TRP approach with virgin girls

TheOuterRing · 2015-08-28T17:02:25+00:00

Well it's her first time with sex. Don't supply her the stereotype that all men are pigs and want sex.

They're going to require special warming up. All virgins are. They've never done this before but have been told so many different things so many different times that they might draw back at times. Has nothing to do with being a slut. Just has to do with they'll either remember it as a fantastic experience, or feel like all men are douches and just want in your pants. It's a sensitive moment.

Be careful and don't feel entitled to her virginity just because you're feeling "alpha." She's a person too. And if she's a virgin that means there's a chance to salvage her and prevent her from joining the CC. Show some respect to her and you'll get it back, which will lead to trust and getting laid.

RedPillJax · 2015-08-28T19:11:14+00:00

My take on this is this:

What does the virgin have that anyone else doesn't? Is she a rockin' 10/10 HB500000? If she's not going to make me enter into a relationship or provide any kind of commitment to get in there, then sure - this is a situation where if I really, really want her - I'll put in a bit of legwork and game to make it happen.

However, if she wants commitment first, she's making me play the only card I have. Men control commitment, women control sex. If I'm giving up the power, what's the incentive for her to ever give up hers?

GenPork · 2015-08-28T15:31:43+00:00

I've been in a similar boat, but my take has been that they deserve more patience- it is, after all, a big deal to them.

I'll assume you're talking about an actual person though. Are you looking for an LTR with this girl or just want to plate her?

Mr_Get_Right · 2015-08-28T15:54:10+00:00

I like to stop to consider if I've hit a point where I'm the kind of guy who deserves to be her first. Like, can I offer her the full emotional experience, instead of just being another pump and dump. My first time was amazing, and was with another virgin. I don't want to cheat someone that same feeling.

Archwinger · 2015-08-28T17:32:39+00:00

If a woman is that attracted to you and that into you, virgin or not, escalating and sex will feel like a natural thing to her. Like a normal extension of talking, touching, and being with you. It almost won't be a big deal at all.

That's the theoretical ideal, though.

In the real world, you'll rarely mesh that well with a girl, and in our sexualized society, she'll be fixated on the act of giving it up. You're still playing the same game, though. You interact with her and escalate the same way you would with any other girl. Just be mindful that she's more likely to stop you than a random slut. So you pull away like usual, try again next time (after building more attraction and comfort). Life goes on.

Sementeries · 2015-08-28T20:10:54+00:00

Let somebody else take her virginity. Too much drama.

abdada · 2015-08-28T15:29:17+00:00

Yes.

Searchbar for virgin next time you want to post a question asked 15x a day.

ThrowingMyslfOutther · 2015-08-28T18:21:23+00:00

How old are you?

Title	TRP approach with virgin girls
Author	mike4855
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Date	August 28, 2015 3:25 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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