What does this mean

daproest1 · 2020-10-25T20:13:20+00:00

Her feelings for u went away. U argued too much (never argue with women). Or she found another dude. It doesn’t matter. Move on. They don’t care about you as much as u think they do. She was over it the moment she left u.

jjj2576 · 2020-10-25T19:47:45+00:00

You lacked value.

You did not enrich her life.

She thinks she can do better.

redhawkes · 2020-10-25T20:08:08+00:00

This is post hoc hamstering, same as 'it's not you, it's me'. She's already sampling other dicks. Where you went wrong is trying to understand her verbal diarrhea instead of paying attention to what she does.

Look up on light switch effect.

Benjamingrimm36 · 2020-10-25T20:54:47+00:00

Whatever the meaning of this you should fucking move on. Don't try to cling to her. Whenever she says "Oh you are better than this." just say "Exactly.". That's their way to broke up. You can't fix that.

Or this can be a manipulation test. In this case she is looking for your reaction. She is trying to look if you are trying to cling to her. Never do that. Really. Never fucking try to fix or change her mind about break up. If you say "Ok. Let's fucking break up." she can change her mind and try to cling to you. And again you wouldn't like someone trying to manipulate you.

In every case just accept the break up and fucking move on. FUCKING MOVE ON!

SSandwichmaker · 2020-10-26T02:16:53+00:00

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FocusMore · 2020-10-25T22:06:42+00:00

Stay stoic, sustine and abstine from contacting her You're now free to find better or do whatever you want

cleanitupcuck · 2020-10-25T22:12:12+00:00

You showed too much:

Availability (responding too fast and with too long of texts compared to hers, agreeing to hangouts whenever she asked)
Complimented and touched her (even just putting your hand around her shoulder) too much

Ultimately - you became too beta in her eyes. If a higher value guy came in her life recently, that's an added reason too.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2020-10-25T23:05:04+00:00

Excuse to justify jumping on some others dude's dick

boardrider73 · 2020-10-26T00:02:30+00:00

We have all been there.. Do not contact her ever again!!! Sorry man but this probably won't be the last time. Get used to it. At least you weren't married w kids.

Schhwing · 2020-10-25T19:55:32+00:00

Either she disqualified herself from you (she was low self esteem and thought she didn’t deserve you).

Or she disqualified you (you weren’t good enough for her).

adscrypt · 2020-10-25T19:55:17+00:00

She's already into someone else most likely and making excuses. Sorry my guy.

GulpAndCry · 2020-10-25T20:13:23+00:00

she may have had a moment of clarity and went with it. relationships can really hold men back. the allure for new pussy can drive young men to extreme self focus.

IXseed · 2020-10-25T19:47:45+00:00

How would we know? We're not your girl.

cunningcaring · 2020-10-26T00:19:34+00:00

She does not like the way your treated her.

Title	What does this mean
Author	SSandwichmaker
Upvotes	6
Comments	30
Date	October 25, 2020 7:42 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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