She’s Going On Spring Break

Narcissist456 · 2018-02-09T21:27:32+00:00

You’re worried about a plate fucking other dudes on spring break? She’s probably already fucking other dudes in your town bro. Get real.

BestSC86 · 2018-02-09T21:45:00+00:00

Look this is simple....

You have to become comfortable with the reality that women you date\fuck are going to be out of your sight and around other men for periods in your life.

So you either trust this chick or you do not. If you do not trust her then she should not be your LTR.

This all basically boils down to do you believe that you are the best that she can do? If you don't then you will be like the dudes who claim that their chick doesn't go out of town or to cafes or bars or trips without them because they are scared shitless that she will find a better option. How long do you think their trying to keep their girl by keeping her locked in the closet works for those insecure clucks? Not long because that insecurity destroys the relationship is loads of other ways.

Question really is....what are you doing for spring break? And is your chick worried at all about who you might be fucking while she is gone? I think we know the answer to both and that is really your bigger issue.

Beast___Mode · 2018-02-09T21:30:58+00:00

I would just don't give a fuck about that mate. For real, you can't do a shit here. If she wants to cheat, she will and you will never know that. Make her worry that you are having great time with someone. In order to do that go and have fun during her vacation time. Also, don't demand a Skype calls or responses to your text messages, she might will test you on that and you shouldn't show her neediness.

fnordsnord · 2018-02-09T21:33:25+00:00

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FrequentConversation · 2018-02-09T21:31:56+00:00

Who cares, shes not your LTR like you said. And if she sends pic dont ignore that'll come off as resentful or insecure that shes having fun and your not.

Your overthinking this, its spring break, shell for sure do somthing you dont like and who cares. Shes not your GF. Shes a plate, stop being bitter about it.

Males shouldn't be jealous that's a female trait. - Jay-Z

ktheguy · 2018-02-09T21:36:20+00:00

Why do you care so much? Sounds like the seeds of oneitis/ over investment. Go cultivate other options.

SeamusAwl · 2018-02-09T21:35:54+00:00

How do you handle this one?

Who cares!!! Oh wait you do.

but if I found out she was sucking random dick

Who cares!!!

My strategy is calculated distance, and fucking her into submission before she leaves.

Sounds like a winning strategy to me/s

I fully expect texts and pics of her and friends having the time of their lives seeking attention which I would ignore.

Not if Chad is there, then you will be by your phone and checking it every other minute for a text or pic. follow that up with checking her social media accounts dreading a pic of Chad.

Basically inflate my perceived SMV

You have a perceived SMV? I mean we all could tell you were faking it, and this is some way of admitting it.

Thoughts?

Yeah. Who cares what she does. She isn't your LTR, and if she was, then she shouldn't be when she got back.

RAiderNat88 · 2018-02-09T22:16:12+00:00

You need plates

Hopecel · 2018-02-09T23:54:04+00:00

Nice oneitis, brah. The best thing to do is to ghost her regardless because of the way you wrote about the situation.

PurpleDrank88 · 2018-02-10T00:45:54+00:00

Tough spot because it was planned. At this point, since you don’t have plans, I’d fast forward the relationship with some pressure. If you have higher SMV, just tell her that you and your bro’s are going to the same place. Great location, budget, party scene, etc. Why not? Stay happy and confident in your delivery. Don’t apologize. It’s a power play. This will force an ultimatum on her, and her response over the next week will communicate everything you need to know.

Whether or not you decide to go can wait until the last minute. Personally, I next active hypergamy chicks, so if she distanced after the fact all the better.

juliusstreicher · 2018-02-10T01:04:30+00:00

She's going on SB to get more dicks. She will not text you as much as you expect. Or, if she does, Chad will be laughing along with her as she does it. She may even do it with her penis in her mouth, because she's never done it before, and it will make Chad laugh.

Fuck her hard and vengefully, but, it won't matter to her. That will just make her demand the rough stuff from Chad!

Start your hunt for her replacement.

PurpleDrank88 · 2018-02-10T01:58:44+00:00

This situation is somewhat similar to another thread I remember from a little under a year ago. I went and found it in the search, see the link below. A lot of solid commentary there.

https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/68tpsn/ltr_going_on_friends_vacation_to_europe/?st=JDGPM3JK&sh=db380e56

brinkleybuzz · 2018-02-10T04:21:33+00:00

What's the big deal? If a plate goes away for spring break, that means you have more time to spend with your other ones or even recruit new ones.

RedHoodhandles · 2018-02-10T18:09:01+00:00

Thoughts?

You knew from the start that she is going to Spring Break and you idiot still made an LTR out of her. Demote her to plate if you can pull if of or hard next. Women are master liars. She could be getting fucked by countless dicks and icecold swear to you that nothing happened. Unless you're some kind of FBI interrogator you would never know the truth.

and fucking her into submission before she leaves.

This won't help a thing. Trust me. Been there.

Title	She’s Going On Spring Break
Author	Kratos74
Upvotes	9
Comments	29
Date	February 9, 2018 9:24 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7wgqxd/shes_going_on_spring_break/
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