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[–]longschlong127 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
One of the things that dries a pussy up is clinginess. Sure you fucked her, but don't be suprised if she's fucking other guys, maybe she had a bad week or some shit.
She ignored you and then you tried to set up a date again? Calm that dick down.
Don't meet up with her, ignore her messages for like a month and go plate other girls. Asking her 'What is up' is actually a weak move that screams " i don't have options". People with options don't care if the girl stops replying them.
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[–]longschlong125 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Great on keeping the text to a bare minimum. The thing is after she ignored you, you tried to set up another date. This is a woman's way of saying i don't want to meet you, yet you still wanted to reschedule.Remember women are always on their fucking phones.
Also don't go out of your way to meet her tomorrow.
Personal opinion, if a woman ever tries to pull this shit on me i would just simply ignore her and make sure she is the first one to reinitiate conversation. Works like fucking magic everytime, they just hamster themselves into wanting to meet up with you
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[–]babybopp2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude you are saying that you are not clingy but you remember all the exact times of everything that happened. You are clingy as fuck and in denial about it.
[–]Ishazak0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Longschlong12:
In a similar position, potential plate
i soft nexted after she said lets take it slow/ljbf. She initiates contact with a useless message that basically says shes on nights/away with family.
i tell her to meet me for breakfast after her shift and she counters with "waffle waffle waffle, im away for the week, waffle waffle, another time?"
how to proceed? respond to her message and acknowledge shes away and set something up for when shes back or just initiate contact when shes back next week?
Is her "another time" blowing me off or what?
[–]Smigg_e0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Longschlong12 is the legit answer you're looking for. We can tell just by your explanation of the situation.
[–]redditatt5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Asking her what's up is not being direct, it's being clingy. The fact you're blowing her up all weekend tells her you have no social life. Dry pussy.
Also, you say she explained how she wasn't ignoring you; this tells me you sent her some needy-sounding text asking why she was ignoring you. Dry pussy.
Withdraw your attention. Beware of Oneitis. Abundance Mentality.
[–]redditatt-1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You had plans, but she didn't know that. It's about her perception. Some sidebar advice that has worked for me; Friday and Saturday nights are generally reserved for fresh approaches and game. If a plate/prospect wants to hang, tell her you're going out with friends and she can join later. This also helps to establish social proof.
[–]RollingRP2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You made an offer, now it's up to her to counter. If she was working or having a bad week or, shit, maybe a legit headache and PMS but is still interested in you she'll bounce back and reach out and reschedule.
Instead of making offer after offer, if she seems busy throw out an "I know how that goes, so when you free up let me know and hopefully out schedules match up." Leave it at that.
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[–]dendsm111 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's doesn't matter. Let her get back to you or soft next.
[–]RollingRP0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She probably didn't intend it as a shit test, but you turned it into one that you're currently failing.
[–]bainbridge_island1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She isn't interested. Move on.
[–]2cingle0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Reads like she wants you orbiting around her, in case she gets hard up. Friday and Saturday are over; her not texting you before taking a nap means you're not a high priority; not replying to the date setup request is the answer to your request- it's a no.
If it were me, I wouldn't go out of my way to see her tomorrow. If you do bump into her, be cordial, but I wouldn't try to set anything up. Trust your gut. If she's into you, she'll start waving big flags, because you're making such a lousy string puppet (which is good).
If she's gotta reply to you telling you that she wasn't ignoring you you're acting hella clingy towards her. Stop that. Let her come to you at that point. You're scaring her away. You probably already did.
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