Strippers

reallyunemployment · 2020-12-29T07:27:28+00:00

Everyone here is correct - dating a stripper most likely involves huge manipulation on her end. I pulled a stripper and it ended up being a nightmare of a 6 month relationship besides the insane sex. They love bomb the fuck out of you in the beginning and put on a charade, and like someone else said it seems like a fairy tell relationship. They can only keep this act up for so long before the truth comes out that they are manipulative, gas lighters, and very damaged individuals often involving a substance abuse problem.

If you want to pull one for sex - you most likely have to establish rapport with her at the club, and then eventually ask her if she does "outside the club" activities. Do not get attached.

daproest1 · 2020-12-28T07:41:22+00:00

They’re all nuts. I’ve friendzoned a few.

clickherebaby · 2020-12-28T16:51:36+00:00

I dated one for 2 years. She was 8 years older than me. 20, 28. I didnt even know she was one; we met during a show we both did at a jr college.

The sex is something i still think about years later, having been with other women. Our chemistry was awesome. But eventually the truth about her nature came out and that clashed with what I believed she was. I thought the fairy tale bullshit, she was actually a manipulative slut. Had good traits. but so many red flags. But i really loved her and chose to ignore them.

I had severe panic attacks, i stressed all the time, i started questioning her about more and more, finding inconsistencies, eventually pressing her to tell me what shes hiding. She told me she was a "dancer."

It's probably the most impactful relationship of my life. Would not reccomend.

abbi_kadabi · 2020-12-29T18:08:32+00:00

Currently seeing a stripper for 6 months now, one of the best sexual experiences I’ve ever had. I know only a handful of girls that can ride and they are the best I’ll tell you that. They are super emotional and high on the red flag scale tho. And you have to be completely okay with them dancing on other dudes. One things for sure. You don’t attract them with money. Otherwise you will be just like the rest.

You have to come across as pretty chill and always out for fun. If you come across anything different, possessive, or try to control them they’ll next you fast. They receive a lot more validation than the average girl. So giving them compliments is something you have to reserve.

They are also all on drugs, alcoholics, daddy issues etc. just make sure you don’t get involved in any of that and ur guuci. They will try and brake you’re frame and will use any excuse to party and not hold accountability for it. Pretty much the average girl. Except on hyperdrive cuz their always at the club and they always have males hitting on them

second-last-mohican · 2020-12-28T11:21:23+00:00

Yeah.. but only ons.. never more as they are all fucked up in some way or cut themselves etc

Best to avoid unless you want to be a pimp?

Top-Particular1789 · 2020-12-28T23:21:03+00:00

I almost fucked a stripper once and I also dated an ex-stripper for 8 months.

LeatherBoundWisdom · 2020-12-29T03:19:49+00:00

Confessions of a reformed incel pulled a Czech stripper when he went dark triad out of despair. A great sidebar read if you're looking for stories.

throw-away-1709 · 2020-12-28T09:20:37+00:00

For paid sex?

Most do.

BlondeHornyElf · 2020-12-28T16:38:20+00:00

buddy of mine fell for a stripper... she gave him threesomes and anal... she basically got him to spend all his money on her and while he was hooked she was searching for other guys. now she's late 30s and married to some chubby Asian computer science beta with a nice condo.

Title	Strippers
Author	pudgemister
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	December 28, 2020 7:24 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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