Tinder tips

cashobar · 2018-08-09T18:35:24+00:00

There's a Tinder enigma that you need to be aware of if someone hasn't mentioned it yet, which is part of your plan to only swipe on more attractive women. Initially when I got Tinder first I swiped on a majority of girls, now it's more or less 1/20. If you swipe too many ugly girls Tinder thinks you have lower standards thus you appear higher up in the card stack for ugly girls and less for attractive ones.

Plus, I have a theory that since the introduction of "Tinder picks" (not sure if it's a Tinder Gold feature, I have Gold at least) the regular girls that appear in the card stack have gotten uglier in order to get people to buy more "Tinder picks", which are more attractive.

As for Tinder tips - even if you are attractive, I recommend Tinder Gold. My profile is pretty shit and I was doing fine previously, but now I've literally never had trouble finding a girl to bring over home or whatever that isn't at least 6/10. Not gonna lie though, that doesn't make me a fucking Chad, many of the girls even if attractive feel sort of stiff and awkward so it sort of makes sense why they're so easy to bring over if they don't have much of a social life otherwise.

I'd also recommend swiping on decently looking girls who may have hot friends. You can tell from how much amount of time they've spent on taking good pictures, their Instagram (if it looks like they've put effort into it, it usually means they have hot friends they're competing with, and you can tell from her followers), their clothing style (there's clothes that attractive girls usually wear. If a less attractive girl is wearing these, it probably means she's associating with hotter girls), and their work or school they go to. The more high status/upper class school or workplace = odds of hotter friends. Easy. Logical, right?

The absolute dirtiest trick in the book I usually do is either spicing up my evening plans or straight up lying. I'll usually ask what the plans for tonight are, wait for answer, then respond something along the lines of "Chill, I've booked a table at club X, but I'll be hosting an afterparty afterwards. Drop by if you want :)", doesn't really matter how you phrase it, response rates are much higher and usually what happens is that they say they won't show up at the club but will come to the party afterwards. They become attracted to you because you have a wallet fat enough to casually go out to get a table at the most expensive club in the town, and probably think you do it so often that you can actually invite random Tinder girls there instead of doing it as a part of an event. Even if they show up at the club I'll just say "Haha yeah I cancelled it, went to another club instead" or that you went to an invite-only event or something. The possibilities that can happen are only positive, except from being ignored, but that risk is lower by doing this than writing "hey whats up?:))". However it is worth noting that I actually go to actual smaller parties (no translation for what we call it in my native language, but basically 6-12 people playing drinking games) every Friday with the boys and it's never happened that we haven't managed to bring over girls from Tinder. The worst thing that can happen is that they're not attractive.

Possibilities:

She says no, but she'll probably ask for your snap and if not you ask her and say she can drop by your event you're hosting next weekend (even if you're not actually hosting anything special). She'll get hyped up and will probably message you on Thursday, Friday, or even drunk at 2 am in the morning asking what you're doing.
She says yes and goes to the club. Just say you went to something else but you're still hosting the afterparty. She'll come to the apartment you're chilling in with your friends, and she'll probably bring a few friends too.
She doesn't come to the club but comes to the afterparty. The afterparty might be worse than you painted it up to be but just act chill and say you felt like taking it easy tonight. This works in your favour because it makes it look like you have the opportunity to actually go to sick high-status exclusive events but you just sorta don't feel like it.

Additional tips:

Act like it's exclusive and ask "How many people are you bringing with you?" and "Who are they?" in a patronising douchebag way. It'll make it seem like it's exclusive when you're actually sitting in an apartment with a few of your friends drinking and watching YouTube videos while waiting for the ladies.
Bring girls who are attractive but are younger, have lower status, or are lower in the socioeconomic ladder than you. They're usually easier.
Don't be an actual douchebag, seriously. My initial impression of a lot of guys on TRP is that they might have been nerds or haven't gotten much attention from girls. You've already made them believe you're super cool by doing everything above, if you're an asshole because you think it'll make them more attracted to you it'll only work short-term when they're drunk. If you manage to get laid you don't want them to wake up with regret and never snap you again. You don't know the girls, they could be batshit crazy and report you.

I mean, if you really wanna step up your playboy game to embarrassing levels you can also do what I do and put an emoji or a symbol at the front of their names on snapchat or whatever app you use for messaging. That way you can sort out the hottest girls from the less attractive girls to least attractive girls. I usually put a *** for super hot, ** for hot, and a * for everyone else. When you reach 300+ girls on your Snapchat and at least 5 wanna come over every night it gets hard to keep track on which are hot and which are just kinda hot.

Dirty trick TL;DR: Say you've booked a table at the most exclusive club in town and that you're hosting an afterparty and tell them to drop by (even if it's not a party but just you and a few friends drinking). Doesn't matter if you go there or not. They'll probably come to the "afterparty" because they think you're rich anyways. If they're disappointed just say "yeah we we're gonna go to X, but we felt like taking it easy, we've got a business meeting tomorrow" like you're responsible and have an important job or something.

Didn't really mean to write this much but only know realise how elaborate my technique is. Took me maybe 5-6 months to build up a huge contact list of girls from Tinder.

UnlockYourInnerAlpha · 2018-08-09T17:47:43+00:00

Send the gifs in my tinder days they usually worked

it_takes_the_redpill · 2018-08-09T18:39:07+00:00

For openers:

Asking to go straight to text is too much to soon.

Make a funny remark or ask a question that is related to either her bio (I'd it exists and isn't generic crap) or the content of one of her pictures.

Banter for a few messages, and bring up doing something together. If she doesn't shut down your idea, hit her with something along the lines of "Sweet, shoot me your number and we'll work out the details."

No need to mention why you want to take it off tinder. Tell her to give you her number when you believe she's receptive to the command.

I skipped the "how to banter" advice, because that's more situation specific and takes longer than a comment to explain. But that's the flow of the conversation in a nutshell that gets me from "hello" to "give me your number".

And again, can't stress it enough, you'll get way more numbers commanding them to give the number than asking for it.

SauliusTRP · 2018-08-09T17:29:10+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8ntlth/how_to_really_succeed_at_tinder_not_just_another/

trp369 · 2018-08-09T19:24:24+00:00

Ignore all walls of text for Tinder guides. To succeed you must have very attractive pictures meaning you must be very attractive. If you get 5 matches while even paying for it you are not very attractive

HannibalBacara · 2018-08-10T01:37:47+00:00

Fuck tinder. Hop on Hinge. As someone who’s had pretty good success on tinder the last 4-5 years let me tell you it’s terrible now. So many bots, and they just try to get you to sign up for the paid version but giving you a bunch of matches when you first make your account then giving you none after a few days.

Hinge is better for so many reasons:

Firstly, purely anecdotal evidence here but at least around me the girls on Hinge are much hotter.
You have to post answers to 3 of a pool of questions on your bio. Allows you to come up with some funny answers.
When you “like” someone’s profile you can give a comment on one of their pictures or answers to their 3 questions.
When you like someone’s profile it gives them a notification and vice a versa. No getting matched 2 weeks after like tinder because you finally popped up in their stack.

Title	Tinder tips
Author	ChadTheWaiter100
Upvotes	1
Comments	26
Date	August 9, 2018 5:26 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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