• Me: 40, would rate myself a 7.5
  • Plate A: 37, HB7.5
  • Plate B: 32, HB8

Been seeing Plate A for about a month and I've had 2 dates with Plate B. I was out tonight with Plate B at a small cocktail bar, chilling on a couch, totally in the zone. My game was on point and she was eating it up. All of a sudden I look up and see Plate A walk past with a dude and sit at a table around the corner, out of sight. A couple minutes later she walks past us to the bar to order drinks. My voice is very deep and loud and I know she had to hear me if she hadn't already seen me. She gets her drinks and scurries back quickly around the corner.

I was flustered for a minute and totally thrown off my game. Got very distracted and stopped listening to Plate B. She noticed and I recovered by telling her I was having trouble concentrating because she looked so fucking hot.

At this point I text Plate A with "Well this is awkward". No reply.

We never discussed being exclusive and I figured she was dating other guys, but actually seeing it in person is different. Turns me off.

What really gets me is the guy she was with. He's older, probably late 40s, about a 6, dressed like an accountant, goofy expression, leaning in while she talked, no game that I could see, etc. I'd rather see her with a good looking alpha. Does this say anything about my game? I thought I played everything textbook. Maybe some girls actually prefer the dorky safe nice guy?

And I can't decide if I should next her or shrug it off and keep smashing her...if she ever texts back.