Should I help weak men?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-01-23T06:53:56+00:00

More often then not, they will turn on you first chance they get.

Google "The Frog and the Scorpion".

maxrp · 2018-01-23T04:45:17+00:00

Law 10 - Avoid the unhappy & unlucky.

LiteraIIyJesus · 2018-01-23T21:58:21+00:00

Pragmatically, one would distance themselves from the losers and the unlucky. But not everybody is a perfect psychopath - men are capable of loyalty and altruism.

The decision is ultmately yours - will you behave martially, or empathically?

If you see the situation as a dark triad would, then you need to weigh your options. Are these "allies" (notice: not friends) worth having? Or would you be better off without them?

If you use friend in the true sense of the world, then you will probably help them as they would you.

couppower · 2018-01-23T05:47:25+00:00

Plain and simple no. They’re fully capable of helping themselves. If they won’t do it why would you?

TruthSeekaaaaa · 2018-01-23T08:37:48+00:00

I'm helping a friend out with his LDR, as I continue to try to unplug him, nobody seems to work. Ultimately, it is a very own choice, so if they aren't interested in having a better life, you can't do nothing about it. It's a bummer though, but we have limited amount of time and we cannot squander it helping guys that don't want any help. Probably the best thing we can do is try to help people out and see whether they are interested, if they aren't, just fold the hand and move on

Crespius66 · 2018-01-23T13:30:58+00:00

No. Most men will turn their backs on ya once a little red pill flows in their system. Most will turn to "me vs you". More often than not you'll feel disappointed for "helping" the fellow men.

Every man is an island.

SmamelessMe · 2018-01-23T14:28:49+00:00

It depends on how far are you willing to go for them.

My rule of thumb is I will not do anything that would endanger my life. Period. Associating myself with "the evil alt-right woman-hating TRP" could significantly impact my life, so I won't do that for anyone. Not even my own brother. I have no idea how they would react, and their overreaction or violent opposition could potentially endanger me.

That being said, I do try to live my life truthfully. That means I try to mention or link TRP themed articles and research on non-TRP media in friendly discussions. Usually trying to convey it as a joke. The famous factoid top 20% men fuck top 80% women is easily passed off as a joke, and tends to make a few wheels spinning in listeners head.

In particular, I like to link anything that mentions TRP, but is not TRP blog or similar website. Even better if it can be tailored for the people I'm talking to. For example, with "philosophers", and sadly stoners, I've had some luck linking to the speech where Jordan Peterson started crying when mentioning men asking about responsibility. You get the idea.

In essence, I'm trying to showing them the door. They have to enter themselves.

For a select few men, that I believed would be smart enough to listen, I went as far as dropping some TRP truths directly. Especially about marriage and divorce rape. Usually masked as friendly discussion about law. Putting all of the relevant statistics and information out there, and jokingly suggesting a guy has to protect himself with prenup these days, got the message across in all but one case. I have seen a significant shift in their demeanor over next several days, as I expect they explored the TRP / MGTOW / MRA community.

That being said, I have never discussed TRP directly with anyone, even after that. And I'm actually glad about that.

I do have hard time finding anything TRP social-skills related that is not posted on a TRP site. I am yet to find anything I could use, to guide the "less socially savvy" out of the Matrix. If you know of anything that presents itself as general social skills course, but turns PUA / TRP basics, it would be very helpful.

Rollo_Mayhem3 · 2018-01-23T15:27:27+00:00

depends on what kind of help they need. Is it just a conversation type advice giving help about a particularly situation or are they in a tough spot financially/socially...do they have a very specific problem or is it in your estimation they are just BP and you see what is happening in their relationships??

Kommanderdude · 2018-01-23T14:26:08+00:00

FiveStarTendieDinner · 2018-01-23T03:13:24+00:00

Absolutely not. Weak men need to stay weak. Anyone who considers themselves a real man must take advantage of those who are inferior. Real men only help themselves.

NJA4242 · 2018-01-23T05:27:50+00:00

Yes help. But keep in mind that the person can only help themselves by taking the actions needed for themselves.

This means you job is to lead them in the right direction, present them with the correct info and set a good example. Most of the time it wont work though

mrbfs · 2018-01-23T05:11:52+00:00

Absolutely help - What do you think this forum is for other than helping others?

Title	Should I help weak men?
Author	MTNDank
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Date	January 23, 2018 2:47 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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