Tinder

medik13 · 2016-01-22T03:24:50+00:00

your game seems really weird to me, lighten up and enjoy yourself man. "ok coffee at my place then"

Letsbeserioushere · 2016-01-22T04:02:30+00:00

Be more direct. Instead of asking if she wants to get coffee, tell her to come get coffee.

Read up on some of the text game and online dating threads on TRP

AFPJ · 2016-01-22T05:19:09+00:00

TL;DR Learn to ask questions / prompt conversation by making statements.

how could I just stay over instead of actually taking her out like she wants me to.

Here's your convo, I'm going to give some notes, examples and overall perspective on the matter.

OP: Sup
Her: Not much just chillen
Her: You
OP: Same
OP: What are u looking for?
Not the best thing to ask ...but not the worst. Translation: are u a hoe.
Her: Jus going with the flow
Translation: yeah but I won't say it, I'm also very possibly maybe DTF right now.
OP: Where do u live?
You clearly got the message, lol. So far so good
Her: Oak cliff
OP: U live alone?
Even if you live with your parents, don't ask this. Ever. You don't care. If your place won't work, your car will. Where you're gonna fuck should already be planned - if you don't have this figured out, don't message a chick
Her: No
OP: U have a child?
Her: No lol
Whats with all the questions
She's super into you and dtf but even so you only asking questions makes this convo super dry / interrogation style
OP: U have a baby bottle emoji on your ig
Her: After my age
Her: Yeah I'm being sarcastic like im a baby i "cant" drink
OP: Ok
OP: What r u up to?
Her: Just home hanging out
Her: Hbu
OP: Same
OP: U want to meet for coffee?
Her: I don't have a car :/
OP: That sucks
Her: Unless you want to pick me up
Translation: THATS LITERALLY WHAT THIS MEANS.

Pick her up, let her get coffee, get some tea, tell her about a cool spot you wanna show her, drive there, park & fuck her. Don't ask her if she's down to fuck in the car ...just start making out and keep bringin the heat, she'll be down.

Anyways, chick seems into you, you don't have to get coffee for yourself if you hate it that much but you will need to give her some sort of excuse / help her lie to herself so she can fuck you - it's really, really obvious that she wants to.

TRPdating · 2016-01-22T11:01:20+00:00

Asking if they live alone is super creepy, like murderer shit.

Title	Tinder
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	January 22, 2016 2:58 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/423kxg/tinder/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/tinder.187215 https://theredarchive.com/post/187215

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