28M here, first off I take good care of myself. I am 6'4, in good shape- I workout 4-6 times a week, take care of my skin/teeth, and have a good career that I actually enjoy (project manager.) I broke up with ltr about 1 year ago, kind of regret it because she was a good girl and normal, but whatever it's done now so it is what it is. I'm a bit concerned with finding a quality girl now who's not some weirdo. I've been with probably 12 girls or so in 2020 so far, from age 19-28 (mostly on the younger end of that) but none who I've truly wanted to LTR ( I have pretty high standards.) As you guys prob know, there's a lot of damaged chicks out there and it's tough to find quality ones.

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For older guys, how is it finding 21-24 year old girls as you hit 30 and beyond? I went on a date w/ some 28 year old chick the other night and honestly it was depressing as fuck. She had a great career and was really nice but there was just something off about her, like you could tell she was totally jaded. I want to find a younger girl who doesn't have the desperation, is that tough as you hit 30? I guess I'm concerned girls that would date older guys like that have something wrong w/ them. Like I said, I do love my career and generally have a pretty cool life, but I really enjoy being in an LTR, but my standards are high so I'm not the type of dude to just jump into something to avoid being single. I can bang girls at a decent clip but I'm looking to settle into something long term so I can focus more of my work.

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Sorry for the rant, just curious what you older guys think