Does anyone have experience shitting where they ate? If you’re confident in your frame and fairly genuine, why can’t it work?

I’m thinking of attempting a FWB with this girl at work. We’ve hung out already outside of work. I work shift work in a multi location workplace so might see her once or twice a week at work at most.

Screened her for dramatic behaviour and she doesn’t seem to have any. She’s also in a relationship, but she’s admitted to cheating before so she’s communicated that that’s normal for her. She may have low self esteem, unsure about that.

I know this comes off as risky/dumb but she’s kinda hot and has been giving me all the signs. I reckon she’s bored as fuck in her relationship and wants to get wild.

Don’t just say “don’t shit where you eat”. I’m interested in why, and experiences of people who have.