I know the question is ridiculous. It seems to me though like a microcosm of two distinct redpill methodologies. Do you go in hungry and aggressive, in conquest mode? Or does this fuel desperate vibes and the sense she can control you? Do you go in more cool and collected, knowing that you have other options that are easily attainable? But maybe this will make her feel like you aren't into her. Or is it just balance between these things?