I've been reading the sidebar, read no more Mr. Nice guy, currently reading the rational male and trying to increase my smv by doing 5×5 Strong Lifts with accessory arm workouts, bought a new wardrobe, got a haircut and new glasses, and I don't feel confident, strong or alpha. It's been about a month and a half, I've gone out a couple times with friends and have been rejected and got 1 number but didn't act on it. I can see girls just aren't that interested in talking to me and when I do approach I find it hard to bring up topics that are fun beyond the intro.

I feel like my smv is still low, my confidence is low and my ability to even acquire a plate is non existent.

I have 6 months to become the best version of myself before I move away for work. Ilive in a busy city and think I could take advantage of it.

What do you guys suggest I do? Should I start going out all the time trying to improve my social skills with women? Should I still focus on my smv and keep lifting? I'm thinking about picking up mma when I get back from a camping trip next week to improve confidence.

I'm just feeling down about it and could use some honest suggestions or motivation.