Two flakes

[deleted] · 2016-04-01T09:12:11+00:00

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SeekingTheWay · 2016-04-01T08:53:51+00:00

You say nothing and move on with your life to other girls.

Phyzis · 2016-04-01T07:53:48+00:00

I say bye.

BlackPhoenix01 · 2016-04-01T11:44:02+00:00

A very similar thing happened to me a couple months ago.

Stop thinking about her and pivot your attention elsewhere, other girls or otherwise.

But if you must (and I stress must as a last resort), ask to hang out again, but say 'last chance' at the end. If she fucks up again, you know what she's worth

Colossus_of_Clout · 2016-04-01T13:22:10+00:00

One word. Next.

[deleted] · 2016-04-01T14:54:48+00:00

Nothing, hard next, move on.

fnordsnord · 2016-04-01T14:58:13+00:00

Soft next. Don't tell her ANYTHING. Let her sit for at LEAST ten days. I'd go three weeks to a month, then game as usual.

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-04-01T16:13:03+00:00

There is nothing to discuss here. The ONLY option you have is to move on and ignore her. Otherwise you will come off as a bluepill chump. Have some personal integrity.

disposable_pants · 2016-04-01T19:20:00+00:00

If she actually is interested in you, she will feel bad and will take the effort to reschedule. If she does not take the effort to reschedule, the most likely reason is that she's not interested in you and only "agreed" to the first two dates to be polite.

batfish55 · 2016-04-01T12:07:04+00:00

I operate on the 'three strikes, you're out' rule.

One flake is chance.

Two flakes is coincidence.

Three times a conspiracy.

Same rule applies to # of "dates" before sexual activity. (a beej counts in my book)

But after twice, I might be silent for a little longer than usual. Perhaps make it clear when contact re-initiates that if she flakes this time, you're out.

Title	Two flakes
Author	CleverLime
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	April 1, 2016 7:42 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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