I've read a lot of "red pill" posts on here advising not to share your feelings in a relationship. Which is funny because Robert Glover identifies this as actually being nice guy behavior in his No More Mr. Nice Guy book that's so heavily cited in the manosphere as well. Being able to assert your feelings is a sign of strength, not weakness. What's weak is to pretend that you're fine, when you really arent. This comes off as insecure and caring too much how you're being percieved , rather than having the confidence to be yourself no matter what a girl or anyone else thinks.

Id be willing to bet that a lot of the "red pill" folks that say otherwise ("just keep up the stoic facade for her") maybe haven't had the opportunity to join a mens group IRL to release the toxic shame that keeps them in a controlling attitude towards their relationships with women (and life in general).. Is the red pill poster that advises guys to not share their feelings just ashamed of his own? Pretending to be something that you're not (an unmovable rock) is just as easily seen for the front that it is. It's more than possible to share your feelings in an assertive way w/o being a whiny/complaining beta victim boy.

Does anyone here have any experience or stories to share about this? Especially interested to hear from other guys that are in a mens group IRL. Appreciate y'alls time! Even the "red pill" trolls that are about to call me a cuck and cite a bunch of theory on how to control women's perception of themselves (which ironically tends to work out the opposite way of whats intended).