I’m summarizing a lot and leaving parts out, you can fill in the details with your imagination. I met with this girl I consider a friend to do schoolwork. We worked for a couple hours while laughing, and talking with heavy kino and sexual vibe the whole time.

All green lights so far.

Post schoolwork we went to a private place to chill We’d discussed her giving me head in the past and she would always reply in good fun with something along the lines of ‘yeah in your dreams’. Standard.

All green lights so far.

Naturally the conversation escalates to her giving me head and I basically told her it was time to put her money where her mouth is (I’d heard stories from her about how great she is at giving head and whatnot). She told me earlier during the day that she doesn’t like it when guys ask permission before doing stuff (obviously).

All green lights so far.

Basically I held her hand and tried to put it on my dick area but she wasn’t into it so I backed off and laughed it off and went for the kiss instead, a brief 1 second at most kiss and she laughed. Then I jokingly said ok “I’ll give you head then” and flipped her on her back (she was sitting on a table and I was standing between her legs) she was laughing and having a great time (Being lead with the bonus of FREE validation from me). She very surprisingly was still cold to the idea of oral. No biggie.

Things got a little awkward after that and we ended up leaving to go home and that was the end of the day.

Once I got home I got a snap from her friend about how I should never ever pressure a girl into doing things she doesn’t want to do and that I always need to ask for permission and I shouldn’t have kissed her and pressured her friend into giving me head and then left angrily when she wouldn’t comply with my demands. She seemed very upset. Meanwhile the girl is assuring me everything is fine.

I’m getting the bad feeling that I’m going to get labeled with a bad reputation as someone who doesn’t respect girls’ consent and is desperate for head and shit like that that is entirely not true. I’m in high school and I’m physically shaking at the idea that everyone was told about what happened.

I need any advice I can get about how to deal with this, if possible how to contain the story from going viral and what I did wrong here and how to avoid it next time. Thanks in advance.