My situation is similar to the post on the front page of this subreddit right now by the user RelucBeam
I'm cheating and lying to my plates that I'm exclusive to them. I've tried being honest right from the first date but either women end the date the moment you mention you're non exclusive or they agree to something casual and then two weeks or two months down the line, they say they can't picture you with someone else and want exclusivity.
I feel except the girls who are total sluts (the openly overly slutty kind because I know plenty are hidden sluts too), most girls who are worthy to be a plate or LTR, cannot handle non-exclusivity. Because it goes against their deepest urge, which is to lockdown one high value man. And when that man says hey I want to bang 5 other girls too, it just breaks their hamster and sooner or later the non-exclusive thing crumbles.
And this is in direct lockheads with male's chief objective, which is to bed as many hot young girls as possible. Which pushes a man to either lie of exclusivity or lose the plates. And I've chosen the path of lying.
On TRP, I've noticed two very different stances on this, one goes "hey you're a total beta for lying. only the scum of the earth low level male would do that. Tell the upfront, be honest etc etc'. The second stance goes 'hey its no big deal. TRP is amoral. Women lie about most things anyway. They rather share you. They want to be lied to etc etc'
So I'm hoping if we can have an discussion on this. On TRP's take on cheating and outright lying to your partner about exclusivity. I don't know if this goes against the rule. I was going to post it as a question aimed at my personal situation and dilemmas but after seeing the other post on the front page about this same topic, I just wanted to open the topic to a bit broader discussion because there is no place else I can discuss this with people with red pilled perspectives and I feel it would benefit a lot of us here.
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