Thoughts on cheating.

abdada · 2017-03-07T13:13:43+00:00

TRP is amoral.

You do what you want to do, you disclose what you want to disclose, don't be surprised if she goes dramatic if she finds out.

Always easier to be up front about things when a woman is still a plate.

If she's a great gal overall, it's better to just break up with her. I like to leave LTRs better off than I found them, personally.

ItsOvaNova · 2017-03-07T16:04:30+00:00

With all the vitriol around here I wouldn't be surprised if people endorse this, but it's a shitty thing to do imo.

Cheating in an LTR is breaking your word and deceiving your partner. It's a lack of respect and empathy. Respect should not easily be earned, but it should shown to people who deserve and give you no reason to do otherwise. That's not white knighting, it's just human decency. We always condemn women who cheat; shouldn't we hold ourselves to the same standard?

You wanna "hit all that young tinder puss" go ahead, you have no obligation to follow anything but your own interests. Why not break off your LTR before you do?

Just my 2 cents

Willow-girl · 2017-03-07T16:24:23+00:00

Yup, that will work as long as you really don't care whether she stays or goes. OTOH if you're that indifferent, why not break it off and save yourself the inconvenience of trying to hide your extracurricular activities?

1Pink1Stink · 2017-03-07T13:27:53+00:00

You wanna play with fire so be ready for the burn.

RedSkeller · 2017-03-07T13:47:58+00:00

As long as you're sure it's not 'grass is greener syndrome'. I personally don't see the point of LTRs if you're not going to be committed, because otherwise just plate, that being said - why not just do it until you get caught. She might have issue with it, see if she's into a purely sexual threesome.

silver-gun · 2017-03-07T20:23:48+00:00

Grow some balls and tell her about it. Polygamy is alright, but cheating is for pussies, IMHO.

max_peenor · 2017-03-07T18:27:22+00:00

Cheating requires breaking a contract or rules. So just don't have those rules and don't lie about it. There, sorted.

Terdmuffin · 2017-03-07T16:23:20+00:00

TRP is amoral meaning it has no morals. Nothing is ethical or unethical... It just is. It's up to you to fit the principles taught here into your own set of morals. A lot here don't see anything wrong with cheating and s lot this it'd wrong because you're going against your word.

kutie-pie · 2017-03-07T18:46:50+00:00

ask about having an open relationship /s as others have said, its up to your discretion whether you want to risk your relationship with her since its an LTR

Kalidane · 2017-03-08T03:03:19+00:00

How about doing it and not letting her find out. She will suspect but there will never be evidence to prove. Kinda rude to rub it in her face.

Thizzlebot · 2017-03-07T23:02:57+00:00

You can do what you want but you are a pussy if you are trying to be something you are not to the girl. You should just be straight up with her and keep her as a plate or not. You are stringing her along because you are scared to fail and you want to have a backup.

harkrank · 2017-03-07T16:44:12+00:00

Cheating is never wrong for a man. In fact the concept of a man "cheating" is very new and part of blue pill brain washing. Just don't rub it in her face, in other words stay discrete.

Title	Thoughts on cheating.
Author	HookersAndBlow4ME
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Date	March 7, 2017 1:05 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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