Sudden massive loss in confidence

bigtuna45 · 2018-01-10T07:59:27+00:00

Confidence comes and goes. You need to maintain FRAME despite how you feel. By doing this, you build confidence again. By freaking out that you don't have it, you lose more of it. Resign your self to feeling insecure and be confident in that feeling.

You may also be setting expectations for yourself, which could cause anxiety.

johnnight · 2018-01-10T09:09:19+00:00

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bipolar_disorder

Edit: I'm giving the link only because you wrote "I'm depressed, constantly in my mind and pretty much the polar opposite of what I was before."

MattyAnon · 2018-01-10T12:37:42+00:00

You sound bipolar, but could also be related to hormones or other things in your life.

BusterVadge · 2018-01-10T14:09:23+00:00

Dude, that is just balance finding it's way back into your life. For every high, there's a low, and for every low there is a high. Things go in cycles. Without getting all foo foo and shit, this is how life works.

The strong ones are the ones who suck it up and keep pushing. The ones who get back up after being knocked down and even when it feels like the burden of life is crushing them, they still struggle forward and improve themselves.

Be strong during your lows, and I promise you that your high points will continue to be better than ever.

That is all.

mcr00sterdota · 2018-01-10T14:24:45+00:00

Do you watch porn? Masturbate a lot? I've noticed I lose confidence after I PMO, stop it if you are.

ticklethegooch1 · 2018-01-10T14:57:23+00:00

I am not a doctor so I can't make a diagnosis like you are are Bipolar or something.

I read here once that even though we become RP through chances our core remains BP and creeps back from time to time. The solution to this problem was something like this: Don't stress to much about it. It will happen in the future again. Be aware of it and next day you try to go back on track. This also will happen with Plates/LTR were you slip back in BP-Mode. Don't freak out, try to be RP next day again and make the change within you that women love so much.

In the end, they forgot that you sporadically became BP and see you what you are a sensitive RP man. A human being always has more facets. Embrace it.

Edit: a word

FriendlyAdvisor-v2 · 2018-01-11T02:05:50+00:00

I would get your Testosterone levels checked as it’s really possible that it’s fluctuating as testosterone tends to do that on a daily scale.

https://www.myhormonology.com/male-hormone-cycle/

Title	Sudden massive loss in confidence
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Date	January 10, 2018 7:37 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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