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fnordsnord · 2015-02-13T01:20:48+00:00

She is getting "boyfriend" from you. Your constant texting is providing validation that she is a worthy mating prospect, even though her crappy boyfriend sucks. You are actually ENABLING her to stay in this relationship. You are spending time and emotional energy on her and you aren't getting what you want.

Go zero contact. Delete all of her contact information and quit being her beta bitch. Spend your time and energy on women who are interested in you and quit wasting it on this leech.

CouldntFindGudName · 2015-02-12T20:34:01+00:00

now we talk via text every day, all day, but we haven't hungout since.

You're her time hoe now.

Stop messaging.

The thing is I like having someone to talk to all day, but I know it won't end well.

You sound like you have nothing better to do in your life except talk to some cunt all day everyday.

I know she knows that my SMV is leaps and bounds ahead of this dude. I don't even think he has a job and he smokes pot all day. I'm in the process of applying to med school, I've got like a half a foot on the dude, and I'd murder him in any athletic competition you could think of.

You're overvaluing yourself then, it's your ego speaking. If you're as good you say you are then she'd be on your dick right now.

Talk some sense into me RP. I need it.

The last time you didn't listen to TRP what makes you think think you'll listen to TRP now?

Anyway, if you still need a suggestion then initiate a meet with her, escalate, and fuck her.

Under any cirumstances if she says "I just want to be friends." drop her.

I am not feeling well.

Drop her.

I read your previous post and there is some excellent advice there go reflect on it.

RedPillMeditations · 2015-02-12T22:59:05+00:00

Basically what everyone else has said.

She is using you for emotional support while she is still able to get her brains fucked out by her BF because he's her "BF".

I think you just anti-red pilled yourself.

Ask her to hang out. If you can't bang her, idk why you are still talking to her.

balalasaurus · 2015-02-13T00:20:26+00:00

Look up emotional tampon. That's you.

Cut contact with this girl. She'll probably come back to you after that. The problem is you've got oneitis and any come on from her will only lead to your betafication.

Lose her number. Move. Get her as far away from your mind as possible.

slater2j · 2015-02-13T00:38:15+00:00

"I'm busy" then don't reply. Wait a month. Ask her to come over. Escalate.

SkorchZang · 2015-02-13T06:42:21+00:00

I don't even think he has a job and he smokes pot all day. I'm in the process of applying to med school, I've got like a half a foot on the dude, and I'd murder him in any athletic competition you could think of.

If he treats her like a man (is a bit of a jerk, mysterious, doesn't take any of her shit, she can't control him) then none of the above matters, she'll still pick him over you bro. You'll get to listen to what an asshole this guy is, and she'll fuck him but not you.

You've been doting on her, breaking all the rules since you think you know better. Good luck, just don't be too surprised when it doesn't work out like it does in the movies.

I know she wants to branch swing

Dude, please. That's just delusional. They branchswing to Alpha Fux, she doesn't need to branch anything your way, you're already wrapped around her finger as is.

You don't want to be her friend. You want to fuck this girl. It's that moment when you wipe the drool and romantic bullshit rain off your scope, and get crystal clear sniper vision on your goal again.

Title	Update
Author	JimBeanery
Upvotes	3
Comments	24
Date	February 12, 2015 7:53 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2vono2/update/
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