still some dude she met online. I'm not trying to Black pill your shit. If it works it works. I'm just saying I don't do it.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 10:48 PM
-4

That's the thing tho. I'm not looking get numbers or social media on Tinder. I'm trying to set plans. I'm already talking to her on this app, why do more work just to end up talking to another app or a text when that doesn't mean she'll come out anyways?
/r/askTRP26/09/20 01:37 PM
6

You let her get too comfortable. You put her in a position in your life that she hasn't earned yet.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 10:17 AM
5

Text for logistics. Guys think that "Oh, if my texting was better I'd get more play". The chick who swiped on you already had you in a position before you even sent the first message and a majority of them are "I wanna just chat with this guy". Weed those girls out. I follow Locario's plan where the first message is about getting together. Now, had I "gamed" girls for a bit before going to set the plans? Maybe. But how long would you have to do that? A day? A week? She may never come around lol.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 10:16 AM
2

She doesn't like sucking dick OR isn't into you enough to suck your dick
/r/askTRP25/09/20 03:16 PM
8

She just wants attention. If she wanted to see you, she would have either hinted at ya'll getting together or straight up asked you out.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 03:15 PM
2

Money doesn't make you BB. Being "beta" makes you BB. Just because you got money doesn't matter but how you use it.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 12:55 PM
7

TRP isn't the end all be all on how to live your life. If you're considering therapy, go. Don't let some randoms on the internet that have never met you before tell you how to live your life. That's "beta" shit.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 12:54 PM
1

You care too much about people who aren't you.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 12:51 PM
3

she wanted to take break as she has issues in her life that she can’t focus on relationship. She wants a break because her attraction for you has dropped and she's either waiting around to see if something better comes along or hopes you man up and just leave her. You don't "take breaks" with relationships. You're either in them or you're not. If she doesn't want to be in one with you "right now" the most bitch shit you could do is to kick it with her and wait for her to "make up her mind". Now …
/r/askTRP25/09/20 12:50 PM
5

The tension you're feeling with your family is based on your own unhappiness. They know you're not happy but they can't force you to be in a position where you are at this point. All then can do is support you and hope you make it on your own. You have 2.5 yrs down. Before you had 0 so you're on your way. Just keep moving forward and you'll be good.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 04:19 AM
1

You're too thirsty for a gf. You should never be getting your hopes up to be locked down. You're looking at dating as a means to an end so instead of trying to find a quality girl you just wanna find a girl and when it gets to that point you get needy in reaction to keeping from fucking it up.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 04:16 AM
21

Don't meet this bitch.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 04:09 AM
1

That's the opposite of what I'm saying. If your just that high of a dude your girl won't CARE about what culture says.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 10:47 PM
1

Ok. So how are the "odds stacked against you" if the only people who could fuck it up are you and your girl? What people need to learn about statistics is that the do not apply to the individual. So 50% of marriages end in divorce, that doesnt mean that YOU only have that much of a shot to get divorced. Whether or not you do is based solely on your actions. You can't 100 guarantee anything in this life but you can upgrade yourself to get damn close. Well there sonny boi. Theres a Reddit sub call…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:37 PM
1

She's not interested. Move on. Stop trying to shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:09 PM
1

Why do you care?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:08 PM
3

Find a girl that lives closer to you. Or go on the date anyways and move it to her place. If you can't, oh well
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:07 PM
3

Nah. You should probably sit here on Reddit and do nothing. Thatll drop the panties. Cmon bro. What other way is anything supposed to happen?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:06 PM
1

So what's the chance that all the ppl you know who got divorced just didn't know how to manage the relationship correctly and not some "hurt Durr women are evil" bs?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:05 PM
1

Why do you care? How would we know? We're not mindreaders. Just go and approach.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 05:26 PM
2

Try cutting your "fat". If you're flirting and she's responding well set the plans right there in person. So then the number will be a afterthought. If you don't in person the the first message you send her should be about getting together. I mean that's why you got her number for, right? No reason to beat around the bush about it.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:46 PM
1

What's your net worth? How many times have you been divorced?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:32 PM
2

Choosing to take no action is still an action. Also you don't have to fight shit. The only reason that your girl will choose culture over you is because you're not a strong enough man in her eyes to counter it.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:30 PM
2

There's still a debate on it. On one hand it can show you take charge and aren't afraid to call and gives you a better chance to flirt. Others see it as low value as you only call if you need or really want something. Imo things can be taken on 100s of ways so just do what you want. If calling vs texting is the make or break for a girl she really wasn't trying to see you anyways. Also I read you're building rapport... are you building/checking for attraction first?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:24 PM
23

You have to work on yourself more. You're giving up the "I'm the prize" notion just because she's hot? That's it? What is it her being hot that makes her special? There's a ton of hot girls out there that don't mean shit.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 12:52 PM
1

But you can still be happy and healthy, tho. And since you're actually learning how to manage relationships you have a better shot at the norm. I'm just over this whole "marriage is bad, woe is me" bullshit. If you're afraid to be married, just say that and go. But stop coming on here bitching about people and situations that you have no personal experience in to try and sell these kids outta doing something they actually wanna do. That's not "alpha" at all.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 12:50 PM
2

If you don't wanna get married, that's fine. But own up to the reason: you're afraid. You can spin whatever you want from other people who aren't you but at the end of the day, you're afraid. And that is the ultimate sacrifice of power.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 12:48 PM
1

What's your question?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 12:09 PM
1

So you think you can't learn hot to manage a marriage correctly because you have girl issues now? What did all the people who are in healthy marriages do?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 12:07 PM
1

Why do you care? If you don't like the norm, don't follow it.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 11:57 AM
0

You're still giving women all your power. Understand there's millions of couples that have continued on their family name without divorce even coming into the fold. Why do you think you can't do that, too?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 11:56 AM
6

I know I could've just pulled myself and done something about it instead of being such a loser. But the damage is done This is exactly why you're a loser. You have an issue and you think that you're too far gone to fix it. You walk down the same street with a hole in it and keep falling in it yet somehow it's not your fault. The first step is acceptance. It is your fault. Understand it. Realize you need to change. Then, start making the efforts to do so.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 11:54 AM
7

How do an alpha respond An alpha wouldn't be asking how to respond and just do what he wants to do about this situation. Now if she freaked out because her parents were tripping, that doesn't really merit any respond. How old are you two?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 11:51 AM
2

You knocked up a bitch you've only been dating for A MONTH? Bruh, you're done. Figure out what you gonna do about this kid because she's already over you.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:39 AM
3

Could be your dick game sucks. Could be she just wanted a fuck buddy and you asking her out on a date gave her "bf vibes" or whatever the fuck. Coulda been her ex came back. Could be SHE just wanted an ONS. Sometimes plats break after one go. It is what it is. Keep pushing.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:25 AM
4

Average closing is about 10% so you're good. If they say they cant that time, ask them when they're free. Dates have a place, date and time. If it's missing one of those 3 things, there's no date. This is low/no interest. Unless she's a double major with a job I'm sure she can clear at least an hour to see you. Again, no plans. It's cool to leave the ball in the girl's court after she shoots you down but understand that there's a fair chance it's gonna be a no. Also it's only been 3 days. Hell s…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:23 AM
1

Not our problem but not here.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 01:22 AM
1

Not gonna read this novel. Bro, if you're sweating a girl this hard you're in too deep and need to jump ship. But you know that already. You want us to give you hope. I'm not gonna lie to you.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 01:20 AM
1

I dunno. Will you? Why do you care so much about people who aren't you?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 01:18 AM
2

She doesn't want to see you. Keep it moving.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 01:17 AM
1

What's your question? AskTRP isn't for "Dear Diary" posts like this.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 01:15 AM
13

Why do you care? Just smoke all her weed and keep pushing. If you wanna try and fuck her then fuck her. We're not mindreaders.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 05:59 PM
1

Not your job. You're just fucking her friend. Just keep fucking her.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 05:58 PM
1

So your question should be "How do I help myself get better with women?" And the answer is the Sidebar. Glad to help.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:10 PM
1

Why do you care? Are you a promiscuous woman?
/r/askTRP23/09/20 12:33 PM
0

Don't try to "act" a way and be you. Understand that there's girls that are gonna respond to anything so instead of trying to find the right you to present in the situation just be you and you'll do fine.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 12:33 PM
4

How to continue with her without her investing too much? Don't invest so much. Easy. You've had sex once and are overthinking this situation because you're already afraid of losing the pussy. Just chill.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 12:31 PM
2

You're a kid man. You're good. You're life is just getting started. Stick to the plan (if you don't have one talk with your parents / elders and make one) and you'll be just fine. You're not behind. You're on schedule. Also dudes your age love to lie about their body count, so don't even listen to them.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 12:26 PM
1

You're out. You fucked up on this one. Why in the fuck would a man drop his girlfriend for some chick he just met? You look like a bitch to her.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 02:11 AM
1

Your actions make you beta. You can have a Bentley or a bucket, if you running behinds these hoes you "beta".
/r/askTRP23/09/20 02:08 AM
3

I've tried different approaches, different attitudes, vibes, sometimes I'm serious, sometimes corny and funny, sometimes it's even just a quick "hey I'm at work but I'd love to talk more later"... Nothing ever works. This is your issue. You're trying all these different "moves" because you don't know yourself. You're a man. So every time you step to a girl you should be that same man when you meet thing. Because understand this, girls will go for any of those different approached but if you keep…
/r/askTRP23/09/20 02:05 AM
1

Not your job. If a girl is dumb to "self sabotage" something she don't want it. So don't give it to her.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 02:01 AM
2

A place you wanna go that doesn't cost a lot.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 02:00 AM
2

You're waaaaaay overthinking it. The best way to avoid getting metoo'd is don't fuck girls who don't wanna fuck you. And I don't mean by just taking pussy. Like you bring a girl home and she stops you more than once, kick her out.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 02:00 AM
11

You come off as valuable by not wasting time on the phone and using it to get shit down and keep it pushing.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 01:58 AM
1

What's your question?
/r/askTRP22/09/20 12:33 PM
1

Why do you care? Just go for girls you want.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 12:32 PM
1

Dead that shit. Women look at EVERYTHING. Yea a guy may be ripped but if all of his photos are bathroom selfies they're gonna think he's a loser. That's the issue I get with dudes who think it's all about looks because that's way too easy. Women look at EVERYTHING about you. Not just your muscle mass.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 12:10 PM
1

It's the app. They constantly do shit to make you pay for the service. I started hating on Tinder once they stopped considering your distance. Trying to match me with girls 2659 mi away and shit.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 12:07 PM
2

Scarcity. You're hoeless right now so whenever you have a "hoop" instead of stopping, you wanna jump through it because you've been trained that that's just the way things work. Understand that it doesn't. If anything jumping through hoops makes it harder for you to bag a bitch. Introduce another option. If a girl is making you chase, disengage. Because the more you do that, the more accustomed to dealing with women who actually like you will be.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 12:05 PM
30

You're gonna have to end this. Listen, sex scenes are part of the gig. If she's an actress she's' gonna have to take on those roles to make it. And turning down a role as big as you're making it seem may tank her career. Also, don't give ultimatums. When you do that, you're admitting you have no power in the situation and are grasping at straws.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 12:01 PM
2

Your emotions are too much into it. You're young but the best thing you can learn from the game is that you gotta get rid of this idea of how things are supposed to go. You're dealing with another human being that will always do what's best for them. Why I'm confused is why adding 90 dudes on IG makes her a slut, lol. Sounds like you're making up these superficial rules to kinda destroy your image of her to move on. That's not how you do it. You give her memory 0 energy. That's how you move on.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 11:58 AM
1

Understand that every plate has a date. You can only keep a girl fucking with you so long without commitment before she just grows tired and moves on. The only thing you can do to keep them longer is just be more of that guy that they're willing to fuck with that long. It's the nature of the game.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 11:53 AM
1

I wouldn't get your hopes up. But that's the thing. You gotta keep your emotions outta this game. Whether she does come back or not should have 0 effect on ya.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:07 PM
3

I'm telling you know that if you try to slide back in with a chick who broke up with you over text it's not gonna get your dick sucked.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:05 PM
5

Too many dudes here are trying to fake alpha their lives and it comes off sperg-ish. You're right tho. Guys forget that when they LTR a girl that comes with responsibilities on their end as well. TRP just reminds you to not bend over backwards for a girl but dudes take it way too extreme and don't even fuck with a girl unless she's like signed over her first born to him or something. It's crazy. At the end of the day just do you. Some women will wanna fuck with it, others won't. You then fuck wi…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:03 PM
2

You locked her down WAY to fast. Only a month? Whew. She has to break NC first and if she does you only offer dick. No dates. No "talking". Just dick.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 09:59 PM
4

Then stop doing it. Next time she asks for your input blow her off. She'll get the hint after you do it a few times.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:13 PM
1

It depends on why you're doing it. Do you wanna switch up because you don't wanna go or just because she suggested that you don't go? Think of it like this. If it's a good place then why is trying to move the date for?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:11 PM
4

She likes the feeling of being better than you. Why do you care? Are you trying to fuck this broad?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:09 PM
1

You're ego is making you misread the situation. This is not good anxious you're talking about. This is bad anxious. Again, if she was trying to win you back, then why would she be working to avoid you? That's doesn't make sense. That anxiety you feel around her is a sign that something is wrong and if you keep trying to push past that you're going into creeperville. She's anxious and watching what she does to make sure she doesn't do anything that'll give you the impression that she wants you ba…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 07:31 PM
1

I'd help but I wouldn't use that as a chance to give her TRP shit. The thing is if she was my friend I've have a handle as to what she's fucking up and could break it down for here. Remember TRP is just an idea, it's not an end all be all set of rules that if you follow you're guaranteed relationship success.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 06:36 PM
7

The reason everyone is harping on you for talking to her about this stuff is that there's 0 to gain from it. Will it ruin you life? No. But there's no benefit to it, so why do it. It's like punching yourself in the face. It won't kill you. If you do it hard enough you may do some damage. However there's no benefit to it.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 06:04 PM
1

Why do you care? You got too much time on your hands writing essays about people who aren't you.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:59 PM
1

Pretty much what you said. Too slow to act. When you meet a chick you have maybe like a week for something to happen before she either is convinced you're not interested or you're too scared to make a move. She doesn't care why. Also we say not to focus on one girl because even if you did do everything right there's never a guarantee that it's 100. But yes a key component in staying out of "oneitisland" is to move on the second she's showing signs of uninterest. Instead you invested more and now…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:54 PM
3

Ok. And I'm saying it can help with women, too. Your physique plays a part in if women find you attractive but it's not the "end-all-be-all" like it is with us finding women attractive.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:51 PM
-1

Why not if it can help you in not just women but in other ways?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:21 PM
2

Yea it's more likely you're attitude. All the PUA shit does is teach you tactics. You can't use tactics to hide something inside of you that's lacking, which is confidence. They may have fun on your dates but it'll all feel fake and forced. You don't need to be analyzing your dates so much and making sure you're doing this and that. Just be in the moment and push for sex. That's it.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:06 PM
1

I didn't tell you to say that. Why would you?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:01 PM
-1

We're talking about different things, lol
/r/askTRP21/09/20 01:17 PM
1

It's the same thing, dude
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:52 PM
2

You need to work on yourself then. Women feeling themselves shouldn't have you so pressed.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:47 PM
4

Bro girls do shit 99.9% of the time just because they feel like it.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:46 PM
4

So don't care. All you need to concern yourself with is when a girl is doing what you want them to do. If not, who cares why?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:45 PM
34

It's not the money that is attractive. It's the mindset and the drive in a man that earns him that bankroll which draws women to him.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:42 PM
2

Why do you give a shit?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:41 PM
1

Only one way to find out
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:40 PM
1

You could of been more pushing to set up the date but outside of that you're fine.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:40 PM
2

She is afraid to run into me and constantly looking over her shoulders for me while we work. This is a major sign that she's not interested. If she wanted to be around you more, why would she be making sure that doesn't happen? She's fucking this other guy at your job and is afraid that if you trip on some shit you'll fuck it up.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:36 PM
1

Don't shit where you eat You answered your own question.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:34 PM
2

Men and women being friends is fine. The issue is when one is sexually attracted to the other and they become "friends" to try and slide in on the side. So if you're not sexually interested in this girl, go for it.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:33 PM
4

Either have her come through or stop talking to her
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:31 PM
1

Most likely yes but no one's perfect and you're just inexperienced
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:30 PM
10

Don't get blackout drunk like that again. If you can't control yourself around women intoxicated then you shouldn't be drinking that much. On this thing I wouldn't look into it. You could of fell down some stairs or something. If you did do something however I would cut off full contact.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:28 PM
2

Are you fucking this girl?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:25 PM
3

Who knows. Most of the time if she's "shy" it means she's not interested and it's being misinterpreted as shy. Talk is cheap. She could of just said that to get you out. Or she actually wanted to and changed her mind.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:24 PM
3

Sounds like she didn't really enjoy it. Will they always text after sex if they wanna see you again? Not necessarily but from how abruptly she left seems like she wanted to get away from you.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:22 PM
-4

Not really. Women need more than just the physical vs men who are mostly physical.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:20 PM
10

She didn't reply since it took you a week to get back to her and she didn't feel like talking to you. Wasn't a tactic.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:19 PM
2

She prolly "woke up" and realized this was further than she wanted to go with you. Whenever a girl gets cold feet like RIGHT when shit's about to go do it means she don't like you like that. Honestly tho her reason doesn't matter. If she's pussyfooting around meeting up now, throw her back in the water.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 05:52 PM
2

Only go out with girls you're attracted to. Don't waste each others time like that.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 04:18 PM
0

You're not an ass but you are insecure. The reason you have this question is because you see these people as better then you so you need to try and tear them down by calling them "beta". At the end of the day, they're happy, and you're tripping as to why. Who's living a "better" life in this situation?
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:21 PM
3

Those who need to be awake at night.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:17 PM
1

What's your question?
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:14 PM
1

You're missing the point. Of course there is more to life that what this sub talks about but this isn't the place for those things. It's AskTRP. You come her if you have issues about interpreting something in the sidebar or a mentality question. Not to gossip about other dudes who ain't you.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:13 PM
2

Doesn't matter. The fact that you're still tripping about others. That's not gonna help you grow and why Mods delete posts like this.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:02 PM
3

Coffee or tea. Make sure it's in the evening.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:59 PM
2

Yet you wrong this long story about him. Hmm...
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:57 PM
2

You're reading way too much into what they're saying. Take both instance as she's saying "hi" and set something up.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:57 PM
4

Be honest. "Sorry I'm not interested, but thank you." If they ask for a reason, tell them. If they blow up about it, that's on them.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:56 PM
1

You're right. Shit is too vague. What you need to be is making sure you take care of what you need to and put that above women. What it will do is keep you from wasting time OVERchasing women and, in turn, keep you from chasing them away.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:54 PM
7

You need focus on closing more. Now for the unmatch, they prolly just wanted to chat with you for some attention, got it, and left. Who knows, honestly? Too many reasons to list.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:53 PM
1

Just chill. You're too much into your head about things. Listen, if what you're doing is turning women off, realistically it means they just don't like you. You can't really change you. I'm willing to bet that it's not that you're "extroverted" but you are just so accustomed to oversharing because of the social situations you've had in your life. Lean back and enjoy the moment and you'll do just fine.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:51 PM
2

Let her actually show you she's worth it versus just telling you she will. From my standpoint I'd say no because of the distance.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:45 PM
2

Not your job to trip over. Focus on you. The most "beta" thing is worrying about other guys.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:42 PM
1

You should spend less time worrying about people that aren't you and focus on building yourself into a man with value. And the one thing men with value don't do is trip about other people's relationships.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:21 PM
3

There's no way to "hide" you're paying for a date. That's also not really simping since it's a date and someone has to do it. Dinner and movies are fine but that's something you do with a girlfriend, not a girl you're just fucking or a girl you just met.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:19 PM
8

It's not that you don't care but you care a little and don't get over invested. This doesn't really turn women on, per se, but communicates you're a grown boy that isn't gonna lose it if he get's turned down.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:18 PM
3

It's not them. It was you. They were doing things that showed that they didn't really care for your time but you kept pursuing so they kept being more "narcissistic".
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:15 PM
3

6ix9ine isn't charismatic. He's a fucking troll. You need a pop culture reference for charisma? Check James Bond.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:11 PM
1

Can you honestly say you had great chemistry if you didn't even last a year? You gotta get your emotions out of your ex relationship. And the first step is realizing you were just caught up in the pussy.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:09 PM
6

Next. It's not that she doesn't buy the "I take things slow" bit. She doesn't care. Women who wanna have sex with you aren't dumb enough to say something like this to fuck it up. She likes dating you but isn't that keen on fucking you. So she's cool with making you wait even if it means the sex won't happen at all.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:06 PM
5

Honestly just live where you want. The issue with LA that no one talks about is that it's so spread out. So no matter where you live out here you're gonna be right next to action 1 and a mission from action 2
/r/askTRP20/09/20 04:12 AM
1

Keep doing it. Understand that feel is never going to go away but it's not fear; it's excitement.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:01 AM
1

It's vague but you should be fine. If she was trying to invite others then yea, its a block. Doesn't sound like she is here tho
/r/askTRP20/09/20 01:59 AM
1

You're way too invested into what other people are doing instead of focusing on what you're doing. You don't who that guy is. It could be her husband, her trainer, her one night stand, her friend from work....
/r/askTRP20/09/20 01:57 AM
40

She wasn't interested. Women don't turn on a dime like that. If getting sexual makes a woman not wanna deal with you they don't want to have sex with you. If she wanted to, the last thing she would do is say or do something to keep that from happening.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 01:54 AM
1

Why not reach out to her? You're way too invested into this if this is just a friendship.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:58 PM
2

I did when I first started but then I mulled on it and realized this. I wasn't mad at women for playing me, I was mad at myself for being played. Understand this, the reason you feel this way is because you were playing the game completely backwards and got exploited for it. If you play a game of basketball and keep giving the ball over to the other team every time you have it, how can you get mad if they skunk you 21-0? I can tell you this right now though staying in your place helps no one and…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:53 PM
2

It's broken. Move on. The reason doesn't matter tbh.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:47 PM
3

It means stop asking women what the want and start leading them to what you want.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:44 PM
1

Welcome to the Covid version of "the talk" The "epiphany phase" is just a theory. And most women don't start to think like that until they're in their mid 30s if they ever do.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:43 PM
1

They do but a vast majority of guys aren't really "friends" with women are more like hanging out with them and hoping she throws him some sympathy pussy. I know it because I've done it too many times to count. That's what leads women to act like this around their male friends. It's usually the dudes fault for setting the relationship like that in the first place.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:35 PM
2

That's creepy af. Get off your phone and go talk to women.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:31 PM
4

It's apparent that this chick doesn't wanna be in a relationship. She's a dirtbag and you can't cut out the pussy. So cut out the relationship and keep the pussy. Also this is why you don't lock down girls you've only dated for 2 mos.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:30 PM
1

Cut the cord, bro. The fact she's cool with still dealing with her ex in this capacity knowing you are tripping about it means she doesn't care about your feelings. That's the last girl you wanna be shacking up with. If she's not taking this relationship seriously neither should you.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:21 PM
3

You reward her for rewarding you. For going out of her way. Not just because she sucks your dick good. That's her job. But say she buys you something or cooks ya something without you asking for it. Then you can reward that.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:17 PM
2

On one hand, I don't really feel it's necessary for her to know who I'm talking to. On the other, I don't want her to be so dang insecure all the time. This is the issue. You're holing your happiness to the same level of her happiness and that's why you're on the fence about what to do. Remember at the end of the day your happiness is always of upmost importance. If you make sure you're always happy in the relationship you'll innately lead it better. When you try to take her happiness into accou…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:16 PM
4

The only time one is Beta is doing something solely for the reason of someone else and not yourself. If you want a girlified, that's not Beta in itself but it depends on the reason. Also you can be "redpilled" and "beta" just like you can be "bluepilled" and "alpha".
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:01 PM
2

How many times have you had sex with this girl and how long have you known her?
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:56 PM
8

1st rule of Fight Club
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:55 PM
1

Idk if your father is in your life in any capacity but if he is, I'd go to him for what to do next. Don't quit therapy also once you get in it.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:54 PM
1

You don't talk to plates. You fuck them. And if they're doing something you don't like you stop fucking with them.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:51 PM
2

Say what you want. You need to get into the habit of having something to reply. Coming back to this sub every time you get a text that throws you off ain't gonna work.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:50 PM
16

Get off the internet
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:46 PM
1

Women who are good at small talk but can never really offer anything terribly substantive to my life just absolutely drive me wild, and I have no idea why. This is a "you" problem. Women that only offer the basics of conversation shouldn't be what's setting you crazy. What you should going after more are girls that not only fit into your situation but assist in it.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 06:14 AM
13

It's all stuff. They'd rather have a real dude to follow.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 04:29 AM
15

Who cares? Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 04:28 AM
1

Don't. Get a new girl and restart. How long have you been seeing this broad?
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:55 AM
5

Work on yourself and see if you can. You'll never be them because they are them and you are you. You'll never be the best you trying to copy someone else.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:54 AM
1

You're way too cold. Don't play games with girls. They can see it from a mile away and will either just play them back BETTER or bounce. The key is just to keep you emotions out of it. Emotionally distant. Not completely.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:47 AM
1

You don't. They have a job to do. Let them do it.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:45 AM
1

I personally don't think I should get them a gift So don't
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:44 AM
3

Think of it this way. She shot you down before, what makes you think she's changed her mind on you now? What have you shown her to do that? Nothing? Then her answer hasn't changed.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:41 AM
3

She's not interested. If she wanted to fuck you the last thing she'd wanna do is fuck it up by "getting to know you".
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:39 AM
2

She's not interested. This is dating 101 stuff, bro.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:37 AM
18

Don't believe in what you read, kid. Especially when it comes to those Reality TV shows. Shits all made up. I'd rather make my life great than sit around and watch someone else.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:35 AM
5

Neither confirm nor deny. However you wanna do it.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:32 AM
8

Too many to list. Don't worry about it just keep pushing.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:29 AM
1

Do you wanna fuck your brother? This ain't the sub for this.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:39 PM
2

She's not interested
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:32 PM
2

I talked to you yesterday about the same shit. Get off Reddit and ask them out.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:31 PM
2

Walk up to her and ask her out
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:30 PM
3

Women like attention. Most would rather just spend time with you vs wanting to fuck you. To them it's not a game, they're just going for what they want. So go for what you want and let the cards fall where they do.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:29 PM
1

It's only weird if you make it weird.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:25 PM
4

Find a woman who will have kids with you without being married.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:24 PM
1

No. There's no reason.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:23 PM
31

Don't ask women to do shit for you. Tell them. "Hey babe, send me that file in a chat." But yea calling her out for something this small was not the move. I do not want to be with a woman who acts like this Then dump her.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:23 PM
4

Prolly wasn't anything you did but she just wasn't "there yet". If you can contact her again, I'd try my luck a second time. Or she was just going there to forget about her bf or make him "jealous" or something. Girls will do goofy shit like that.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:20 PM
1

Just read it. Not a fan of indirect game. Way too much work.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:12 PM
2

The best decision is to go after all three. You don't even know if any of these girls even like you. That's the FIRST thing that you look for in girls you date. Make sure they wanna date you, too.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:58 AM
1

You're too needy. You tried to set up something and she said "I'm busy". You don't keep pushing it. You let her get back to you.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:57 AM
1

Is that girl pretty? Do you prefer thicc or skinny girls? Be straight up with those. Do you love me? OVER AND OVER Do you like me again? (After ignoring her a few days) Am I ugly? Am I pretty? Would you marry me? Be straight up with these, tho BUT if she keeps asking them you may have to let her go because this is a big red flag that she has 0 self esteem. Those girls need tons of attention that doesn't help you in the long run. Also, there's nothing wrong with offending women when they ask thes…
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:47 AM
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