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Should I sent this text?

AmbiguousLikeness

December 7, 2020
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Title Should I sent this text?
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AmbiguousLikeness

Upvotes 0
Comments 27
Date December 7, 2020 12:35 AM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/k85trg/should_i_sent_this_text/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/should-i-sent-this-text.328407
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[–]bminusmusic12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah speaking from experience, the whole “let me know what day/times you’re free” doesn’t work. It sets up the perfect avenue for her to flake/eventually ghost.

Tell her what day/time you want to meet and where. Maybe give her two options for days just to avoid the chances of her being busy. If she continues to be wishy-washy or flakes on you, then she’s just trying to casually keep you in orbit and she’s not fucking worth it. Don’t waste your time.

[–]Capital_Recognition5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

No. You set the schedule.

“I am available X at Y. Let’s meet at Z.”

Or, “I am available on X at Y. Come over then.”

[+]AmbiguousLikeness-16 points-15 points-14 points 5 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

She’s long distance this is for a FaceTime date

[–]PCM9721 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Bruh

[+]AmbiguousLikeness-10 points-9 points-8 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Dog what do you want me to do

[–]Project_Zero_Betas11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Read the sidebar for starters

[–]Project_Zero_Betas10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Oh no......

[+]AmbiguousLikeness-6 points-5 points-4 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Can you just answer the question lol

[–]Project_Zero_Betas7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Why are you engaging in FT "dates" anyway? It's just another tool for her to get you orbiting.

[–]AmbiguousLikeness-2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

That’s not true you gotta still reel her in to get her to come here irl

[–]Project_Zero_Betas6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

How far away is "here?"

[–]AmbiguousLikeness-3 points-2 points-1 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Chicago and Florida

[–]Project_Zero_Betas9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Lmao read the sidebar we dont entertain thousand-long mile relationships here

[–]AmbiguousLikeness-2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I’ve done it before and had the girl come visit me (different girl)

[–]Project_Zero_Betas1 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Its facetime can do it whenever just be assertive and give her a time.

[–]AmbiguousLikeness1 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

“I have some friends visiting me next weekend. I have some time tonight, work for you?”

[–]Project_Zero_Betas1 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Just go with the second sentence and dont ask.

[–]Capital_Recognition4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Oh don’t bother then. Spend that time working on yourself. Have some self control, and know this virus will eventually be over.

[–]AmbiguousLikeness-1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean look, with this given situation can you help me out. She’s an option but I don’t wanna not pursue it

[–]AmbiguousLikeness-3 points-2 points-1 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m gonna be honest I have girls simpin over me I worked on myself but this chick is maaddd hottt

[–]Musicgoon6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Dude you don't run long distance game on a chick that far away. Get more options and have respect for yourself. The chances of this going anywhere are Zero. You're wasting your time.

Visit the sidebar and talk to local women. This chick isn't interested.

[–]AmbiguousLikeness-1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I’ve done this before

[–]Musicgoon2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you've done it before that is what it is. Being used to doing meth is something people do. Doesn't make it a good idea. This is a terrible idea. Read the sidebar. An LDR isn't a real relationship.

[–]cydestiny1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A woman misbehave when man give her the chance to, keep her in check.

It's either she take your invitation or she set things up else just forget about it. Respect your time.

[–]thesatellite230 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like alot of indecisiveness from both of you. After she declined your invitation to hang that night, you should've said "Okay, let's aim for X day."

This date may be salvageable still, but don't be surprised if she ghosts you.

[–]AmbiguousLikeness0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

For context this chick dmed on Instagram and threw a pickup line at me. I asked her for her number and Snapchat and we were planning on facetiming

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