Used for a bed

JackGetsIt · 2016-10-02T15:00:09+00:00

The minute she denies you should have kicked her out. Don't get used and don't get a false accusation. Or you should have just realized earlier what it was and not allowed her in the room in the first place. You are just confirming your beta status by letting her pay for your bed with a tit grab.

You could have non nonchalantly asked if she had condoms when she came in, and then if she said no, or I don't want sex just kick her out right there. It saves the awkwardness and the potential false accusation.

nightmancommeth · 2016-10-02T16:51:56+00:00

In the end you probly took one for team. You kick her out she grabs her friend which your friend is banging and they leave.

Solid wingman play here.

Kalepsis · 2016-10-02T19:11:07+00:00

Deny=kick. She has every right to not have sex with you, but at the same time, you have every right to not allow a freeloader who doesn't want to sleep on the floor or couch into your bed. You don't run a hostel.

stickfiguresk · 2016-10-02T15:10:12+00:00

This isn't LMR, at all. Its a hard no from a spoiled brat and a pussy pass. Kick her out.

RedSkeller · 2016-10-02T14:47:15+00:00

I'd say be more aggressive and if you're being denied then kick her out

inspiron3000 · 2016-10-02T16:32:24+00:00

You report it as rape.

mbillion · 2016-10-02T17:09:14+00:00

period

burzuei · 2016-10-02T21:32:21+00:00

In your case, the moment she came to your room I'd start teasing her that she has to leave, because I won't share a bed with her. Teasing like in a flirting way (I'm not sure if that's still english) part is important - if she's interested, she'll start flirting back at you and you can try to escalate from that. If she's not interested (as you were suspecting) then situation is clear from the beginning: you told her you won't share. She might try to hamster you into "but I thought you were kidding, you were just teasing me!", and then it's all about holding your frame.

All_Ads_Deceive · 2016-10-02T21:54:16+00:00

Should have went like this: (Girl gets in your bed) Y: What are you doing? H: Sleeping Y: Go sleep on the couch H: giggles and ignores Y: I'm serious, get out of my bed H: (get out of bed to leave room) Y: (Step in front go in for kiss) If she rejects let her leave, if she's down it's fuck time

Title	Used for a bed
Author	-Petulance
Upvotes	13
Comments	16
Date	October 2, 2016 2:24 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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