First off: thank you guys, got a lot of help from you.

If you have read my previous posts you know I'm getting started with all this and was told to talk to other girls to genuinely stop giving a fuck about the girl in post #2.

So I went to a bar with a friend (who brought some girl friends of his) and sure enough I picked one I thought was hot and got her number, set up a date before actually getting it yada yada.

Now what lead to this was not our night at the bar but more so the walk to our car. It was kinda cold so I put my arm around her and she said that if it weren't so cold she'd push me away now. I simply ignored this, pulled her the slightest bit closer and we talked a bit. The topic changed to dating and such so I asked what she thought was a good first date, thereby telling her that mine is just grabbing a coffee and going from there. She was with me here so I suggested a date and made her give me her number.

Now what came next I didn't confidently know how to handle. At first she refused to give me her number, telling me that I was an arrogant asshole and how guys always think that girls are just waiting for them to give em their numbers. I called bullshit and accused her of having at least five guys that she could call right now who'd go out with her and would pay for everything. And that if she were to go out with me she'd better buy her own shit and something for me to drink as well. (This was sorta playful)

We got in the car and she entered her number, then said something along the lines of: "but I will not go out with you for at least 3 weeks. If you wanna get to know me do it via text". (It was still playful)

I told her I'll not sit at home texting her a damn thing. I want to get to know her by meeting up, that's what meeting up with a friend is for.

Now, I will have to run some more text game on her but my real question is: were those shit tests? Did I handle them OK?

And post #2 girl agreed on a date as well