SMV Hers < Yours

abdada · 2015-09-30T17:51:19+00:00

Because you can't truly know your own SMV. If a bunch of 6s are rejecting you, you may be a 5.5. Or maybe you're an 8 and they don't trust your intentions.

NumbersOnTheBoard · 2015-09-30T18:01:28+00:00

Could honestly be anything. I think it's important to remember that they are people with their own lives. I think we tend to paint most women in a negative light and ourself in a much more positive one. There can be literally any reason she rejects you.

Not feeling well, just broke up with someone, just moved, has no money, house burnt down, parents are in town, and, more likely than not, she just wasn't interested in you. Or, perhaps, you value yourself higher than you think.

Again, could be anything.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2015-09-30T18:07:39+00:00

In the situation you posit, if the disparity is too great, she is likely to reject you b/c women are more likely to know their SMV, i.e. what level of SMV man their beauty will hold. Men are more likely to swing for the fences.

And before anyone says, "Oh, but how does that explain Miss Hottie who is with Yoda", it doesn't. It is a general trend to which there may be exceptions.

FrameWalker · 2015-09-30T18:43:32+00:00

Its more complex than Smv. It's how they feel at that time, in that moment with you. It's how much cock is already on the roster do they feel bloated that day etcetc. Lots of nonsense between you and getting laid with any particular woman.

NiftyDolphin · 2015-09-30T19:45:19+00:00

The Male to Female ratio is such that they think/know they can do better than you.
They're already part of a harem and don't want to risk their access to the alpha.
Their herd doesn't like you and you approached publicly. You don't have enough value for her to risk their wrath.
Their herd is stroking their ego /sabotaging them. She can't do better, but she doesn't know this and none of the herd sees any advantage in setting her straight.
You remind her of Barry. Yes, THE Barry. The one who fucked her EX bff Cheryl while she was away on winter break and ended up giving her the Clap.
She's having a bad day and you showed up at just the wrong time.
She's heard that if she keeps her partner count to less than 40 that she's "totes allowed" to reset her number to 3 when she meets Dr. Mr Right. So she's saving those last two slots for Channing Tatum and maybe her boss.
Errmmerrgrrrrd, you talk just like Barry too!
She only hooks up with Indian or Asian guys. You look like marriage material. She'll save you for "later."

The_Lazy_Chef · 2015-09-30T20:04:09+00:00

Because SMV from woman to man is a perception. SMV is about how women perceive you, your actual SMV is kinda worthless. You can have an SMV of like 5 and pull a 9 or 10. Flava-flav would be a pretty good example of this. If he wasn't perceived to be cool or pre-selected he wouldn't be half as lucky with women as he is. SMV from man to a woman is about how hot she is.

afroose · 2015-09-30T21:32:15+00:00

It's a market if there is too much seller of the same item (men) the price is reduced and if an item is wanted a lot and hard to get (women) , people will fight for it and offer a bigger price to get it (time, validation).

So yes , a female 8 has more value than a male 8.

With dread and abundance you can get more than what you deserve, it's used by luxury brand, you just see the store and you think " they don't need me to buy if I don't someone else will " .

sparta2123 · 2015-09-30T23:06:08+00:00

You're placing a value on how other females percieve you. This is almost malarky unless you approach 10 or more women a day to truly determine your smv. How do you know that hottie you approached didn't have a huge cock in her last night and on any other day you met her you would be a 8 , but today because she's still swollen your a 4.

You're smv changes in different situations. For instance you may drive the best car and have the best job in your hometown or rural area , but you travel to a large city and every guy has the same or better than you. If a girl is completely needs a dick that night and your a 1.5 and the only guy there , well you're getting lucky.

Unless you are approaching every day and getting rejected everytime, work on yourself , improve and keep grinding. I'm not saying SMV doesn't exist because it does, it's really damn hard to tell most of the time.

gamefuck · 2015-09-30T23:35:23+00:00

She has an inflated SMV. It's her loss though.

Title	SMV Hers < Yours
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Date	September 30, 2015 5:49 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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