Soft next, she’s not reaching out

QuantumSpecter · 2019-12-04T02:47:15+00:00

It's not a soft next if you haven't tapped another bitch.

318RedPill · 2019-12-04T03:36:30+00:00

The thing about giving a girl a next, is that sometimes they take it. It sounds like you nexted her and she went ahead and moved on.

Don't do anything unless she texts you. Although there's no guarantee that's going to happen.

kclanton80 · 2019-12-04T02:51:04+00:00

Option one......wait until she texts you. These situations are a contest to see who can hold the tension longer. If you contact her even to end things you lose. it shows that you've been sitting around angry all this time worried about what happened.

The person who contacts first is the loser. she may come back in a more docile Manor if you show her that you are not afraid to lose her, by not getting in touch with her.

Don't be so quick to end things.... This is good practice for you. Play the game and manipulate her.

DrMaryStone · 2019-12-04T03:52:00+00:00

She sounds pushy and probably doesn’t want to be exclusive with anyone who is not docile towards her. If you are not a cuck then there is no winning here. Dread and manipulation will not work.

I had a girl like this one time. She would stonewall and so would I. I eventually realized that she did not value me enough and or only wanted men who obeyed. I eventually just walked away and never heard from her again.

The good thing about women is that there are plenty so if I were you I would just cease contact with her. Do you really want a long term with a woman who would argue over something so petty. Do you think if she considered you high value that she would let the opportunity of having you slip through her fingers? I think not to both of those questions.

Find someone who will level with you out of fear of losing you just as you were considering doing with this woman.

ApdoSenpai · 2019-12-04T02:52:46+00:00

It’s done. Go with option 1 if you want to have leverage when she comes back, or not. GFTOW

NEPat10 · 2019-12-04T04:00:17+00:00

The 48 Laws of Power...probably my favorite one on the list is Law 16:

"Use absence to to increase strength and honor"

Go with option 1 but begin pursuing others

Snowboard18 · 2019-12-04T03:01:46+00:00

What did she do ?

Whitefarmer · 2019-12-04T03:17:57+00:00

I think 3. You might get your answer right away

abomba24 · 2019-12-04T04:05:40+00:00

All I know is I would not be exclusive with someone that plays these games

IXseed · 2019-12-04T16:25:18+00:00

1 wait until she texts me

That part.

Remember pulling back isn't a "technique" to get her back or get the interest back. It's so you don't waste your time in general over a bitch that can't get right. Game other girls.

Also, if on the off-chance she do come back and she gets mad you've been fucking other women, that's her fault for not being in line, not yours.

QuantumSpecter · 2019-12-04T03:02:12+00:00

I think this has to do with the dread game, look that shit up in the sidebar or pasts posts

HurricaneHugues · 2019-12-04T18:29:42+00:00

Only been exclusive for a month and you're already soft nexting? Lol what kind of vetting did you do? Move on.

Title	Soft next, she’s not reaching out
Author	kkji9920
Upvotes	4
Comments	73
Date	December 4, 2019 2:40 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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