Tips for communicating with Hyper insecure women?

fuzzyface1980 · 2016-05-17T06:01:50+00:00

Read the side bar's mandatory curriculum. Super insecure to me means she's feral, doesn't have much self-awareness and is easily manipulated.

TRP is highly accurate for women that aren't very bright; women that lead by their emotions as it sounds your ex-wife does. If you want tips, just order I Feel Guilty When I Say No. That book will be all the tips you need to navigate your son's mother.

opening_eyes · 2016-05-17T15:53:46+00:00

She is just crying, etc., to get her way. A friend of mine was a Nice Guy during marriage. Post divorce he more or less swallowed the pill and stands up for himself and what he wants with his ex. He is direct, but willing to compromise if the compromise is fair. She reeeeaaly doesnt like that he is no longer under her thumb.

She has claimed to him (and others) he is "being mean," controlling, "not over me," etc. Her tactics when a shared custody issue pop up include that she wails in hysterics, avoids contact, screams, and pretty much lies about past agreed upon deals on a weekly basis.

A recent example from last weekend: he was owed money and demonstrated it. They communicate back and forth rapidly via text until it is clear she is on the "losing" end of the issue and she simply stops contact via text unannounced. No "i gotta go we will deal with this later," or any postponement like that. Just no contact. He sends 3 texts over the next hour starting from "hello? You there?" and going to "are just abandoning this conversation?"

The next morning her dad shows up on his porch demanding he stop harassing her and her mom shows up with a mens health hotline number.

I guess there is no advice here. Keep it in writing so there is a paper trail.

ecosci · 2016-05-20T00:10:35+00:00

Forget about pleasing her thats why she cheated women love to serve alpha men its natural, it sounds like you really need to moved on but you gotta pull it together i always say women will destroy marriages,friendships and jobs to get dominant alpha tingles so start being a true leader she is feeling guilty about the affair but society says were equal and thats wrong so women lose attraction for you because they need to be dominated which is what alphas do set some boundaries and she will follow its a shame alot of guys get cheated on because they were told nice guys win which is false,you see attraction is its own entity it doesnt care about nice,money,mortgage the reason why the badboy wins he creates so much attraction women cant resist most of the time dont take her back your post has alot to do with oneitis but stand your ground and dont look back some women will love the new version of yourself.

AZTRP · 2016-05-17T17:17:59+00:00

Can you afford a lawyer/mediator to handle those communications for you until things are finalized on paper?

With your son as a priority, and the way you described interactions, it might be best to put separation between you and the emotional manipulation tactics.

Title	Tips for communicating with Hyper insecure women?
Author	DirkDieGurke
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	May 17, 2016 5:23 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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