I am a rising high school senior who recently discovered TRP. I am not completely on board with the theory, but the sexual strategies and self improvement strategies suggested by RedPillers make a lot of sense to me. Anyway, I understand that lifting is a pillar of TRP. As an almost 17 year-old who is more like a 15 year-old in terms of puberty (I’m a late bloomer), I would like some guidance on where I should go from here in terms of lifting. After going on r/leangains and reading Martin Berkhan’s article, I determined that I had a mild case of fuckarounditis. Honestly, my two main problems with getting started are:

  1. I don’t know what lifts I should be focusing on. I know that squats, deadlifts, and benching are really important, but I’m still growing and I’m not sure if I should be going all-out yet. I went to a gym with a couple of guys awhile ago, and they said that my squat form was really bad, and I don’t necessarily think my other lifts are solid either. Is it okay to do squats, benching and deadlifts if your form isn’t 100% perfect?

  2. The gym can get boring at times. I’ve lost the sensation of satisfaction when completing a set and I struggle to get the signature ‘high’ after lifting that I used to. How can I make my workouts more exciting? I get that I need to have somewhat of a rigid routine, but if there are options to have more flexibility in a workout plan, link me to those.

Other than that, I’m trying to become acclimated to these ideas. I don’t know if the fact that I have a high voice and a relatively skinny fat body due to me not going through puberty would hurt my chances of getting girls, and I’m wondering on how I can improve my chances when I start working and interning this summer and when go to community college next year as a senior. I also have high-functioning autism, but it’s so minor that you couldn’t notice it if you met me - my twin brother has more moderate autism and people ask me if there’s something “wrong” with him and don’t think I have it. However, I could probably still have so minor difficulties with the social aspect of game, so if anyone has some tips for me in that regard I would be grateful.

If you got here after reading this fucking novel, thanks for sticking around lol

TL:DR - Almost 17-year old needs help starting lifting routine/improving socially w/ girls