Last night I was talking to this girl at a social event. I had been decently drunk (6 beers or so) so I wasn’t thinking straight. This girl kept laughing at what I was saying so I figured I shoot my shot.

Things were going well, she was next to me for this drinking game. She kept beating me, which caused me to drink even more. At some point I gave her my number and told her to text me ( we made plans to go to a hot tub on campus). After the game I suggested we sit on the couch.

She’s like “I only got 15 minutes”, but proceeded to sit next to me on the couch. We’re talking and everything. Then she said she has to leave. I ask her if she wanted a kiss. She said maybe next time. I asked again like are you sure? She’s like yeah and gets up to leave.

As I’m leaving I see her again and say “ b sure to text me”. She was with her friends and just said okay! After talking to one girl in the group, I find that this girl said she wasn’t into me. Still haven’t got a text either so I figured I lost.

I know there’s all sorts of beta behavior here. I couldn’t kiss her without asking because I was afraid people around us would notice and judge me. Especially since it wasn’t dark and everyone around us was chilling/talking. Plus I didn’t want to make her feel even more uncomfortable.

I always go for a girls number when things are heating up. But I’ve read on here that getting a girls number is useless until you prove yourself. I definitely don’t think I proved myself. I think I’m going to stop asking for numbers like some puppy.