First, are BPD women outwardly obvious? This chick has no scars, tattoos, piercings etc. She has a successful job and makes good money and worked all over the world. However i suspect from her behaviour she may have this.

Now i know everyone says “run”. Im not sure of sue has it but would like to see any signs from experienced people. Personally i kind of need a but of a rollercoaster to feel anything at all, maybe have some issues myself, and have no problem holding frame.

One thing i have noticed is that she tests where she stands a lot, trying hard to get an emotional reaction from me(sign of investment?), as we are not in any commitment which she knows.